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message 51: by Ez (new)

Ez (ezrah-rah) Thanks to Leah for inviting me! My name is Harper. I've been reading romance for around 16-17 years, which is a good chunk of my life considering the fact that I'm only 28. Romance is my favorite genre and I love a HEA. I prefer to have happy endings in all of the books I read, but the only time I expect it is when I'm reading a romance novel. I'm sure I'll have fun checking out the threads here.


message 52: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome and please come have fun :)


message 53: by Jas (new)

Jas (10jbean01) | 5 comments Harper, I completely agree about only expecting HEA's in romance novels (with the exception of Nicholas Sparks or Danielle Steele books...those devils) I hate how people always make the comment about "how they wish just once things wouldn't always turn out perfectly in the end" Okay, if I wanted that I'd look at real life, right? Books are an escape and I want to escape to a HAPPY place!


message 54: by Ez (new)

Ez (ezrah-rah) Jasmin wrote: "Harper, I completely agree about only expecting HEA's in romance novels (with the exception of Nicholas Sparks or Danielle Steele books...those devils) I hate how people always make the comment ab..."

I agree, Jasmin! Books are about escapism for me. I have seen plenty of examples of tragedy or relationships that ended badly in real life. I'd prefer my books to be happy. Besides that, there are plenty of books outside romance that people can read if they don't want a guaranteed HEA.


message 55: by Jas (new)

Jas (10jbean01) | 5 comments Harper wrote: "Jasmin wrote: "Harper, I completely agree about only expecting HEA's in romance novels (with the exception of Nicholas Sparks or Danielle Steele books...those devils) I hate how people always make..."

AH, you will never believe what just happened! So I started reading this book "Passionate Thirst," which is a paranormal romance trilogy, and decided to take a break, play on the computer, and find out what the other two books were about. Well, on this site I went to, it gave a spoiler that makes it very clear the trilogy does NOT result in a HEA!!! I'm very upset because I like this book and I like the characters and now its all ruined....I don't want depressing crap (especially not after 3 books!!!) I'm at least thankful the trilogy is finished and I didn't have to wait around to find out the disappointing end...


message 56: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Jasmin wrote: "Harper wrote: "Jasmin wrote: "Harper, I completely agree about only expecting HEA's in romance novels (with the exception of Nicholas Sparks or Danielle Steele books...those devils) I hate how peo..."

I feel ur pain :)


message 57: by Leah (new)

Leah (leahkarge) Jasmin, I actually winced when I read your comment. A romance novel that doesn't end in a HEA?! That's like the blackest kind of blasphemy I've ever heard!


message 58: by Jas (new)

Jas (10jbean01) | 5 comments It absolutely is!!! I'm really contemplating not even finishing the book I'm so upset about this! I think I'll hold off for a while, at least until I get over the author's ballsy move to deny me my HEA (because maybe it will be one of those books where I could eventually feel okay about it...like the Time Traveler's Wife...)


 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 146 comments I'm so about the HEA! Look at my profile page, and you know that's my kind of reading. Sorry to hear that about the book trilogy, Jasmin. :(


message 60: by Ez (new)

Ez (ezrah-rah) Jasmin wrote: "Well, on this site I went to, it gave a spoiler that makes it very clear the trilogy does NOT result in a HEA!!! I'm very upset because I like this book and I like the characters and now its all ruined....I don't want depressing crap (especially not after 3 books!!!) I'm at least thankful the trilogy is finished and I didn't have to wait around to find out the disappointing end... "

Oh, that sucks! I'd be upset, too. But, you know, I can occasionally tolerate the lack of a HEA. There was one trilogy I read when I was younger that ended rather tragically (it was YA paranormal romance) and even though I cried about it, I was okay with it after a while. But, THEN, the fans put up such a fuss that the author felt bad and eventually wrote a fourth book. In a way I was glad for it because it gave me my HEA, but, at the same time, I felt it was a bit of a cop-out and I preferred the original ending. That's definitely rare for me, though.


message 61: by Leah (new)

Leah (leahkarge) Jasmin, I'd probably put the trilogy down if it was me. I just can't wrap my head around the idea of a romance book without a HEA.

Harper, sometimes no HEA is okay, but I think it's okay in different genres. Young adult is fine but there usually is one, but like Sci-Fi, Mystery, Classics, etc., it really doesn't bother me too much if there isn't one. However, in any form of romance, I think there really should be a HEA. That's one of the basic points of a romance novel/series, true?


message 62: by Ez (new)

Ez (ezrah-rah) True, Leah. I never really expect a HEA in any genre other than romance, though, as I said above, I do prefer it no matter what genre I'm reading. I'm sappy like that. :)


message 63: by Leah (new)

Leah (leahkarge) Then I'm sappy, too, Harper, because I prefer HEAs in anything I read, too! It's just that while I expect it, with certain genres it doesn't bother me too much if there isn't one. However, HEAs are the best part of books! LOL


message 64: by Gokce G (new)

Gokce G | 22 comments Thanks Leah for the invite! :)
I'm Gokce, 26 years old and I'm glad to be here as I'm a sucker for HEAs :) Typical or not, we sometimes need them for sure!


message 65: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome Gokce and have fun :)


message 66: by Gokce G (new)

Gokce G | 22 comments Pamela wrote: "Welcome Gokce and have fun :)"

Thank you! :)


message 67: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome Katie :) Glad to have u here.


message 68: by Kelly (new)

Kelly  | 7 comments Fun group love the topics!
I see some familiar names Hello guys.
I look forward to chatting with you all.
:-)


message 69: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments welcome Kelly and have fun :)


message 70: by Wendy (new)

Wendy  (wendyhill) Hi, My name is Wendy. I'm married and living in the Chicago area. I used to read alot, then Real Life took over. With my job there was a ton of reading so the last thing I wanted to do was read. I started again in 2008 and haven't stopped. Paranormal is my first choice, but anything with a HEA is great. If it doesn't have a HEA, I've been known to throw my book. *ashamed*


message 71: by Wendy (new)

Wendy  (wendyhill) Leah, Thank you for inviting me. I think I'm going to be very happy here.


message 72: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (last edited Apr 14, 2010 09:33AM) (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome Wendy and yes, I, too, have experienced Real Life and stopped reading for several years myself. Enojy :)


message 73: by Ann (new)

Ann Noell (fantasyannie) I'm sorry I guess I never stopped by to say HI to everyone. I have not been very active on GR for a while. My name is Ann and I love to read lol... Historical romance is my favorite, not to into contemporary; about the only contemporary romance I read is Jayne Ann Krentz because she is my favorite author no matter what name she is writing under. I also like paranormal, some of my favorites are Katie MacAlister and Patricia Briggs. I read to escape from my every day life so I must have a HEA!!


message 74: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome Ann.

Make urself at home here...


message 75: by MichelleG (new)

MichelleG | 2 comments Hi, I'm Michelle. Married; 2 great kids and living in NY. I'm relatively new to GR so I'm still feeling my way around. I've been reading romance novels since....well, forever and have been known to peek at the endings to make sure that there is a good HEA. No matter how good the story, if it's a love story and doesn't end well....let's just say West Side Story and Ivanhoe totally traumatized me when I was younger and I STILL can't watch them without being bummed for days.


message 76: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome to GR Michelle.
I'm all about the HEA myself.


message 77: by Fran (new)

Fran | 88 comments Hi, I'm Fran. Married with 3 kids and also live in NY like Michelle. My love of reading, especially romance novels, has been reignited in the last few years. Started with the Twilight series and has taken off from there. At first I read mostly historicals, but have since branched off into PNR, Erotica, Contemp. I really need that HEA, like Ann said, an escape from everyday life!


message 78: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome to HEA group, Fran. Enjoy!


message 79: by Kate (new)

Kate (literarykate) | 3 comments Thanks for the invite! I love romance novels. Can't wait to talk about them with everyone.


message 80: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome to HEA, Kate and enjoy!


message 81: by BJ Rose (new)

BJ Rose (bjrose) | 1216 comments Thanks for the invite, Dhestiny!
I'm BJ and I love HEAs - I enjoy most romance stories, including PNR, but my favorite genre is Historical Romance. I 'cut my teeth' on Barbara Cartland, then Georgette Heyer, and on to lots more good authors. I'm retired and loving all the extra reading time that gives me, in between traveling, grandkids, and gardening.


message 82: by UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish, Naughty Co-Mod (new)

UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish | 1922 comments Welcome, welcome!!!

I remember Barbara Cartland, and I see tons of her books about! I love the picture of her on the back with her jewels... LOL

I'm so glad you joined us, Kate and BJ!!! We're all about the HEA!!!


message 83: by Wendy (new)

Wendy (wendyfraser65) | 13 comments Thanks for the invite. I have to have a HEA in my romances (isn't that the definition of 'romance novels
'?). I very occasionally read outside of the genre but even then it has to have a sprinkle of romance in it and STILL have some sort of HEA. This is why I get hung-up a bit on urban-fantasy/PNR series'. I try to have the complete series so I know how it is eventually going to end before reading it. I don't want to invest my (very) precious reading time with something that is going to ultimately upset me. Especially 5 or 6+ books worth.


message 84: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments welcome to the group and enjoy!


message 85: by Lina (new)

Lina Hi All :-)
I'm Carob, live in Australia, and have been reading romances for well over half my lifetime. Glad to be here :-)


message 86: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome and enjoy!


message 87: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Welcome, CaroB! Glad you found us. The "buddy read" thread for Notorious Pleasures (Maiden Lane, #2) by Elizabeth Hoyt is up! :)


message 88: by Lina (new)

Lina Lisa Kay wrote: "Welcome, CaroB! Glad you found us. The "buddy read" thread for Notorious Pleasures (Maiden Lane, #2) by Elizabeth Hoyt is up! :)"

Woohoo!

And thanks for the warm welcome ladies :-)


♥Laddie♥ (Lee Lee) Hi everyone! I'm Laddie. I've been reading romance for forever and a day. I was reading in the womb. :P


message 90: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments LOL! Welcome, Laddie!


message 91: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments lol. Welcome, Laddie, come in and enjoy. I was a late bloomer. I hated to read until I was about 10 yrs old. Reading was boring before that.


 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 146 comments Waves hello to Laddie and other new members!


♥Laddie♥ (Lee Lee) Thanks for the welcomes. :)

@Pamela I think my love of reading partly came from the fact that my sister is eight years older than I am. She taught me how to read when I was really young. I can remember reading Poe with her when I was four years old. The Pit And The Pendulum. Scared the crap out of me.


message 94: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments O.M.G. It would!


message 95: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments I was a little older than that when I read Poe. Maybe 13 or 14 ish. He was still scary then. I used to read a lot of gothic romances back then so I think I liked being scared.


message 96: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments My mother used to read Poe to my brothe and me. "Quote the raven, 'Nevermore'!"


message 97: by Heather (new)

Heather (messybar) Hello all. Just joining. Saw a few faces/names from other groups. This seems like my kind of place. HEA or go home. lol


message 98: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14527 comments Welcome, Heather. Come on in and enjoy!


message 99: by Lina (new)

Lina Hi Heather!


message 100: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Welcome, Heather!


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