Does anyone have tips for confidence?

[Rhea]

Find your style, figure out what makes you feel good in your body and don't be afraid to be a bit high maintenance. Try to be more confident because the only opinion that matters is your own <3

[Aishah]

Lilja, this may not seem like advice, but I only have one thing to say and that is no advice or any tips can work on you if YOU think your body is imperfect, which it obviously is not, but the sad fact is that you don't know it only the people around you know it.

[✨Sarah✨]

By replacing negative self-talk with positive affirmations, you can improve your mood, reduce anxiety, and increase your confidence in yourself.❤️🤍❤️

[[deleted user]]

u cannot look around and think "ugh I'm so ugly" NOOO
u have to walk into a room and think "I'm stunning" and lie to urself
confidence will build up tbh, its what I do lol

[ella]

self acceptance is a big part of being confident. accepting your body. sure you can work out but don't do it bc of hatred.

[ella]

accepting that we all have our downfalls but also the things that make us, us. learn to not gaf about what people think about you. more than half of the time they aren't. (especially if they ain't know ya)

[✨sofia✨]

What really worked for me is just every time I look in the mirror I go “damn I look pretty” even if I’m in pajamas, and eventually you will hopefully believe that. Also what I’ve learned with people is just to not care about what they think. It’s not that easy, but what I think to myself is something like “if they hate me at least they’re thinking about me, which means they care about me in some way, and they are just angry I don’t think about them” hope this helps, never forget ur beautiful!!

[TayleighFaith I NEED A MANNNN!!!]

✨sofia✨ wrote: "What really worked for me is just every time I look in the mirror I go “damn I look pretty” even if I’m in pajamas, and eventually you will hopefully believe that. Also what I’ve learned with peopl..."

Yes!

[Kylee]

Find your own style that YOU love and feel confident in or excited to show off! Being comfortable is so important

[Sonja]

Crazy thought, but if you like performing...I turned to Burlesque to get confident in my body. I believe everyone should try it, it does wonders for you.

[rini]

just believe that you can take up space and how others will have opinions, but people will always love you no matter what

[Benji]

Boosting confidence is about more than just thinking positively—it's a holistic approach that combines mental, emotional, and physical practices to help you feel empowered in every aspect of life. Start each day with powerful positive affirmations, telling yourself phrases like, "I am enough," "I am capable," and "I’m in control of my life." These affirmations, especially when said in front of a mirror, rewire your brain to think confidently. Body language also plays a vital role; standing tall with your shoulders back and smiling, even when you’re nervous, not only makes you appear more confident but actually signals to your brain that you are more relaxed and powerful.

Incorporate self-care into your daily routine—dressing in a way that makes you feel good, celebrating small wins, and focusing on your strengths will help build your self-esteem. Visualization is another effective tool: take a few moments each day to imagine yourself succeeding. This mental exercise helps train your brain to handle real-life challenges with grace. Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who lift you up and motivate you, because confidence thrives in environments where you feel valued.

Finally, remember that confidence is often built in the face of fear. Take small, courageous steps toward challenges that make you uncomfortable, and watch as each success further bolsters your self-esteem. If you’re ever feeling uncertain, "fake it until you make it." Acting confident, even when you’re unsure, can gradually transform your mindset into genuine self-assurance. Tools like creating a "confidence playlist," learning new skills, or journaling about your growth can serve as anchors to keep you grounded and remind you of your own progress whenever doubt starts to creep in. Confidence isn't something you either have or don’t—it’s something you actively cultivate.

Playlist:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cy...

Movie: Legally Blonde & The Devil Wears Prada

Motivational Speaker: Mel
https://www.youtube.com/@melrobbins/v...

Mel Robbins is a well-known motivational speaker and author of "The 5 Second Rule," which teaches simple yet powerful techniques to improve confidence and beat procrastination. Her approach focuses on how tiny habits and immediate action can help you change your mindset and take control of your life.

Book: The 5 Second Rule, The Confidence Code by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman, You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero

P.S. Focus on your own journey—your strengths and unique qualities are what make you shine. Surround yourself with positivity, practice self-love, and take those small steps outside your comfort zone. Confidence grows with every win you celebrate, and the more you invest in yourself, the brighter you become. 💫

[satvika]

stop caring about what other people think or say about you... that will definitely boost your confidence

[Naimallama&#x1f999;:P]

Dress how u want to and when you walk feel like your a main character in the movie or book and once you look confident, you feel it.

[winter]

for me, i became more confident when i realized that nobody even cares that much, everyone cares about themselves in the end of the day. Also i think you should start giving yourself more attention instead of giving your own energy to others. these are the things that helped me building my confidence, i hope i can help you!! if you still want to chat feel free to text me!!

[Karigan]

just know it's not self love it's self respect that is the most important

[Karigan]

the beauty standards change non stop and are different wherever you go so just know you are beautiful somewhere(not that you aren't beautiful already) Most people that don't think they are pretty or attractive in some way are a lot of the time , very pretty