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Jun 10, 2024 12:29PM
So me and my bsf are usually super close and we do everything together and we’ve been besties since 5 years. And last friday she stopped talking to me. Like literally. In the morning i saw her and smiled at her and was about to say hi and then she just turns around and COMPLETELY ignores me. The whole day she doesnt talk to me at all, like not a single word. Then in the afternoon i go ask her why she’s ignoring me and she says shes not. So in my head im like thats fucking bullshit, so i push her a bit more to give me an answer cause we supposed to be bsfs but she aint talking to me. Then she just leaves. Like literally turns around and leaves like a 10 yr old. In the evening, i send her a text saying what did i do and if she can tell me what i did so i can improve myself. She just says that in the morning she thought id looked at her badly so thats why she didnt say hi (BS excuse imo) but didnt say why she didnt speak to me the whole day, when we literally ate at the same table w our friend group. Then today i tried to ask her what i did in person. And again. SHE JUST LEAVES. Girls i need help cause idk what to do rn. I dont wanna run after her but she is (was?) my bsf and literally is/was (idek anymore) one of the ppl i care(d) about most.
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Firstly I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. This is honestly pathetic and her excuse is so nonchalant. I honestly don’t know what to say but I feel like maybe if you try to ignore her too like not ask her or anything and stay quit about it for a few days she MIGHT open up about it but I also understand that because you were so close you obviously want her to answer so I’m not sure what can be done. Also if she’s doing this there could be someone gaslighting her into thinking you did something that triggered this attitude from her because I know some people in school who do that a lot like they’ll completely make up a story about you and feed it to someone so that they hold a grudge against you. I really hope that she can open up about it soon and that you guys can be in good terms soon!
Thanks so much for your answer ❤️ i’ll try my best to find out what happened because tbh i rly dont understand
Omg I’m so sorry this is happening! I totally agree with everything said above also, I am kinda going through a similar thing with one of my best friends (her suddenly going super cold and distant) and with the space she kinda forced between us I realized how toxic she actually was. I really hope that this isn’t what is going on, but maybe take a minute to reevaluate everything, because it seems like you really care about her and you seem like a great person, and she really should value your friendship and if she values you as much as you do her and something bothered her she should be able to talk about it with you and not just give you the cold shoulder. Space is necessary sometimes but silent treatment isn’t. Sorry if that didn’t make sense!
I am so sorry this is happening to you. This has happened to me a few times but then I just realized that I was in a really toxic friend group and so I just left it. I hope that's not the case though and I agree that maybe just give her space for a couple days then if she doesn't say anything maybe try to talk to her about it again.
i am so so sorry this is happening to you. me and my old bsf everything was good and okay, we were hanging out outside of school as well as in school and at the end of last year i went up to her and she just ignored me. i went again and she ignored me again. i never asked her why because even tho she meant a lot i dont want to be friends with someone who doesnt care. i think you should do what is best for yourself because it seems like this person is just causing pain for you and you will be okay without them.
noooo! I feel so bad for you! I hope you guys can work it out! sometimes girls are just like that! maybe try to talk it out with her? see how it goes? she might ignore you again but normally I would say just give up, but she’s been your friend for 5 years! maybe think about something you might of done? or maybe someone spread a nasty rumor? just some ideas. I really do hope you guys can be friends again or at least take about it! hope for the best!!
Thank yall so much for your replies 💕 i’ll take your advice and maybe give her some space and otherwise i’ll try to find out why she’s acting like this
From my experience this could work but u could try talking to another person in the friend group who is also relatively close to u and ur bsf and ask them if they know why she's doing it if she still ignoring you and the probs could tell u if they know
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