Okay so I need advice.

[Cole]

Have you guys ever been so blind? Like I was dating this guy for awhile, then to find out he was cheating and I still stayed I didn’t learn right? Well then we could fix things between us afterward. We were toxic and we would always argue. Well I would sneak out to see him late at night and we would meet up somewhere, then he came to my house and I snuck him in. We would still kinda mess with each other yk but then I found out he was talking to multiple people. Multiple other girls and I said you’re cheating on them? And he was like no and I said you’re entertaining them?? He said no I’m not, im not talking to them there talking to me. And I kicked him out but I still miss him and ik I should be over him bc like he’s an asshole. But how do I get over him? He’s the only person I’ve ever felt safe with. And I mean I’m upset and don’t want to text him but I do wanna text him I’m trying not to but I just dunno what to do. Any advice?

[trin]

my latest ex boyfriend and I were also in a toxic relationship, so yes I was so blind, even when my friends told me that he was just using me for my body, and I stayed with him. I started to believe it, but still stayed with him despite it, I got suspended twice, because I was so blind, I changed, and not in the good way. When we broke up he told me I was no use to him anymore because he got what he wanted, it's been two months since then, it's still hard, but I promise you it will get easier. What really helped me is writing everything that I want to say to him on a piece of paper, and I just kept telling myself that if I stayed in that relationship any longer, I would just get hurt even more. It was unhealthy, you had to save yourself, it's his loss not yours, and you should not feel bad for him, because he hurt you, and he made that seem fine, but it isn't. You deserve someone who will treat you right and be there for you who will love you as much as you love them, remember your worth, because that boy is not worth your time.

[Cassandra 🍁☕️📚]

I have definitely been so blind in previous toxic relationships. I used to beat myself up mentally about it. How did I miss the signs??? I’ve been cheated on and then try to get back with him. It was not good at all. Don’t be hard on yourself. It sucks that it happens. You definitely deserve better. It takes time to heal and it will eventually get easier. Put yourself first and take time for yourself. What helped me a lot was deleting their cell phone number and deleting/blocking them on all social media accounts. It helped me stay focus on the bigger picture instead of trying to contact them. Out of sight, out of mind is how I looked at it. I wish y’all the best 💕

[Flower]

I’ve been with a guy like this. You’ll heal with time. DO NOT REACH OUT TO HIM OR TEXT HIM. Block him on everything, so you are not tempted to text him. You’ll find a better guy.

[Flower]

To feel better I would say go out with your friends so you don’t think about him too much. Take yourself out and treat yourself.

[Kanimago]

I’ve been so depressed these months, I’m struggling with a family problems, friendship, also relationship but now im trying to not thinking about that much anyways does anyone have a books recommendation ? To cheer me up?? it would help me so much 💕🐱thank you

[Ashleigh]

I'm a big advocate of therapy. there may be a root cause why you feel the need to go back to this person or why you feel safe with this person.
also, people doing wrong things will twist it so they aren't doing something wrong or lying. In addition, they will gas light you.
Don't get stuck in a pattern of going to someone who can't be honest.

[♡ Tkay!]

We've all been there girly. Honestly, the best thing you can do is find hobbies you love, people you enjoy being around, get out there and just do stuff that makes you happy. You will eventually move on and the pain will eventually subside. Start going to the gym, read a book, make a blog, anything you wanna do to occupy your time. Over time you will realize that you don't deserve that kind of relationship and you are worth more. <3

[Alexandra⋅˚₊‧ ❀ ‧₊˚ ⋅]

Kanimago wrote: "I’ve been so depressed these months, I’m struggling with a family problems, friendship, also relationship but now im trying to not thinking about that much anyways does anyone have a books recommen..."

read The Midnight Library by Matt Haig