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How many kids do you want when you are older?! (If you already have kids how many do you have?)

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message 1: by Rita (new)

Rita | 92 comments Mod
Ok so umm this will be controversial but I want to have a kid and if it’s a boy then I want to have another kid and if it’s a girl I want to adopt 2 boys that are older than her to be like older brothers. But if I have a kid and it’s a girl I want to adopt 3 boys that are older than her to be her older brothers.

But what do you think bc my opinion I can already tell is going to be super controversial I just know lol 🫣😬


Dinah ✨Keefe's Only✨Setter #7 MATT'S BABY SAJA'S  J | 8 comments i want two kids maybe three. one kid of my own then adopt kids. idc how old they are.


Mia❤ ⋆˚。⋆GFB 1,000 MEMBERS!!⋆。˚⋆  | 0 comments Barnette wrote: "0"

Oh? Why? If you don't mind me asking.🙃


Mia❤ ⋆˚。⋆GFB 1,000 MEMBERS!!⋆。˚⋆  | 0 comments I think i'd want three. Or five. Seven maybe?🤔


message 7: by Rita (new)

Rita | 92 comments Mod
I want 4 if my rant of how many kids wasn’t obvi enough! lol


message 8: by Rebecca (new)

Rebecca Xx | 16 comments 1 unless its a boy then 2 bcs id want 2 boys or a boy and a girl or just a girl idk why i have no explanation i just do


message 9: by Rita (new)

Rita | 92 comments Mod
I want 1 daughter with older brothers bc I always have wanted like at least 2 older brothers to be like protective which is controversial and prob really stupid bc if I had older brothers I just know I wouldn’t want them so don’t know why I want to tourture my further daughter with that 🤔🫣🤭


Barnette ⋆˙⟡ Mia❤ (Semi-Active) wrote: "Barnette wrote: "0"

Oh? Why? If you don't mind me asking.🙃"


I just don't want to take care of kids and want to focus on other things in my life :)


SecondMist # SAJA BOYS!!#❤️ | 26 comments i want 1 or 2 max


Mia❤ ⋆˚。⋆GFB 1,000 MEMBERS!!⋆。˚⋆  | 0 comments Barnette wrote: "Mia❤ (Semi-Active) wrote: "Barnette wrote: "0"

Oh? Why? If you don't mind me asking.🙃"

I just don't want to take care of kids and want to focus on other things in my life :)"


Yeah I get that. :)


message 13: by Rita (new)

Rita | 92 comments Mod
Yea same having kids seems hard! Like feeding them and helping with everything like i want kids and then if/when i have them i know im gonna be like ‘wait so umm i signed up for cute babies and children who will love me no matter what but umm what is this?!!!?’💖

The this in question:
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 .・゜-: ✧☾Aadhya_bookdevourer☽✧ :-゜・. | 27 comments I want a younger daughter and an older son.


message 15: by sophia_thesecond (the fate of ophelia ver.) (last edited Sep 22, 2025 03:07PM) (new)

sophia_thesecond (the fate of ophelia ver.) | 2 comments I want 3 kids. 2 boys born first then a girl


message 16: by Rita (new)

Rita | 92 comments Mod
Yea i want to have older brothers for my 1 daughter 😏


✧E l l i · R o s e✧  | 61 comments Mod
i want 2-4 kids I want my first kid to be a boy second to be a girl and then my last two i want to be a girl and boy the last boy is th youngest so it goes like

Boy
Girl
Girl
Boy


message 18: by Khadijah (new)

Khadijah | 12 comments I don't really want to have any kids because spending thousands and thousands of dollars on another person sounds so overwhelming.


SecondMist # SAJA BOYS!!#❤️ | 26 comments I get it but still having a cute little baby is just ahhhhh


message 20: by Jazmin (new)

Jazmin °•JFC•GFB•° | 24 comments 6 or 7....jk maybe like 2 or 3, the max I would have is 4


message 21: by Nik (new)

Nik Vesely✨ | 22 comments 5 or 6 since I come from a BIG family


message 22: by Aurora Jade (AJ) (new)

Aurora Jade (AJ) I want at east 2-3. Maybe more. Idk. My aunt has 3 currently and she wants at LEAST 6.😭😭


message 23: by :) Alyssa :) (new)

 :) Alyssa :) | 8 comments Mod
I want at least 3 or 4 kids!


message 24: by Riley (new)

Riley | 11 comments i want 6


message 25: by Rita (new)

Rita | 92 comments Mod
That’s a lot of kids @riley!!!


message 26: by Audrey (new)

Audrey (niceyackerman) | 25 comments I have 5! Boy, Girl, Girl, Boy, Boy

You have to wait and see what you end up with. You never know if you'll have fertility issues or other complications or start late. (Over 35 is considered a high-risk pregnancy.) Adoptions in the U.S. cost $40K, which is why many adopt from overseas.

Once you get to 3, any more doesn't make a difference. And it's really not expensive; I don't where these numbers come from that say each kid costs $200,000. Are you buying your kids a new BMW every year? Picking the most expensive colleges?

I highly recommend it.


SecondMist # SAJA BOYS!!#❤️ | 26 comments nah 1 or 2 max


✧E l l i · R o s e✧  | 61 comments Mod
I want 3 or 4


•°~Rosie GFB~°• | 5 comments I feel like 4.. I'm the youngest of three and the only girl, I hope that my future children have a sibling of the same gender. 2 boys and 2 girls.. hopefully ❤️


message 30: by Audrey (new)

Audrey (niceyackerman) | 25 comments •°~Rosie GFB~°• wrote: "I feel like 4.. I'm the youngest of three and the only girl, I hope that my future children have a sibling of the same gender. 2 boys and 2 girls.. hopefully ❤️"

That's close to me -- oldest, only girl. I felt good with two of each but then really felt like I was supposed to have one more.


message 31: by Selena (new)

Selena Skudlarek | 14 comments Probably 4


message 32: by Katniss (new)

Katniss Everdeen | 23 comments At least 2 I’d feel so bad to have just one, cause they’d be lonely. Me already having names picked out at 13. 😆


message 33: by Tessie (new)

Tessie | 13 comments Mod
Katniss wrote: "At least 2 I’d feel so bad to have just one, cause they’d be lonely. Me already having names picked out at 13. 😆"

bruh i'd be an only child wdym lonely


message 34: by Tessie (new)

Tessie | 13 comments Mod
I want to adopt kids. Pregnancy is scary and probably not for me. I dont care how many it ends up being lol


message 35: by AnnaLaura (last edited Sep 30, 2025 10:25AM) (new)

AnnaLaura | 17 comments Idk, I just want kids. lol


message 36: by Selena (new)

Selena Skudlarek | 14 comments I agree pregnancy is kinda scary


message 37: by Selena (new)

Selena Skudlarek | 14 comments I also already have names picked sometimes I don’t understand how people struggle with baby names


✧E l l i · R o s e✧  | 61 comments Mod
it is - but that's what our bodies as females are designed to do!


message 39: by Tessie (last edited Sep 30, 2025 07:49PM) (new)

Tessie | 13 comments Mod
Selena wrote: "I also already have names picked sometimes I don’t understand how people struggle with baby names"

I wanna name my girl after my mom(if I adopt a child young enough) Deanine.


message 40: by Katniss (new)

Katniss Everdeen | 23 comments My names are so bad, but I also love them! My child is going to hate me.


message 41: by Tessie (new)

Tessie | 13 comments Mod
✧E l l i · R o s e✧ wrote: "it is - but that's what our bodies as females are designed to do!"

To be able to do.


✧E l l i · R o s e✧  | 61 comments Mod
Katniss wrote: "My names are so bad, but I also love them! My child is going to hate me."

LOL


message 43: by Haley (new)

Haley | 9 comments 3 kids. Magdeline Donna Last Name, James Adrian Last Name, Caroline Sharon Last Name


message 45: by Audrey (new)

Audrey (niceyackerman) | 25 comments Pregnancy is not a big deal once you're in it. Your body knows what to do. It's mostly really weird, but pretty cool once baby starts kicking. You should be out of your teens but under 35 because the risk of complications goes up after that as well as increased fertility problems. And you're much more able to pull all-nighters with a baby in your 20s than your 40s.

Names were hard because we could NOT agree on them. But mama gets the final say.
I have
- Glenn Deven (goes by Deven; dad is Glenn C, his dad is Glenn B, his dad was Glenn A)
- Jaelyn Kirsi (I wanted Jaena/Jayna)
- Sara Josette (also considered Cosette)
- Caelan Eric (dad's middle name is Calan but gets mispronounced)
- Corin Jay


message 46: by Maggie (new)

Maggie H | 6 comments A couple years ago I though I didn't want kids, but then I realized I was actually just scared of being a bad parent😅 I still am scared ofc, but now I think I'd like three or maybe even four kids someday🙂


SecondMist # SAJA BOYS!!#❤️ | 26 comments nahhh 1 r 2 maxxxxxx


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