getting in trouble..

[[deleted user]]

Hey guys, so I use GR on my Chromebook and someone told me to go bye bye forever, and someone told me they wanted to go bye bye forever (don't say the actual meanings please)

I've been out of school on fall break, and since its online I get flagged for saying certain words and my mom gets a call about it and its a whole deal, they read the message and have a whole talk with me and I get in trouble after.

I don't wanna lie if I get flagged but ATP I have to, my mom will be furious and everything will be taken away from me.
anyone know what I should tell my mom if it happens? anything but the truth bc idk what to do anymore.

[ella]

someone on goodreads told you that ?

[[deleted user]]

ella wrote: "someone on goodreads told you that ?"

yes bro, idk what to do

[ella]

I got flagged once but it was for creative writing but they didn't contact my parentals

[ella]

that's insane that someone did that

[ella]

did you say something back to that person or are you saying that like if you respond you're scared of getting flagged/them contacting your parents ?

[ella]

(sorry I ask a lot of questions just to clarify)

[[deleted user]]

ella wrote: "did you say something back to that person or are you saying that like if you respond you're scared of getting flagged/them contacting your parents ?"

I responded back to both of them, not repeating what they said ofc
idk if I can get flagged on Goodreads tho but ig we're gonna find out

literally idk what to tell my mom in case it does happen tho, lying isn't good but its better than being isolated from everyone

[ella]

I actually used Goodreads on my Chromebook also...I never got flagged

[ella]

I understand that panic idk you could say something along the lines like "those people came at me and I had a right to answer" cus let's be fr that's harsh and the other person needs a therapist

[Karigan]

agreed

[Karigan]

you shouldn't get in trouble for defending yourself

[[deleted user]]

ella wrote: "I understand that panic idk you could say something along the lines like "those people came at me and I had a right to answer" cus let's be fr that's harsh and the other person needs a therapist"

I'm not really supposed to be dming ppl..or even have any way to contact ppl so...😭

[Hadley]

I don't see how any of this is your fault, the school has ways to block specific websites, if they deemed it inappropriate it wouldve been blocked, I am not Sure I am understanding the full scope of the situation, as I don't see how your mom would think this was your fault. you can't be held responsible for other peoples behavior.. and even if you responded, that seems like a perfectly normal reaction to have given what was said, I wouldn't let it stress you too bad,

[[deleted user]]

⚔️ Hadley 🎀✨ wrote: "I don't see how any of this is your fault, the school has ways to block specific websites, if they deemed it inappropriate it wouldve been blocked, I am not Sure I am understanding the full scope o..."

she'd be mad at me for talking to people, other than that ur so right.

[ella]

she won't let you talk to anyone ??

[Karigan]

how old are you (u don't have to answer)

[[deleted user]]

I'm 14, I've done messed up stuff I'm not allowed to yap to ppl online.

she lets me use her phone to text my friends who she knows.
besides that I cant rlly have a convo with someone online

[Karigan]

OK I that makes a bit more sense for the restrictions cause I have it like that as well cause my parents check my phone but I don't think the school would contact your parents unless you were on something really inappropriate

[Karigan]

and if they do and you get in trouble just know the other person was in the wrong and u were defending yourself even if u weren't allowed to, just know that they need help and they were trying to bring u down and u didn't allow them because self respect is something we all should have and you are part of the few who do

[ella]

ik 18 and I still have restrictions rip

[Karigan]

sorry of that made no sense

[[deleted user]]

Karigan wrote: "OK I that makes a bit more sense for the restrictions cause I have it like that as well cause my parents check my phone but I don't think the school would contact your parents unless you were on so..."

they contact her bc I do online school, so if so I'm screaming, crying, throwing up.

fingers crossed I don't bc I alr got flagged twice on a Google doc this yr smh

[Savannah]

Did anyone stop to think of the context of the situation? Maybe the person who was talking to her was venting or smth.
Y’all r acting like it was probably a random ass person lmaoo

[Heer ☽ (inactive era due to uni)]

Karigan wrote: "sorry of that made no sense"

Your name is so interesting, SLAYY ❁

[Karigan]

thank you

[[deleted user]]

Savannah wrote: "Did anyone stop to think of the context of the situation? Maybe the person who was talking to her was venting or smth.
Y’all r acting like it was probably a random ass person lmaoo"

literally, the person js needed a safe place and ig I was it
but ig I forgot to mention it wasn't js someone ranting to me and I didn't wanna listen so myb

[ella]

@savannah we were all basically talking/responded to the person that told her to go bye bye not the other person

[ella]

there's nothing wrong about ranting but if that person was serious they need in person help not online