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Kego 🎀🩷
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Dec 09, 2024 02:12PM
Hi guysāØso I feel like girls donāt want to be friends with me long termšand I donāt understand what Iām doing wrong. I know Iām not perfect but I canāt be that bad š
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iām sorry you feel this way š i mean maybe you just havenāt chosen good friends! was it something you did? or was it them?
do you feel like there's not a close/deep connection ? cus I can relate to that
Kego šš©· wrote: "Hi guysāØso I feel like girls donāt want to be friends with me long termšand I donāt understand what Iām doing wrong. I know Iām not perfect but I canāt be that bad š"making friends can be tough, but it's worth putting in the time and effort from both sides. don't worry if it's taking a while, sometimes it just takes time to find the "right" people. a "genuine" one.
have you thought about joining some clubs or groups with similar interests? you never know... you might just meet some people who share your passions.
@katie hi, you I think youāre right. Maybe I just havenāt found my people yet š„ŗand itās like thereās never like a big fight or anything, itās just like they randomly ghost me. If I did something wrong and Iām bonding with you, I want you tell me. So they couldāve just told me. š„ŗbut I appreciate your words, I wonāt be so hard on myself about it. I just felt bummed when I wrote this. šš¢
@ella hi āØ so basically when I first meet people Iām not as open but when we start getting to know each other, I warm up. I feel like I took the time toā¦ learn about them and I thought they were doing the same. Maybe there was a bit of a motive behind the friendship. Cause most of them end whenā¦ like the thing that brought us together ends for example school š¤I donāt know if that made sense š„¹thank you for your concern š„¹
@Sun young peony hi āØthank you for your encouraging words š¢š©·I have thatās why Iām on Goodreads but I will try more thank you š„ŗ
Hey girl, me too! My advice is fuck them off, they aren't worth the time. If you put in more effort just stop, you will figure out quick who cares and who doesnt. I have 3 really good girl mates, I'd rather have a small circle than a big one full of fakes. The other option is hang out with men, while they are gross they dont have this weird need to only be friends with people who fit a certain sterotype. I spent alot of my teenage years looking after bags at the park because they wanted to play football but didn't want to leave me out. Those are the type of people you need to find.
Hey girl, me too! My advice is fuck them off, they aren't worth the time. If you put in more effort just stop, you will figure out quick who cares and who doesnt. I have 3 really good girl mates, I'd rather have a small circle than a big one full of fakes. The other option is hang out with men, while they are gross they dont have this weird need to only be friends with people who fit a certain sterotype. I spent alot of my teenage years looking after bags at the park because they wanted to play football but didn't want to leave me out. Those are the type of people you need to find.
Hey @maia I really appreciate your advice š©·because I am honestly tired of just being treated this way and Iād like someone or people to put effort into a relationship with me as well š„ŗš«
Hi @junes ( tortured poets) Iām sorry to hear your going through the same thing š„ŗand your right itās better to spend time on my own rather than wasting time or getting my heart broken on fake connections š«¶āØ
Hey! This was something I really struggled with in college so this really resonates with me. I know a lot of people are saying it but maybe you havent found your people but trust me they are out there!! It just takes a lot of looking! I dont know if youre at school or college or work or anything but sometimes people in those places are just horrible. It does get better though.My advice would be to just get involved with lots of clubs and hobbies that you enjoy and the same people that do enjoy those things will be there and with time meaningful connections will form!!
Best of luck and Im sorry its been happening to you <33
@kai Ellis hi š«I really appreciate your advice and taking the time to share your take on this and Iām in college šand Iāll definitely look into joining more groups with my favourite hobbies š«¶š„ŗ
kego I just sent you a friend request and I understand where you are coming from I just moved out of Oklahoma to West Virginia and I don't have any friends here I only have 3 actual friends one in Oklahoma one in Florida and one is in jail. it's hard to make friends especially one that shares your interests like reading. But I would love to get to know you and anyone else that wants to get to know me and possibly become friends. I'm the only one in my house that reads. So few free to dm me šššš
Hi @MJ āØawww youāre so sweet š„¹ friend request already accepted š©·š«¶I really appreciate your comforting words itās good to know that thereās such kind people out there. Actually I think everyone whoās replied is really kind and I really appreciate the support š«¶š«
Kego šš©· wrote: "Hi guysāØso I feel like girls donāt want to be friends with me long termšand I donāt understand what Iām doing wrong. I know Iām not perfect but I canāt be that bad š"I will friend you but, I am Non-binary. I anit a girl.
Kego šš©· wrote: "Hi guysāØso I feel like girls donāt want to be friends with me long termšand I donāt understand what Iām doing wrong. I know Iām not perfect but I canāt be that bad š"
Well, you can 100% message me anytime! I'm always ready for a good talk!
Well, you can 100% message me anytime! I'm always ready for a good talk!
Maybe you are choosing the wrong ones to be friend with. Itās not about other people choices itās about what choices you are making for yourself and who you let in your Life. Greets from Belgium
