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Charming wrote: "Josh wrote: "The first read through, I gave up on it. Johanna. You have to be in the right frame of mind for that one. "
For Tinseltown you mean? What is the right frame of mind? I have it but h..."
Patient and light hearted. :-)
For Tinseltown you mean? What is the right frame of mind? I have it but h..."
Patient and light hearted. :-)
KC wrote: "Becky wrote: "I've only read the first Strachey book so far, and I found it tough going. A book written in and set during the late 70s/early 80s in the gay community is very different from a book ..."
The Don in the books is tough, capable, resourceful -- a strong, mature man and a very good PI. The Don in the movies feels much younger, much more emotional, much less tough and resilient.
The Don in the books is tough, capable, resourceful -- a strong, mature man and a very good PI. The Don in the movies feels much younger, much more emotional, much less tough and resilient.

This is perfect. It's Cesar Chavez day so I have no classes. I can lounge around and read this all day."
I'm envious!!! You ordered the paperback, r..."
I don't know what's going on but I'm thinking since I pre ordered it on Riptide I was able to download it today.

And Timmy like a stupid hysterical little wreck *cough*."
Hm... I will wait with the movies then... I don't want to see them differently just yet :-)

http://www.blindeyebooks.com/rifter/
I've just preordered it.

I had a similar reaction you did when I read The Gay Haunt (1970) a couple of years ago. The trick is to put yourself in the right frame of mind and time period.
I just finished reading Death Trick and quite enjoyed it. The flavor is different from the later books and the movies, but it's interesting to see how much has changed in those 30 years.

Riptide made Touch and Geaux available early as an incentive to get people to vote for Abi vs Nalini Singh on Dabwaha. That's why you can get it now.
Johanna wrote: "Karen wrote: "I've had Third You Die for awhile now, and finally started reading it. I do very much like this series, but again have to be in a mood. I'm there now. ;-)"
This is one of the paperbacks I had been saving for my vacation and then I didn't have time to read it.
I'm definitely interested in hearing how you liked it! :) "
I finished today (day off). I've really liked these books, but have to be in a mood that tolerates Kevin's manic internal monologues. I have enjoyed the series. Sherman creates quite an ensemble group, some I want to hug, some I want to slap, some I want to do both, in varying orders. Sherman dances along that delicate balance between pushing it and too much. I mean too much high/low humor, coincidence, and trouble that one small guy with a heart of gold and a strong libido can get himself into and out of. It works for me somehow, even as I suspend disbelief (but I want to believe!) for the over the top resolutions in this one. Definitely worth a read.
This is one of the paperbacks I had been saving for my vacation and then I didn't have time to read it.
I'm definitely interested in hearing how you liked it! :) "
I finished today (day off). I've really liked these books, but have to be in a mood that tolerates Kevin's manic internal monologues. I have enjoyed the series. Sherman creates quite an ensemble group, some I want to hug, some I want to slap, some I want to do both, in varying orders. Sherman dances along that delicate balance between pushing it and too much. I mean too much high/low humor, coincidence, and trouble that one small guy with a heart of gold and a strong libido can get himself into and out of. It works for me somehow, even as I suspend disbelief (but I want to believe!) for the over the top resolutions in this one. Definitely worth a read.

I LOVE Kevin's mom! LOVE her! The second book was just hilarious.
Candice wrote: "I've got a nice rec for you: LAYING A GHOST by Jane Davitt and somebody else. Takes place on a Scottish island, current day, although it's hard to tell. A life-long resident, jack of all trades, ..."
Thanks, Candice. I read the excerpt and bought it. Did some shopping today and I'm still deciding where to start reading, but I definitely let you know how it goes.
Thanks, Candice. I read the excerpt and bought it. Did some shopping today and I'm still deciding where to start reading, but I definitely let you know how it goes.

I totally read that as power ups, I've got gaming on the mind.
In regards to the Strachey books, should you read them in order?"
So far with this series i'm glad i read them in order, you get to know the characters better, but the mysteries are independent.

anything to get out of it.
The big misunderstanding! Nnnnooooooooooooo!!!!!!!

In self defense I must armor myself with good writing. I am going to dig out my current knitting project and plug back into my All She Wrote audiobook.
Whew. Crisis averted, or at least differed (if I pick that book back up again).
I wonder. Has Nichole done a Binky essay on The Big Misunderstanding? :)
Susinok wrote: "I wonder. Has Nichole done a Binky essay on The Big Misunderstanding? :) "
Close: The Plot Zombie. http://www.reviewsbyjessewave.com/201...
Close: The Plot Zombie. http://www.reviewsbyjessewave.com/201...
Karen wrote: "Sherman creates quite an ensemble group, some I want to hug, some I want to slap, some I want to do both, in varying orders. Sherman dances along that delicate balance between pushing it and too much. I mean too much high/low humor, coincidence, and trouble that one small guy with a heart of gold and a strong libido can get himself into and out of."
Thank you for your post, Karen. I loved your description above! That's so spot on!!! :-)
Thank you for your post, Karen. I loved your description above! That's so spot on!!! :-)
Antonella wrote: "Preorder link for everything Rifter, including Book Three:
http://www.blindeyebooks.com/rifter/
I've just preordered it."
Me too. Thanks for posting the link, Antonella. :-)
http://www.blindeyebooks.com/rifter/
I've just preordered it."
Me too. Thanks for posting the link, Antonella. :-)

http://www.blindeyebooks.com/rifter/
I've just preordered it."
Me too. Thanks for posting the link, Antonella. :-)"
You are welcome. I've just found out they are losing money by shipping it to Europe, so the least I can do is a bit of advertising...
Antonella wrote: "You are welcome. I've just found out they are losing money by shipping it to Europe, so the least I can do is a bit of advertising..."
Oh, really? I'm happy to pay extra, so they won't lose any money. *runs to Ginn and Nicole*
Oh, really? I'm happy to pay extra, so they won't lose any money. *runs to Ginn and Nicole*

Close: The Plot Zombie. http://www.reviewsbyjessewave.com/201......"
Yes, I loved The Plot Zombie! That one was great, as always.

In self defense I must armor myself with good writing. I am going to dig out my current knitting project and plug back into my All She Wrote audiobook.
Whew. Crisis averted..."
Sounds like a very good crisis aversion strategy :)
I can't stand the BIG MISUNDERSTANDING... i find it so frustrating.
What is your knitting project? i was listening yesterday to CUTYS and knitting a hat with owls :)
KC wrote: " was listening yesterday to CUTYS and knitting a hat with owls :)"
Aaaww... owls... for some reason I find this extremely appropriate! :-)
Aaaww... owls... for some reason I find this extremely appropriate! :-)

When I hear CUTYS, all I think of are little tangerines. What is CUTYS?
Joe wrote: "KC wrote: " was listening yesterday to CUTYS and knitting a hat with owls :)"
When I hear CUTYS, all I think of are little tangerines. What is CUTYS?"
LOL! It's Josh's Come Unto These Yellow Sands. :-)
When I hear CUTYS, all I think of are little tangerines. What is CUTYS?"
LOL! It's Josh's Come Unto These Yellow Sands. :-)

This I have to see! Is the pattern on Ravelry?"
Yes, probably, ... do you want me to send you the pattern?

Aaaww... owls... for some reason I find this extremely appropriate! :-)"
:-)

Hard to decide, isn't it? ;-)

I can't stand the BIG MISUNDERSTANDING... i find it so frustrating.
What is your knitting project? i was listening yesterday to CUTYS and knitting a hat with owls :) "
I am knitting a shawl with very yummy merino/cashmere/silk blend yarn. It's a simple pattern and I'm still in the easy part before the design begins. But I'm getting closer to the interesting bits of knitting.
I'm almost done with All She Wrote. I had a lot of report time at work today.

I don't know about the book, but the movie was absolutely interesting to say the least. And I liked Diane Torr as a person.
Please notice that the idea is not to imitate a man for a day (and viceversa), or to perpetuate stereotypes and binary roles, but to experience how are we perceived from others. The participants to the workshop are encouraged to go out, observe the male postures and create a character to impersonate.
Diane Torr's idea is that gender is constructed. We can deconstruct it, play with it or just be aware of it.
For ex. do you notice that as woman you tend to speak low? Or to say ''sorry'' a lot, even when it isn't necessary? Ot that men tend to occupy space?
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I can't stand the BIG MISUNDERSTANDING... i find it so frustrating.
What is your knitting project? i was listening yesterday to CUTYS ..."
I like the merino blends, very easy to work with and pretty and soft.
I'm almost in the middle of the CUTYS audio, i don't want it to end...
Afterwards, looking fw to All she wrote :-)

I know, but I never heard of anybody doing something concrete like these workshops instead of writing books on the subject.




Threats to their masculinity.
Whereas men are immediately perceived as threats by women, mainly threats to their bodily integrity: if I'm walking at night in a desert street, I hear someone behind me and I see it is a woman I can relax.


High heels create a "helpless" gait, for example, and worse if you're drunk. It's not at all about the sexism of "She wore heels, she DESERVED IT", it was about how seeing a person in high heels walk triggers the "oh, victim!" circuit in a brain that's LOOKING for a victim. Being small, slight, walking in an insecure, slow way, and drunk/drugged ticks most boxes. It's why self-defense classes teach you to "square up" - it radiates confidence, protects you, shoulders are down (not rounded), hands are open and slightly lifted (a little curled if you like, I prefer mine open, Aikido-style), and you stay light on your feet. I'm lucky in how tall and broad-shouldered I am - I'm very rarely coded as "victim". And I think gender plays into it all. Women are trained/socialised to behave in a way that's "girlish"/"immature" and, sadly, then pressed the "victim" button. Which is horrid on so many levels.

Absolutely. When there is snow I'm unhappy to have to take a train instead of my bike to go home from the city center because sometimes I meet youths who already had enough to drink...

I grew up in a "socially deprived" part of Germany (post-industrial wasteland, with the fifth highest crime rate in Germany) and have never felt so insecure/threatened on the streets as in the UK. I can navigate that, but I'm also fit enough to either run or fight (and there are MANY easier victims out there). It's quite sobering.

I always try to do the square up thing (what's helped me a lot there is doing a bit of training in natural horsemanship a few years back, where you have to use your body language alone to convey to horses what they're supposed to do - it's amazing how aware of body posture and its expressive value you become) - not only when walking home alone, but especially in professional areas, e.g., when I'm giving talks, defend my opinion, present my data, etc. A lot of (particularly female) students/budding scientists that I've seen make the mistake of showing their insecurity in their body posture - which leads to people inadvertently thinking that their lower confidence is based on lower competence. Huge mistake.
When I'm walking home alone at night, though, I usually think that I can square up all I want - I'm still 5' 2'' and weigh less than 115 lbs. Objectively speaking, I AM a pretty easy target.

I can come home at 2 o' clock without feeling unquiet. And the thing with the youths in the train is just unpleasant, but for sure not a threat.

I can come home at 2 o' clock without feeling unquiet. And the thing with the youths in the train is just unpleasant, but for sure not a threat."
It very much depends where exactly you are, here. In the parts of Hamburg I've lived (or I've visited) coming home late is usually not a problem - there always enough people outside, anyway, which gives some sense of security. Underground stations are something completely different, though, those can be pretty uncomfortable. And there are some parts of the city where I'd rather not go at night.

In terms of gender, what's really interesting is voice pitch. British women, by and large, speak with a much higher pitch than I'm used from, say, German women. To my ear, again, that sounds "immature/girlish". And I've caught myself assuming that means that they are stupid/immature. Which is amusing when a super-girly, squeaky financial journalist hands you your ass. :)

Yes, that, the "squaring up", defusing and so on: I've learned them in self-defense classes for women which I warmly recommend: http://www.wendo.ca/home.php.
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Of the first three that i read so far, i liked Death trick and Ice blues b..."
Me too :-)