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message 1101: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
....and status was the last thing on my mind....I like how it drives and I think it's pretty....female logic!


message 1102: by Ruth (new)

Ruth | 16546 comments Mod
I really liked driving the ones we test drove. My husband complained that the wayback was too small.


message 1103: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Wayback?


message 1104: by Ruth (new)

Ruth | 16546 comments Mod
The part of a station wagon behind the back seat.


message 1105: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Beemers have station wagons? Mine is a 3-door hatchback.....not with a wayback, but a boot.


message 1106: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments Well the beemer wagon is actually a SUV, but it looks like a wagon. My in-law has one.


message 1107: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
I think mine is cuter!


message 1108: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Well n0....but I am not an off-road kind of gal!


message 1109: by Susan (last edited Jul 16, 2012 04:45PM) (new)

Susan I now own my 2nd VW ... a 2000 Cabrio. Have wanted it for ages and it is made of metal so I feel much safer. Some nut talking on their phone hit me once in a Prius. My nice metal car needed the inch patch of red paint wiped off and the Prius looked like a paper wad. This is my first convertible ... road trip coming up!


message 1110: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
This wonderful man died at the weekend....my uncle, dad's twin brother. We had only celebrated his 80th birthday 4 days before at a lovely party....he was so well and happy. Just got back from his funeral in Auckland. He is a Goodreads author....might have to update his profile.....
http://www.abi.auckland.ac.nz/uoa/hom...


message 1111: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
Sorry about the loss, Deb, but glad you got to enjoy his company for so very many years AND to celebrate with him only four days beforehand. Also, to have a twin of your dad around must have been nice, too.

Me, I'll be happy if I cross the 80 line and feel I've lived a life worth living. Simple man, simple dreams.


message 1112: by Ruth (new)

Ruth | 16546 comments Mod
Oh, Debbie, I'm so sorry. What an impressive man he must have been.


message 1113: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/...

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23...

He collaborated on the translation of this renaissance anatomical work from the original Latin. It encompasses 7 volumes. His colleague died just before it was completed.


message 1114: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments Sorry about your loss, Debbie. Wonderful contributer to mankind.


message 1115: by Susan (new)

Susan So sorry to hear of your loss. You were so fortunate to have him as part of your life for so long. The twin aspect makes it doubly tragic somehow.


message 1116: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Thank you....still finding it difficult to believe. He was so vital, alive and healthy when I saw him last just 10 days ago. The funeral was amazing......he was so highly respected and loved by all who knew him. His wife is struggling, as you can imagine.


message 1117: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
The silver lining, I guess, is that he went in a way many of us would choose -- quickly, late in life, and after living well and meaningfully. You watch these people with Alzheimer's and you say, "Please, God, not me. Not that way...."


message 1118: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Very true :-/


message 1119: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments A celebration of his life is in order. I want to celebrate with you Debbie, starting with stories about him and your dad. Whenever you are ready, I am all ears.


message 1120: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
This is what I wrote to read at his funeral.....best I can do for now....try me again in a week or two.

John Carman was an extraordinary man in many ways, but I want to remember the family man – a much-loved uncle and great-uncle.
Fifty four years ago, John’s twin brother Len and his wife Kerry had their first child…. ….me. John’s gift to the new baby was a soft toy, Bambi, carefully and lovingly hand-made from blue felt and sewn together using a variety of surgical stitches. Uncle John was just as careful and loving in his relationships with all of his nephews and nieces, and I am sure we all have fond memories of childhood holidays in Auckland with Uncle John.
My dad Len, John’s twin, died 24 years ago. They were not identical twins, but shared many traits, including musical ability, gentle and loving natures and strong ethical values. When photographed together they frequently appeared to be in synchronicity – a shared line that meant you could almost transpose one over the other. At first, after dad’s early death, this was very hard to countenance, but there soon came to be a great measure of comfort in the similarities. Whenever I looked at or spoke to John, I caught echoes of my father, and my children had some inkling of what the grandfather they could not remember had been like. He was a wonderful role model for the younger generation of Carmans and if we can live our lives with even just a small part of the integrity and humanity he exhibited, we will be doing well.
We were all lucky to have had John in our lives for so long, and this is due in large part to the great love and happiness he found with Mary and her family.
John’s passing has left a void in our hearts that no other can fill. Sleep well Uncle John.


message 1121: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments Beautifully spoken, for a man I wish I had known. Thank you for sharing his life with your virtual friends. The world will remember his achievments , his family will remember his love. What better tribute than that.


message 1122: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
I wish it had been neautifully spoken, but the truth is that I blubbed my way through most of it.....


Me and Uncle John

This pic was taken a while ago......and the next one was with mum at his 80th on 7th August (4 days before he died)


message 1123: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Photobucket


message 1124: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments So you blubbed ,I did too at my sister's funeral. What matters is you said it, wrote it, and meant every word. You all look so happy. What was the occasion for the first pic? Your mom looks wonderful. What are the crossed gloves in the background? It looks like a commemorative plaque.


message 1125: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
What Carol said. Sometimes blubs are the very soul of a eulogy, the feelings that bring stubborn words to fitful life.


message 1126: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Thanks both of you....I'll remember that about blubs NE....I have a bit of a stiff upper-lip mentality sometimes, and abhor public displays of emotion (in myself - not others!). The bottom photo is at his 80th Carol....4 days before he died. The plaque thingy was just the venue proprietors idea of classy decoration.....it didn't impinge :-)


message 1127: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Mum does look good there doesn't she....not bad for....shhhh.....73.


message 1128: by Susan (new)

Susan Sometimes it is hard not to blub and is perfectly appropriate. He looks really well, that must have been a huge shock to all.


message 1129: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments She looks great for a young woman of 73. Oh I thought it was an award of your uncle's,you know like Knights of the Garter. It should be.

Are you still coming stateside next year?


message 1130: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Don't know....am planning England and Italy, but stopovers en route not decided.


message 1131: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
Just insert a "New" in front of those countries.


message 1132: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Hahaha! I hear some pretty off-putting stories about US Customs and the stringent travelling requirements....a lot of Kiwis avoid the States like the plague because of the unpleasant attitudes they meet in airports. My boss was in Seattle and then New Orleans 2 months ago and met one such official (as made her wish she had driven overland instead!).


message 1133: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments You don't have to be a Kiwi to get attitude. Come in late at night, hang back until you spot a custom official that is lazy. I have never been overseas, so I don't know the lay of the land. Last year, when I went to Virginia, I informed security of my needles and did he want to see everything , he just waved me through. I must not have looked like their profile subjects. Although my last name is Arabic. Go figure.


message 1134: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
The worst Customs officers I ever faced were Soviet ones. Looked at my passport photo at great length, talked gibberish (read: Russian) to each other about it, then laughed heartily before returning the book.

My contribution to Detente, I guess...


message 1135: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments Newengland wrote: "The worst Customs officers I ever faced were Soviet ones. Looked at my passport photo at great length, talked gibberish (read: Russian) to each other about it, then laughed heartily before returnin..."

Jeesh, even in Russia your wit is well known. Or were they laughing at the pic?


message 1136: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
Ha-ha. At the pic, for sure!


message 1137: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments What you had your clown nose on?


message 1138: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
I'm a funny-looking lad. People still smile when they see me. (It explains why I hide my face, like the elephant man.)


message 1139: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
But.....but.....but.....Paul Newman clone!


message 1140: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments Debbie wrote: "But.....but.....but.....Paul Newman clone!"

Oh yeah, I forgot about that.


message 1141: by Ruth (new)

Ruth | 16546 comments Mod
Newengland wrote: "The worst Customs officers I ever faced were Soviet ones. Looked at my passport photo at great length, talked gibberish (read: Russian) to each other about it, then laughed heartily before returnin..."

The USSR was the only place I've ever been where they searched your luggage when you were leaving the country.


message 1142: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
God help me if I'm a Paul Newman clone now!

Ruth, they thought maybe you'd be stealing a piece of Lenin wax, maybe.


message 1143: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
* Bump *


message 1144: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments She's out and about in her new car, I hope.


message 1145: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
MIA


message 1146: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
Still alive....herniated disc almost 4 weeks ago....couldn't sit at computer...spaced out on drugs. Trying to get back to school on Monday so in class now (holidays) trying to work on adaptations that will keep me in front of a class 6 hours a day....clearing a million emails while standing at laptop......thought I had better look in.....dunno when I'll be back. Signing off temporarily.xo


message 1147: by Debbie, sardonic princess of cheerfulness (new)

Debbie (sardonicprincessofcheerfulness) | 6389 comments Mod
PS....did it lifting a f#%*ing BOOKcase!!!


message 1148: by Ken, Moderator (new)

Ken | 18714 comments Mod
When books are not (wo)man's best friend.

Feel better, Friend!


message 1149: by Ruth (new)

Ruth | 16546 comments Mod
Oh carp! Been there, done that. It's awful. Sending all kinds of electronic comforts. Don't overdo it.


message 1150: by Carol (new)

Carol | 10410 comments Take your time. I ended up with stenosis of the back. Healing thoughts are washing over you.


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