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Jenna
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Mar 20, 2024 03:20PM
So basically a few months ago, in December I got cheated on by this guy. He was my first like serious boyfriends and we talked for like 6 months before we dated because I was waiting for my dad to like be okay with it. I am in 8th grade and he is in 9th so we are in the same school but different buildings. So basically in September we started dating and we dated for a lil over 2 months. during this time, I was on my schools volleyball team and he was on the schools basketball team. I mention this because my practice was from 2-5 and his was 5-7 or 7-9 some days. So on the specific day, my practice went until 5:30 and his started at 5. this was on a firday. well on Sunday I called him to tell him about something and he told me that he had cheated on me and went to another girls house on Friday while I was at practice and you guys can put the pieces together from there I am sure. So basically he told me that he could not tell me who the girl was because he was "respecting her wishes" which of course made me mad but I wasn't even really sure I wanted to know so I didn't really push it. well fast forward to Tuesday I get a text from one of my best friends and all it says is I have something to tell you. At this point I knew what she was going to tell me and as soon as she told me I told her to never talk to me again for any reason and told her she was selfish. She then blamed me for it and blocked me. Then a whole bunch of stuff happened and I told her bf that he was going to get STDs from her. I then decided that I was going to say sorry for saying that and she took that as I was trying to be friends with her again. then she started talking to me and telling me that her and my ex kept talking for MONTHS after all this happened. So here is where I need ur help. I want her to stop talking to me but she is not getting the hint and idk what to do. PLEASE HELP
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im gonna have to try and be nice on here cause i wanna say sm stuff to them both. if i were you, i'd directly tell her to stop talking to you. your completely in the right, she shouldn't have done any of that and your ex shouldnt have either. i get the reason why he didnt tell you who it was, but your ex bsf and ex are absolutely fake for that. if you wanted to be nice, you could tell her that you want to have other friends. btw, i hope your okay this sounds like a lot just for an 8th grade.
lilly ♡ wrote: "im gonna have to try and be nice on here cause i wanna say sm stuff to them both. if i were you, i'd directly tell her to stop talking to you. your completely in the right, she shouldn't have done ..."Thank you. I've been trying to like be nice about it but its like gurl... and the entire time this was happening she had a bf so not only did she need mine but also had hers so that another BIG reason I don't like her. I've been trying to like hint at it and she is not getting it so I'm prob js gonna tell her to stop talking to me just like that cuz she doesn't know how to pick up on some hints yk. and thanks. I def wasn't okay at first and it took a while but I'm alr now :)
Yk I had something kind of similar happen to me. My ex Bsf got together with my ex when I was in the hospital. I just cut off contact. I feel so much better now
i’d have to agree with what lilly said and just tell her directly, you’re soo much better off without those people in your life i’m so sorry that happened to you <3
Storm The Gremlin Child wrote: "Yk I had something kind of similar happen to me. My ex Bsf got together with my ex when I was in the hospital. I just cut off contact. I feel so much better now"I'm so sorry that happened. I don't even have words for that. I'm going to try to just cut off all contact with her. ty
Amelia wrote: "i’d have to agree with what lilly said and just tell her directly, you’re soo much better off without those people in your life i’m so sorry that happened to you <3"Thank you. I think that is what I am going to do <3
Jenna wrote: "Storm The Gremlin Child wrote: "Yk I had something kind of similar happen to me. My ex Bsf got together with my ex when I was in the hospital. I just cut off contact. I feel so much better now"I'..."
Its okay. I also just sent you a friend request so if you ever need someone to talk too I am here
@Jenna honestly, thats almost just stupid like what was the entire point of that for her. if you dont mind me asking, whats there relationship now your ex bsf and ex bf? i also feel like if i had anything to do with my bsf's bf, like i feel like you should know not to talk to your ex bsf like rly its common sense but she must lack that.
@Jenna i tried to friend you but it keeps saying something went wrong?
lilly ♡ wrote: "@Jenna i tried to friend you but it keeps saying something went wrong?"Just sent you one :)
lilly ♡ wrote: "@Jenna honestly, thats almost just stupid like what was the entire point of that for her. if you dont mind me asking, whats there relationship now your ex bsf and ex bf? i also feel like if i had a..."So as far as their relationship goes now idek cuz I honestly don't really want to know yk. we all ride the same bus which makes it that much more awkward of a situation.
@Jenna thank you! also, yeah, i get that i wouldnt really wanna know either. that rly sucks i would sit as far away from them as possible.
lilly ♡ wrote: "@Jenna thank you! also, yeah, i get that i wouldnt really wanna know either. that rly sucks i would sit as far away from them as possible."yeah. that's what I have been doing cuz at the end of the day, they are gonna do whatever they want and I've learned it doesn't matter if I feel some type of way about it.
I'll just say this: if ur BFF or ex-bff isnt getting the hint. STOP hinting it. If I were u I would tell her, let's meet up, then politely tell her u don't wanna be friends anymore. if she doesn't accept that and insist that u keep on talking, block her in her face, on every social media u have. if she still argues, check the time and walk away. If she follows you.. tell her to stop, if she doesnt, maybe tell someone she's harassing u? If none of thoes work, threaten to call the police if she doesn't take the threat seriously, call them. Keep me informed!!
