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Darkm wrote: "And I'm missing reading: I had laser surgery for my eyes, and I still need to read very little and then let the eyes rest."
That's so cool, Darkm! Congrats! :)
Don't hurry with the reading and don't panic if your sight isn't perfect right away. I had the laser surgery six years ago and it's probably one of the best decisions I've made — but it took me two to three months after the surgery before I could see clearly. On the other hand hubby's sight was perfect the moment he walk away from the surgery room. ;)
That's so cool, Darkm! Congrats! :)
Don't hurry with the reading and don't panic if your sight isn't perfect right away. I had the laser surgery six years ago and it's probably one of the best decisions I've made — but it took me two to three months after the surgery before I could see clearly. On the other hand hubby's sight was perfect the moment he walk away from the surgery room. ;)

Anyway I'm glad it work out well for both of you.

That's so cool, Darkm! Congrats! :)
Don't hurry with the ..."
Johanna, I'm very interested in laser surgery for eyes as I get fed up with manipulating three different sets of spectacles - one for normal, one for reading, and one for the computer/laptop. I'd not heard that it could take a few months to settle down. Were you able to correct your vision using specs during that period? And did you and your husband have different eye problems, and is that anything to do with the difference in the immediate effectiveness of the surgery?
Sorry to bombard you with questions while you're getting ready for your hols - do answer on your return if you prefer (always assuming that you don't mind divulging these details).

I was ~3.5 short-sighted on both eyes and had moderate astigmatism. All that is gone now, even the astigmatism has been pretty much corrected.

Thank you Aleks! And does the correction last forever?


Thank you.

Thank you, and thanks Johanna, you both reassured me:)
My eyes are fine externally, and I had no pain except the day of the surgery, but one eye still doesn't see clearly at all, so they said I could need to have it redone in 3 months (I hope not!).
HJ usually after surgery even if your eyes aren't 100% perfect you don't use glasses because they need to learn.
But it doesn't correct, as far as I understand, the fact that you may need reading glasses with time.


Thank you :) and LOL, I hear you.
To be honest, the first laser was the worse for me, for the feeling of pressure, the second one I didn't really feel anything, so I was hoping it would be only that one!


I think I was tired of having glasses, and really wanted to see well since the first time I wore glasses I wasn't even two years old.
Darkm wrote: "Aleksandr wrote: "Darkm - Oh wow, you did it? Congrats! How are you feeling?"
Thank you, and thanks Johanna, you both reassured me:)
My eyes are fine externally, and I had no pain except the day ..."
If the surgery has been done to you just recently, don't worry about the other eye yet. (Although I know it's easier said than done — I felt quite miserable after two months, when my eye sight was far worse than it was before the laser surgery!) If my sight wouldn't have improved they would have re-operated my eyes after six months.
And to also answer Hj's question: I haven't used my specs after the surgery (not even during the bad period just after the operation). The problem with my eyes was that my sight had been overcorrected with specs for years. My specs were ~4.5 (short-sighted) and it turned out just before the operation that my real eye sight was ~3.5 short-sighted. So my eye muscles were adjusted to overcorrection and that's why it took such a long time for my eye sight to normalize.
I don't want to scare anyone with this story — maybe this sounds silly, but having the laser surgery was one of the best things I've done during my adult years. Those of you who have specs (or several of them, like Hj does) probably understand what I mean. At first it felt like a miracle to wake up in the morning and to be able to SEE everything clearly!!! :)
Thank you, and thanks Johanna, you both reassured me:)
My eyes are fine externally, and I had no pain except the day ..."
If the surgery has been done to you just recently, don't worry about the other eye yet. (Although I know it's easier said than done — I felt quite miserable after two months, when my eye sight was far worse than it was before the laser surgery!) If my sight wouldn't have improved they would have re-operated my eyes after six months.
And to also answer Hj's question: I haven't used my specs after the surgery (not even during the bad period just after the operation). The problem with my eyes was that my sight had been overcorrected with specs for years. My specs were ~4.5 (short-sighted) and it turned out just before the operation that my real eye sight was ~3.5 short-sighted. So my eye muscles were adjusted to overcorrection and that's why it took such a long time for my eye sight to normalize.
I don't want to scare anyone with this story — maybe this sounds silly, but having the laser surgery was one of the best things I've done during my adult years. Those of you who have specs (or several of them, like Hj does) probably understand what I mean. At first it felt like a miracle to wake up in the morning and to be able to SEE everything clearly!!! :)

Aleksandr wrote: "Pretty much. The thing is, as you age, your eyes get weaker, so I will likely need glasses again for near vision (like, reading glasses)."
Yep. I'll probably need reading glasses after few years, I suspect. But that's quite alright — because reading glasses are sexy! ;)
Yep. I'll probably need reading glasses after few years, I suspect. But that's quite alright — because reading glasses are sexy! ;)
Aleksandr wrote: "Johanna - I agree. Best money I've ever spent apart from buying my house. It's a huge, huge improvement in your quality of life. Just being able to see in the rain or when glasses would have fogged..."
Exactly! It's so much easier to do sports, to go swimming, etc. without glasses. And when you live in a place where it's cold outside for so many months, you don't have to suffer with the glasses that fog over every time you go inside! And yes, for a Londoner, to see in the rain! ;)
Exactly! It's so much easier to do sports, to go swimming, etc. without glasses. And when you live in a place where it's cold outside for so many months, you don't have to suffer with the glasses that fog over every time you go inside! And yes, for a Londoner, to see in the rain! ;)

WoW! Don't get me wrong; I've read and enjoyed my full share of BDSM & romantic porn, too, for that matter. I'm not turning my nose up at it. But the quality of m/m fiction is going up all the time, and I'm enjoying that.
Give this one a try. The POV is the "prince's" and we learn very quickly to root for and admire him. Laurent, his master, is harder to like for awhile, but that's all part of what makes the story unputdownable--that's a word; right? No?
Add to that, the politics, machiavellian machinations, the geography, various Peoples, tribes etc.--in other words, all the details that would come into play if this were an historical novel surrounding real events, are seriously thought through and threaded through the tale. GOOD READING. I can't wait for the next part to come out.


I am listening to Clear Water by Amy Lane. Some of the cruelty that Patrick has experienced seems even more harsh in audio than when I read the book.


And not to forget that it's a wonderful story as well. :)

That makes sense to me, Anne. It should definitely go to you first. Actually, I was thinking maybe I should bow out. For what it would cost to send to western Canada I can buy a copy.

..."
That’s so kind of you, Mr Lanyon, thank you. So braggi..."
That sounds wonderful. Congratulations, Caroline.

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That’s so kind of you, Mr Lanyon, thank you. So braggi..."
Oh wow, Caroline! Congratulations! And what beautiful praise!
Calathea wrote: "Just finished
Trick of Time by JL Merrow in the audio book edition. I saw it recommended to Johanna for her traveling south and got it for today when I had to dri..."
Sweeeeet! I downloaded it right away after Sylvia kindly recommended it and it's waiting on my iPhone. And I'm waiting in the airport for boarding to start. :) So glad to hear that you liked it, Calathea! And thank you, Sylvia!

Sweeeeet! I downloaded it right away after Sylvia kindly recommended it and it's waiting on my iPhone. And I'm waiting in the airport for boarding to start. :) So glad to hear that you liked it, Calathea! And thank you, Sylvia!

If you get a good internet connection it will be a bit like we are going on holiday! LOL!
Pender wrote: "Anne wrote: "Pender wrote: "Anne wrote: "Pender wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Pender wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Caroline wrote: "I finished As Meat loves Salt last night. This morning I still feel as if I'm..."
No way you are bowing out so easily! I'm sure that Anne is happy to send it to you. :)
No way you are bowing out so easily! I'm sure that Anne is happy to send it to you. :)
Antonella wrote: "Johanna wrote: "And I'm waiting in the airport for boarding to start. :)"
If you get a good internet connection it will be a bit like we are going on holiday! LOL!"
Yep. The first, short flight to Helsinki is over now and the next pitstop is in Frankfurt. We still have three hours in Helsinki airport to eat some lunch and pass time. Hubby is admiring airplanes and runway activity through the restaurant windows. Boys will be boys? ;)
If you get a good internet connection it will be a bit like we are going on holiday! LOL!"
Yep. The first, short flight to Helsinki is over now and the next pitstop is in Frankfurt. We still have three hours in Helsinki airport to eat some lunch and pass time. Hubby is admiring airplanes and runway activity through the restaurant windows. Boys will be boys? ;)

This girl watches her precious clothes being boarded. "That's my suitcase, that's my suitcase. Don't throw it like that, noooo, my shoes..."
Emanuela ~plastic duck~ wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Boys will be boys? ;)"
This girl watches her precious clothes being boarded. "That's my suitcase, that's my suitcase. Don't throw it like that, noooo, my shoes...""
LOL. That's so funny, because that's exactly what we were looking at a few minutes ago: guys throwing bags on the conveoyr belt leading into the cargo hull of a plane. Why on earth do they have to throw even the smallest bags so forcefully?
This girl watches her precious clothes being boarded. "That's my suitcase, that's my suitcase. Don't throw it like that, noooo, my shoes...""
LOL. That's so funny, because that's exactly what we were looking at a few minutes ago: guys throwing bags on the conveoyr belt leading into the cargo hull of a plane. Why on earth do they have to throw even the smallest bags so forcefully?

If you get a good internet connection it will be a bit like we are going on holiday! LOL!"
Yep. The fir..."
You're in Frankfurt today?! I'm near there today for the conference. It'll be a miss by 80km...
Calathea wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Antonella wrote: "Johanna wrote: "And I'm waiting in the airport for boarding to start. :)"
If you get a good internet connection it will be a bit like we are going on holiday! LOL..."
Ha! So this is the day I almost met Calathea! ;) Have fun at the conference! :)
If you get a good internet connection it will be a bit like we are going on holiday! LOL..."
Ha! So this is the day I almost met Calathea! ;) Have fun at the conference! :)

Well, let's make sure it's been to everyone that's closer before we send it across the pond. :)
Have a fabulous vacation. As my daughter would say, "I'm so jelly."

And then maybe the book can take a tour of the North American continent? :)

That sounds logical to me. :) Maybe we could leave inside little post-it notes of greeting to each other.
This week I read:
and a Western historical that had a catchy blurb, but it's one that I may not finish.
Also, I'm a couple chapters short of finishing
, but will probably save those for the weekend when I can savor the intensity. ;-)



and a Western historical that had a catchy blurb, but it's one that I may not finish.
Also, I'm a couple chapters short of finishing

Na wrote: "Finished reading the edited version of Captive Prince: Volume Two. Finally, I like both versions - the free and the edited. There are some very slight differences but sometimes I find that the edit..."
I read the online free versions last year, then bought the ebook versions too. I just skipped around to some of my favorite parts (yep, that one), and will wait until there's time to read both through again (summer?). Some impressive storytelling, and yes, the labels/categories don't really do it justice.
I read the online free versions last year, then bought the ebook versions too. I just skipped around to some of my favorite parts (yep, that one), and will wait until there's time to read both through again (summer?). Some impressive storytelling, and yes, the labels/categories don't really do it justice.


It's not m/m, but there is a gay ifrit (Arabic supernatural creature) and a lesbian secondary character, so it's not completely out of topic here ;-).


Have fun!


It's not m/m, but there is a gay ifrit (Arabic supernatural creature) and a lesbian secondary characte..."
I love the premise of the book. Neil Gaiman is one of my favorites. Have you tried


No, but having read 4 Gaiman's books in some two months, it's time to go back to gay books ;-)).
Antonella wrote: "Lori wrote: "Have you tried Anansi Boys?"
No, but having read 4 Gaiman's books in some two months, it's time to go back to gay books ;-))."
:-D
No, but having read 4 Gaiman's books in some two months, it's time to go back to gay books ;-))."
:-D


Thanks to the book I found out that at Australian weddings they say
... those words which are like a knife in the heart to any queer person attending a marriage ceremony: ''Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of a man and a woman, to the exclusion of all other, voluntarily entered for life''.
I didn't know this. Do you have something similar in your countries?
Of course in many countries they just don't mention this even though it is a fact. Still, to have it mentioned explicitly is a kind of a punch in the gut for gay/lesbians...


Thanks for the rec! I bought the audible but on a whim; thought the synopsis sounded like fun. Now, I'm excited to listen to it.


Yes! Fun! :D


It's not m/m, but there is a gay ifrit (Arabic supernatural creature) and a lesbian secondary characte..."
I love love love love LOVE American Gods. Gaiman is such a wonderful storyteller and I just adore how he wove all those short stories into the novel.
For anyone who doesn't know and is interested...American Gods TV show is coming from HBO soon: http://www.thedaonline.com/a-e/neil-g...
I'm not always excited about screen adaptations, but...it's HBO! :D
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