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✨ tazannah - not accepting friend requests ✨, ⭒spiritual leader⭒
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Aug 24, 2024 08:56PM

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Both gentlemen in this thread need to remember the rules to comments in F&F.
Creed— please take a break from this thread.
Stephen—I agree with you, but please do NOT use foul language to get a solid point across.
Creed— please take a break from this thread.
Stephen—I agree with you, but please do NOT use foul language to get a solid point across.
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Stephen wrote: "Chill your shit Creed. You WILL NOT talk disrespectfully towards her again. Got it?"
You just got a strike Stephen. No cursing. And calm down please
You just got a strike Stephen. No cursing. And calm down please
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Stephen wrote: "Creed, you’re tone deaf. It’s never okay for a man (or, in your case, a boy) to talk to a lady that way. Period. Doesn’t matter if she was rude to you or not."
Olivia didn’t mean to disrespect him, but that’s no way to talk, either.
Olivia didn’t mean to disrespect him, but that’s no way to talk, either.
Ok, first things first, Stephen. You don’t need to be rude to Taz like that. She didn’t do anything wrong. As you know, she’s a mod too, therefore she helps In force the rules that Lily set up. Also, she didn’t see Sharon’s comment until after she posted hers.
And please don’t accuse her of being rude to you in dms. She only dmed you at appropriate times when it was about F&F rules that she was in forcing.
The strike that you got, was because you used the s word which is against the rules and totally not necessary. And yes, it was pointed at you because you used it. Creed isn’t in the right here either. He overreacted to a simple comment that Olivia said, and you definitely overreacted to Creeds comment. Neither of you are in the right here. But you got the strike because you actually disobeyed the rules.
We are doing the best we can and what we think is right. If you don’t like how F&F is run, then I suggest you leave.
And please don’t accuse her of being rude to you in dms. She only dmed you at appropriate times when it was about F&F rules that she was in forcing.
The strike that you got, was because you used the s word which is against the rules and totally not necessary. And yes, it was pointed at you because you used it. Creed isn’t in the right here either. He overreacted to a simple comment that Olivia said, and you definitely overreacted to Creeds comment. Neither of you are in the right here. But you got the strike because you actually disobeyed the rules.
We are doing the best we can and what we think is right. If you don’t like how F&F is run, then I suggest you leave.
There was a lot of overreacting happening on both Creed’s and Stephen’s parts. When I saw what was happening, I posted my comment to try to put a stop to it, not to make a final decision. I just wanted to give Ellie, Taz, and I time to connect and come to a decision. My comment should not be taken as the final decision— the mods are still discussing the situation.
Please remember that we are the body of Christ. We won’t connect deeply with everyone else in His body, and some people we might outright dislike, but that only gives us opportunity to obey our Lord and Savior more fully in challenging situations. Through Peter He told us to “…have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.” (1 Peter 3:8-9)
Please know that Taz, Ellie, and I will work through this feeling the weight of our decisions. Whatever our decision, it will be made with love in our hearts for you and for the Lord.
Please remember that we are the body of Christ. We won’t connect deeply with everyone else in His body, and some people we might outright dislike, but that only gives us opportunity to obey our Lord and Savior more fully in challenging situations. Through Peter He told us to “…have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.” (1 Peter 3:8-9)
Please know that Taz, Ellie, and I will work through this feeling the weight of our decisions. Whatever our decision, it will be made with love in our hearts for you and for the Lord.
Very well put, Sharon!
(I think I'll take a break from this thread from a while and let it cool down.)
(I think I'll take a break from this thread from a while and let it cool down.)
Hey all! So the mods are going to handle this situation over dms with Stephen and Creed. We have decided to freeze First Thoughts for 2 days to give us time to talk to them both and give everyone a little time to cool down. I’m sorry for the inconvenience, but we thought this would be best.
~The Mods
~The Mods
Alrighty folks, this is now unfrozen! I just want to remind you all again to be nice and to respect other peoples opinions. If you are joking about something, please make sure it comes across that way so we don’t have any more misunderstandings. Please don’t curse. And last but not least, please don’t hold large conversations on this thread. You can talk a little, but please don’t have more then a few messages back and forth. (And if you do say something not related to the game, please put it in parentheses!) That’s all for now! Thanks guys! You may continue the game! :D

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