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Sep 21, 2024 07:40AM
HELP MEEEE so i have a crush and I’ve liked him since last school year but we have never…. Said a word to each other. I don’t think he knows my name either… And I want to introduce myself and like start talking to him but idk howwwww… like I saw him walking with his guys friend but also my friend(girl and doesn’t know I have a crush on him) so maybe I could be introduced through her??? But wouldn’t that be Werid and awkward? I DONT KNOW PLEASE HELP
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if you're too shy in person have your friend get your crushes socials and give them to you. then you can warm up to him there, then HE can talk to you in real life?
It sounds to me like you have a natural way of getting to know him. If you think your friend would be willing to help you, you could ask her to help you. She could arrange a hangout with a few people so that you could get used to being around him, and then also would feel more comfortable to get to know him more personally.
Thank youuuu I’m planning to talk to that friend about him… I REALLY hope she doesn’t like him
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Give him a compliment on something, it’s usually an easy way to start a conversation
15 movies to help improve Dame Game: 1. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
What it teaches: Kat (played by Julia Stiles) is strong-willed and independent, and the movie shows how to navigate relationships without losing your sense of self. It also touches on being true to your values and not changing just to please someone else.
2. Clueless (1995)
What it teaches: Cher’s journey is about learning that real relationships are based on mutual respect and understanding. The film highlights how being kind, open, and supportive in friendships can lead to unexpected romantic connections.
3. The Princess Diaries (2001)
What it teaches: Mia’s story is one of self-discovery and confidence-building. The movie shows that dating (and life) often works best when you stay true to who you are rather than trying to be someone you’re not for the sake of impressing others.
4. The Duff (2015)
What it teaches: It emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and not letting societal labels define you. The movie encourages girls to approach dating with confidence, focusing on authenticity rather than popularity.
5. Easy A (2010)
What it teaches: Olive (played by Emma Stone) deals with reputation and dating rumors in high school. The film humorously yet intelligently shows the importance of honesty in relationships and self-worth despite external judgments.
6. To All the Boys I've Loved Before (2018)
What it teaches: Lara Jean’s story is about taking chances, communicating your feelings, and understanding the importance of vulnerability in relationships. It also focuses on personal growth and self-awareness.
7. Legally Blonde (2001)
What it teaches: Although this is more about Elle Woods finding herself, it also highlights the importance of staying true to your values and proving that success in life (and love) comes when you don’t compromise who you are for a relationship.
8. The Kissing Booth (2018)
What it teaches: This lighthearted film shows the ups and downs of relationships, how important communication is, and that relationships should be built on trust and mutual respect, not just attraction.
9. Mean Girls (2004)
What it teaches: Although this is primarily a comedy about high school dynamics, it teaches lessons about peer pressure, the importance of kindness in relationships, and how not to let others manipulate your feelings in dating or friendships.
10. How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)
What it teaches: While this is a romantic comedy about the antics of dating, it subtly shows that relationships work best when both people are authentic, honest, and not playing games.
11. Bridget Jones’s Diary (2001)
What it teaches: Bridget’s character shows that dating can be messy, but it's important to embrace your imperfections and find someone who loves you for who you are, flaws and all.
12. The Fault in Our Stars (2014)
What it teaches: This movie portrays deep emotional connections and the importance of vulnerability and openness in relationships. It teaches the beauty of genuine love built on emotional honesty.
13. She’s the Man (2006)
What it teaches: A playful comedy that teaches how confidence, standing up for yourself, and breaking stereotypes are essential both in life and in dating.
14. La La Land (2016)
What it teaches: This film explores love, dreams, and sacrifice, highlighting that relationships are about balance and sometimes require choosing between love and personal ambition. It shows the importance of supporting each other’s dreams in a relationship.
15. The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants (2005)
What it teaches: While the focus is more on friendship, it also teaches that building strong, supportive friendships can help in navigating relationships and understanding what you truly want in love.
Hey there! I get it, crushes can make you feel all sorts of emotions—excitement, nervousness, and a little bit of fear. First off, it’s great that you want to take a step toward getting to know him, and I promise, it doesn’t have to be as awkward as you think! Here’s a simple approach to make things feel more natural:
1. The Power of a Simple Introduction
Sometimes, the hardest part is starting the conversation. Since you both have never spoken, an introduction is a great first step. On a day you feel comfortable & confident, you could just walk up to him when the timing feels right—maybe when he’s not with a big group—and say something like:
“Hey, I’ve seen you around and thought you were cool for doing: (something kind you saw him doing for another person.) I’m Alice.”
It’s short, sweet, and shows confidence. Remember, everyone likes meeting new people, and if he’s shy, he might even appreciate you breaking the ice!
2. Use Your Friend as a Bridge
Since your friend knows him, it’s definitely not weird to ask her to introduce you. You could casually mention that you’d like to get to know him better and see if she can help ease you into a group conversation. That way, it feels more natural, and you’re not just walking up alone. Something like:
“Hey, I’ve seen you talking to [crush's name]—maybe we could all hang out sometime?”
That way, it’s not awkward or forced. Plus, being in a group setting can make things feel a little less intimidating for both of you.
3. Start Small
You don’t have to jump straight into deep conversations. Starting with casual topics like school, classes, or even something funny that happened recently can help keep things light. The key is to just get the conversation flowing naturally.
4. Don’t Overthink It
I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to overthink every move. When you approach him, remember: you’re just getting to know him like you would any new friend. The more relaxed you are, the more comfortable he’ll feel too.
5. Be Yourself
This is the most important thing. Be genuine, be yourself, and let the conversation happen naturally. If he likes you back, he’ll appreciate getting to know the real you.
Bonus Tip: Confidence is Key
Guys often find confidence attractive, so even if you’re nervous, showing that you’re willing to introduce yourself is a huge plus. Take a deep breath, smile, and know that you’ve got this!
Good luck! Whether it’s through your friend or a simple introduction, the goal is to have fun with it and see where things go naturally.
Oh my god I was not expecting so much advice thank you!!!!
Tbh go up to them. Be kind and everything.
