I think my dad's might be having me and my bf breakup😭

[Lily]

Ok yall, i need help😭 so ive been dating my bf for the past 7 months and its been great. I love him so so much and were really happy together. We hang out almost every and yeah, were happy. My dad though… not so much. I dont really know why. Hes respectful, and hes super nice to my younger sister which i know they really like. But yeah. Anyway though, im like in a really bad mental state right now and my dad does not like it. Hes been talking about putting me on meds and shit like that. Hes had me talk to a lot of different therapists and counselors but non have really helped me at all. It sucks but i still manage somehow. Anyway though, last night my dad was telling i need to pull shit together😭 and im like really really trying to. I have straight A’s, i still go to school every day even when i really dont want to, im starting to look for a job, and i am really trying to hold myself together but its really hard at times. My dads been telling me that if i cant get out of this state hes gonna have us break up and thats like the last thing i want😭 My bf is one of the only now that make me happy and i feel myself and i really dont wanna break up. Before we met i was already dealing with stuff and meeting him really changed that for me. I felt happy again and i was enjoying life again. In may is when it all came back and it hasnt been fun. I told my dad about what has been going on a few nights ago at like 1 am and i really regret it. The past few days i feel like hes been mad at me and i dont know what to do. I dont want my dad mad at me and i dont wanna have to break up with my bf😭

So if anyone has advice i could really use some

Im sorry about the vent, ive just really have been needing to get that out

[n]

Lily wrote: "Ok yall, i need help😭 so ive been dating my bf for the past 7 months and its been great. I love him so so much and were really happy together. We hang out almost every and yeah, were happy. My dad ..."

If your dad tells you to break up with your bf, don't.

[Lily]

nrui wrote: "Lily wrote: "Ok yall, i need help😭 so ive been dating my bf for the past 7 months and its been great. I love him so so much and were really happy together. We hang out almost every and yeah, were h..."

yeah, if i really have to, im willing to keep our relationship secret but the problem with is we both go to different high schools so i dont know how i would get to see him😭

[n]

Lily wrote: "nrui wrote: "Lily wrote: "Ok yall, i need help😭 so ive been dating my bf for the past 7 months and its been great. I love him so so much and were really happy together. We hang out almost every and..."

You could tell your dad that you broke up with your bf, but you really didn't.

[Rita]

That sucks I mean maybe you just need to have less stress in you like maybe it’s seasonal depression. Or maybe I’m wrong but if u r happy when ur around him then just be around him screw ur dad (no offense)

[Lily]

Rita wrote: "That sucks I mean maybe you just need to have less stress in you like maybe it’s seasonal depression. Or maybe I’m wrong but if u r happy when ur around him then just be around him screw ur dad (no..."

none taken
thank you

i have been trying to tell him but he just wont listen. after school today i think imma try and have a convo with him about it. maybe hell listen more? see if he can see where im coming from with all this. i just gotta catch him in a good mood

[Skyler Brooks]

Tell ur dad almost exactly what you’re telling us. Tell him how ur bf makes you happy how he feels like the only light in your life, ask your dad why he doesn’t like your bf (is it possible your bf is different with your dad then he is with you?) be honest but make sure to listen more than you talk. Say things like “I feel _____ when _____ happens (or) when you say _____. I need to feel ______.” Use your feeling as the way out because no one can argue with YOUR feelings they can argue with your thoughts or beliefs but not your feelings. Be polite for the whole convo (trust, if you go into it expecting nothing but an argument that’s all you’re gunna get)
Hope this helps ;)

[Lily]

Skyler Brooks wrote: "Tell ur dad almost exactly what you’re telling us. Tell him how ur bf makes you happy how he feels like the only light in your life, ask your dad why he doesn’t like your bf (is it possible your bf..."

Oh girl, thank you
That really helps
I appreciate it🫶