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I am only halfway through so I haven't seen the extended connections between the generations. I can see the connection between Fela and Mati. Mati chooses to stay where Fela gave birth to her and near the river which was so important to Fela.
I am enjoying how the setting, and nature is incorporated into the spiritual life of Fela and Mati. I think this may enhance the story.



The setting was an integral part of the story for me; it was a novel setting that I had not thought about before presented in a very human context. I also like how it changed over time, from a slave owning society to a free-society that is caught up in the struggles and inequities that directly stem from the legacy of slavery. I thought she did a good job of presenting the current racial and socio-economic problems in Puerto Rican society without getting preachy or adamant.


When I was younger I used to love to listen to my grandparents tell stories about camping trips that they went on with my father and his siblings, as well as stories about life during World War II. We recently lost my father-in-law, who was also an excellent storyteller, and this book reminded me how much I miss his, and my grandparents, stories. This book re-kindled in me the desire to pass on the oral traditions of my family to my children so that they will have a better grasp of who they are, and where they came from.

My husband and I were thinking of recording some of the older members in our family telling the stories that we love and compiling a book for our children to pull out at family gatherings/holidays. A family scrapbook if you wish. What I find lacking about the blogging, social networking tradition is that it feels cold to not have a face or a voice connection with the other person.


I'm not sure I agree that the traditions and stories are "always" passed from generation to generation, I believe you have to cultivate that in the culture of your family. I come in contact with many people who have no connection to their past because the tradition of sharing has been lost, and quite frankly I find it sad.

I suppose you are correct. I know that there are traditions that I had when I was a child that I no longer use. I don't have my own children so maybe that is why some things die out. Family dynamics change, therefore traditions either disappear or change themselves.