What should I do 😭

[Bella]

It’s been a couple years since I’ve had a crush, but I think I’m starting to like this boy at my school and it’s actually driving me crazy because I keep imagining being in a relationship with him even though I know that’ll never happen. It is legitimately just a stupid crush, and I’m confident he doesn’t like me back, but then I just keep thinking about him, and I can’t get anything done and part of me wants to cry because it feels like no boy will ever like me as much as I like them. And then I just drive myself crazy because I just keep thinking about him, but I know he doesn’t like me. And I’m trying to sit down and study, but then I can’t focus because my head drifts off into fantasy land, and I can’t stop. I think I read too many books lol. But like honestly, what should I do?

[annabelle]

hey are you me? lol but seriously tho
uhm well are you sure sure he doesn't like you back? are you guys friends? you could try to be friends with him and see where it goes? but I totally get the admiring from a distance thing haha.
but my advice is, just see where it goes. and have some self confidence girly!! I'm sure you're so beautiful and kind and if he isn't the one, there are many other boys in the world and i'm certain you'll find yours eventually. don't settle! >3

[annabelle]

and I'm really happy for you too!

[~Brittney~(Corentine)~]

@Bella omg girl I have the same issue but I was told he actually liked me but he had a gf and I now how a bf so its crazy but noo try talking to him maybe he does like uu!! just believe in yourself and u can never read to many books. But no I think that u should try to build a friendship at first cause maybe he's not as great as he seems. but he may like u and he may be the one so girl go for it!!!!!

[anaïs ❀]

i relate to what you say about someone not liking you back as much, but you seem like such a kind, smart and pretty person, i would say try to befriend him and see how it goes from there :)

[katie]

i agree with the majority of the comments so far. i 1000000% get where you are coming from. i’ve been there. (i still am lol) BUT GIRLLLL, don’t be so hard on yourself!! you should at least try to become friends with him and talk to him a bit and then see what you think bc if you’re all in your own head about it, you’ll make up a personality for him that isn’t realistic. imagining different scenarios is sm fun but it’s also not good for you because you’re making up your own reality about a guy who may in actuality be nothing like your perspective of him

[Bella]

I talk to him basically but we’re not friends. It’s normally short conversations or jokes and stuff. He’s dated girls at the school before, so that’s why I say with confidence that I’m not his type. It just sucks because I want to be in a relationship with someone, and before I could just say that there were no boys I liked. But now it feels like I’m not in a relationship because no one likes me back.

[♡Maia♡]

I spent almost all my teen years thinking a guy would never like me back, and I think its just the universe telling you that you haven't met your one yet. My boyfriend lives 80 miles from me, been together for a whole year now. Your man is out there, it could be the guy you like so shoot your shot, and if it doesnt work, then he isnt the man you are meant to spend your life with so its absolutely fine if you get rejected. (even though i understand rejection is awful, been there done that). Moral of the story go for it and don't worry about it