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Jan 22, 2025 10:55AM
Umm k, gonna start from the top of the situation. I’m in 8th grade and switched schools last year but I have an amazing friend named Jo who introduced me to her friend group and now we’re all friends. They’re all great, love them. All girls and one boy who’s basically a girl because we raised him, right?;) anyways, this girl, let’s call her cracker, she was like physically abusing the one boy, who we all love. Anyways, she wouldn’t stop and at first it was like playful, but not now?Cracker kinda snuck into this friend group when I first met them, but I thought she had been there the whole time? (Does that make sense?) anyways he told his mom, who called this school, and cracker got into like huge trouble with the social worker, and now she is like super clingy to us even thought none of us like her or want to be friends with her, so how do we let her down slowly? Or just like ditch her? Idk what to do please help!!
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She sits with us at lunch and none of us want to get in trouble… our other friends don’t know so she still has friends, but I feel like they have the right to know what’s happening… help
maybe talk to her and explain why y'all don't want to hang out with her anymore. tbh i think you have the right to do so as she was the one who bullied your friend
i honestly wouldn't do that... i know how much it hurts to feel excluded and feel like everyone in the group doesn't want you, so i would just straight up tell her and explain her the situation, so she would know and it wouldn't create a situation where she doesn't feel wanted but she doesn't know why and if she's just making that up
Thanks y’all are lots of help🥰
I forgot to mention, but she’s like really dirty minded and makes not okay jokes. She also makes really racist comments because she thinks that because she’s black she can be rude to everyone else!! Ex: we were shoveling a path for skiing on and she was like ‘oh, I’m like a slave all over again, sorry ancestors.’ Like girl what. We’re all helping so we can ski, like shut up and do it. Sorry, but not really. She makes me feel really uncomfortable too.😭
oh. okay y’all definitely need to talk to her about this
Maddiel0vesbooks! wrote: "I forgot to mention, but she’s like really dirty minded and makes not okay jokes. She also makes really racist comments because she thinks that because she’s black she can be rude to everyone else!..."I've been in a situation like this before. I believe that it is best not to force yourself to be with her, because it will become visible at one point and only a fight can occur from there. To people like her, based on your description, it is hard to come and tell yk something in the meaning of we can't be friends anymore, what you do isn't okay etc.. If she acted like that in the first place, she won't understand yall's problem with it, or may even say something like "if it is such a problem why do you bring it up just now", anything to get the blame of herself. You however know her better, but I'd get rid of her ASAP, not in a mean way, but maybe it is best to just "grow apart" and get some distance.
Oh, my god. I've been in a situation sort of relatable to this.In 6th grade, there was a girl, let's call her Idiot (haha, I still hate her...), and she showed up one day to my elementary school. She was a new student, and everyone wanted to make friends with Idiot. Including me, because I'm crazy shy and dislikable and very anti-social (blah, people), and so I wanted to step out of my comfort zone for a second and make a new friend.
My friends - my bestie, let's call her Cutie and my other friend (bestie from 4th grade) Silly - also wanted to make friends with her.
At first, it was great. Every day at school me, Idiot, Cutie, and Silly would sit together and chat about crap that doesn't matter, but it was really fun!
Then I got her number. And she turned into this brat girl, but I couldn't see that until my mom commented on some of the sick texts she'd send me.
Silly and I had gotten into a fight with Cutie because Cutie had kept on being very outgoing with other people, and I just felt like she was drifting away - and I CAN'T live with that - so I got upset at her, and me and Silly got into a fight with her. It upset me a lot.
So, Silly and I went to my house to talk this out, and Idiot got mad at us.
But she was texting us, so she's being extra mean and MANIPULATIVE. She tried to get us to change our minds and hang out with her instead, but we kept on telling her no. Silly started swearing, saying the F-word and the SH-word, too.
Another time, she made a HUGE group chat with over 10 people I didn't know and couldn't text because it had to be approved by a parent. She kept on insisting on it, however, and sent me all the numbers/girls in the chat. She started yelling at me over text (all caps), and my mom had to step in because all this made me soooooo sick of her and stressed.
Another really bad time that happened is when I was telling her to shut the F up (I didn't say it like that), and I was telling her that she made me uncomfortable and that I wanted to not be her friend anymore, either that, or she had to CHILL OUT. She said these exact words, "Okay, then maybe you can kiss my trust goodbye." This happened right after she started swearing and saying inappropriate things on a chat with one of my friends. The things she said made that friend uncomfortable, so I was standing up for her.
After all this shitty stuff happened, Silly had chosen Idiot and not me (she's known me since 4th grade). Even after me and Idiot were able to sort of co-exist, she still told Silly, "You have to choose one of us. It comes down to that." I would sit at my lunch table, in my bright red sad hoodie, crying and tired because I would watch Silly and Idiot be besties like me and Silly used to be. It cause me sooooooo much pain, so I know where you're coming from.
Also, sorry. I didn't realize how much I typed. You guys didn't have to read my whole rant story, but it was nice to get that off my chest, yet again. Thank you. Goodnight, guys.
