What would you do?🫤

[Valentina]

Okay, here is the situation. I might have a crush on a guy, who is in my group of friends. So, one of my friends just told me, that he might be "in love with me", i asked her why and she told me, that he's always making jokes with me (more than with other friends), he sometimes stare at me during class, and things like that. So i told her i don't think so, and she said maybe the reason why he doesn't want to make a move its because he might be scared of ruining our friendship. I don't know what to do, i mean hes cute, but its not really my type.
So tell what would you do in my situation. 🤔

[Marissa]

Follow your gut! If it says to not be with him then just leave it alone and continue on with life but if you’re even slightly interested I say go for it!! My partner wasn’t my type either but he is the best thing to ever happen to me and was my best friend too! You never know what can happen! Also if you guys are meant to be friends you will stay friends after “dating ruining friendships” only happens if you let it

[Valentina]

Marissa wrote: "Follow your gut! If it says to not be with him then just leave it alone and continue on with life but if you’re even slightly interested I say go for it!! My partner wasn’t my type either but he is..."
thank u for the advice, i think i will go for itt. Wish me luck!!

[Marissa]

Good luck I hope it goes well!!!

[Mirnelis ◡̈]

Give it a try, but be honest always... because if it doesn't work you can always go back to being just good friends, just as long as everyone is honest about their feelings and their wants, the friendship will not be lost. <3 Good LUCK :)

[Valentina]

well, i´m back. I´m going update the sitution (i don´t really think anyone will see this but i need to express it somehow).
A few days ago, some of my friends noticed that this guy and i could look cute together. So, they started smiling and talking about us, and that same day i had to sit with him in class but, when i noticed that they were talking (like out loud) of how good we would be together, i decided to switch seats with other classmate. So at the moment he noticed i left, he started looking at me, and tried to ask me why i switched seats and i only said that i prefered sitting with my friend. Since that momment things are really weird between us, that´s because i think he heard them talking about us, so that´s why he is acting weird.

[arianna(sabrina's version)❤]

I say if you don't want him then don't engage. Just tell him he's a great friend but make it clear you don't want to be anything more

[Sophie]

Make it super clear that you don't have feelings for him to your friends. Tell your friends with a serious face to stop bringing it up.

[Valentina]

so, now i don´t know what to do, i mean i can´t do anything right now beacuse we have holidays and i will not see him until a few weeks, but i don´t have any idea of what i will do after holidays.
Although, a small part of me think that this relatioship would never have been possible.😔

[Sophie]

I think that you should tell him you feel like something is up and that you don't want things to be weird.

[Valentina]

Sophie wrote: "I think that you should tell him you feel like something is up and that you don't want things to be weird."
Yeap, i will. I don´t wanna mess up our friendship, cause next year we will be in the same class (we´re studying the same things).

[Valentina]

thank u for all of your advices ❤️