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message 1: by Barnette ⋆˙⟡ (last edited Oct 04, 2025 06:58AM) (new)

Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments TW: this topic discusses self-harm

The Butterfly Project is a self-injury awareness movement aimed at giving people who struggle with self-harm a healthy coping mechanism and motivation to heal and recover.

How Can I Participate?

If you yourself struggle with self-harm, here's how you can participate in The Butterfly Project.

- Whenever you have the urge to self-harm, draw a butterfly on the place you want to hurt with a skin-safe marker (any color you choose)
- Name the butterfly after someone important in your life.
- Let the butterfly fade naturally.
- The goal is to keep the butterfly "alive" and if you self-harm before it fades, it "dies".
- If your butterfly dies, that's okay. Gently scrub it off and draw it again. Keep going.
- A loved one can draw a butterfly on you - these are extra-special, so try your best not to "kill" it.
- Keep track of your "Butterfly Streak" (how long you've kept the butterfly alive) and use it as motivation to try to heal.

If you do not struggle with self-harm, but a friend or loved one does, you can draw a butterfly on your body to show support.

More about The Butterfly Project here: https://newpath.org/butterfly-project/


In this topic, discuss your Butterfly Streak, support friends, and encourage others to participate in The Butterfly Project.

Please do not vent in this topic, our venting spaces are here: https://www.goodreads.com/topic/group...


message 2: by Achelois (Ash) (new)

Achelois (Ash) X | 9 comments oh i love this sm


TW self harm
ive never cut myself but, ive wanted to a lot, and ive bit and scratched and i think this is a great way to cope


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments Achelois (Ash) wrote: "oh i love this sm


TW self harm
ive never cut myself but, ive wanted to a lot, and ive bit and scratched and i think this is a great way to cope"


Yeah absolutely, I really hope this helps!! Stay strong and fight those urges <3


message 4: by Achelois (Ash) (new)

Achelois (Ash) X | 9 comments ty and u too


message 5: by Ava ୨ৎ (new)

Ava ୨ৎ | 5 comments TW: sh (ig)

I've always wanted to try it, but I just don't know how to. I don't know how to just cut myself without being scared.


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments ୨ৎ ανα ୨ৎ (єℓ∂єѕт ∂αυgнтєя νєя) wrote: "TW: sh (ig)

I've always wanted to try it, but I just don't know how to. I don't know how to just cut myself without being scared."


Don't. Don't get started. I promise you it's not worth it.


Ophelia ˚࿔  | 30 comments TW: sh

I wanted to try the butterfly thing but I’m scared that my parents will see it and they get mad if they found out I saw any mentions of sh online… and like that’s the only way to find out this exists so they’d know… I could draw one somewhere no one will see but like it’s not healed fully there yet…


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments Ophelia ˚࿔ wrote: "TW: sh

I wanted to try the butterfly thing but I’m scared that my parents will see it and they get mad if they found out I saw any mentions of sh online… and like that’s the only way to find out t..."


I was going to suggest drawing it somewhere under clothes until I saw the last line... if you do it somewhere visible, maybe you could draw other things around it so your family might think it was just a doodle?


Ophelia ˚࿔  | 30 comments okay I’ll try that, thanks


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments Ophelia ˚࿔ wrote: "okay I’ll try that, thanks"

Ofc <3


message 11: by Adrianna (new)

Adrianna | 4 comments TW: self harm
I used to try when I was 8, thankfully I didn’t know you use a razor (I was using kid scissors) to do it so it never worked, but if I could go back and tell younger me this I would. She would never wanna harm a butterfly.


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments Adrianna wrote: "TW: self harm
I used to try when I was 8, thankfully I didn’t know you use a razor (I was using kid scissors) to do it so it never worked, but if I could go back and tell younger me this I would. S..."


That's still SH if you were trying to hurt yourself, but I get that. I'm glad you don't do it anymore 🫂


message 13: by Jenny (new)

Jenny | 2 comments I love this idea. It's really beautiful.


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments Jenny wrote: "I love this idea. It's really beautiful."

Agreed


Star {Semi-Hiatus for theatre}  | 3 comments That’s so beautiful I love that idea


Barnette ⋆˙⟡  | 231 comments Star {Semi-Hiatus for theatre} wrote: "That’s so beautiful I love that idea"

Yess


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