HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO

[sakinat]

Um so basically I have/had idk this girl bsf for 3yrs already and i was was on call with her when she told me she’s gay and that she likes me when she knows i have a bf and im fully straight and my family is Lowkey homophobic (im not) i jst hung up the phone and now she keeps texting me idk what to do i know I shouldn’t have hung up but it was all just a bit crazy and too much for me to process it was all so sudden it’s been an hour and i have to see her in school tmr i have no idea what to do and im kinda stressed confused i dont even know please help

[ravza🦥]

you should text her but i think your response was understandable. tell her how you are straight and that you have a bf so this is not going to happen. also you can talk to her about how youve been best friends for 3 years and this news might change something (up to you, if you think it’s too early to talk about this dont do it.) i can tell it’s probably not going to be the same as before since you know her feelings now and i think it’s best to not give her hope in any ways.
about the hunging up, tell her exactly what you said here. that this was too much to process at that moment so you pulled away
personally i think you both might need some time for yourselves

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[ella]

just tell her you don't have feelings for her and you have a BF so she really doesn't have a chance.

[beca♡]

a few years ago l experienced a similar situation, my best friend (she's bi) told me she had feelings for me when she knew I was head over heels for a boy so I told her that I didn't feel the same for her since l'm straight but that I really loved the friendship I had with her and that I didn't want to lose it so she could talk to me about her feelings for me and be fully honest with me bc even though I didn't feel the same, l'd help her to feel comfortable with me without feeling awkward (idk if that makes sense). after a while she moved on, had a few girlfriends, etc... and now we're still best friends, without any awkwardness in our friendship!! idk if this helps you but I hope so, just be honest with her!! 🫶🏻

[Elsie]

Hey, hey. First off, take a deep breath. Nothing will change if you're freaking out.
Maybe she just felt like she had no other option BUT to tell you. She's your best friend, right? Best friends tell each other near to everything, so she deserves to know your side, even if she already knows. If you love her and love the friendship you already have, savor it, and tell her how you feel.

[sakinat]

Thank you all so much guys I just came back from school and i didn’t know what to do so I kinda avoided her but I’ll talk with her tomorrow and update u guys 🫶

[leila ⋆.˚౨ৎ]

okay keep us updated! i agree with the rest that you need to talk to her about this asap. don't give her false hope and lead her on. the best thing u can do is to be honest and speak your heart. if u value ur friendship with her, make it clear that u see her as a close friend only and cannot reciprocate her feelings. i hope your talk goes well 💗

[Alma]

why would she tell you that if you have a boyfriend. that's so wrong of her

[sakinat]

Hi guys so update I talked to her about everything at lunch there was a lot of personal stuff I won’t share but I’m taking some space from her for now and we talked everything out but yeah I need some space and time yk to think everything out too but we’re okay now and hopefully we can go back to being best friends soon but I’ll see thank you to everyone who replied 🫶🫶

[Ava]

Hey, guys, so I'm going to this school formal, and I can't find anyone to dance with. and I already struggle with low self esteem, HELP!!!