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message 1: by daphne (new)

daphne | 126 comments for me i feel like its that like when someone looks at me i think they are in love with me but if someone actually is i dont want them to be or i dont like them
its annoying


message 2: by M (new)

M (maryamgamal) | 195 comments Red flag probably I'm horrible at communication not because I don't like communicating but because I physically cannot tell you why I'm bothered or what's up with me to your face. I've also recently realised that I may partially be a people pleaser thats fun hahahahahahahahhahaa (I'm being sarcastic if that wasnt clear)


message 3: by M (new)

M (maryamgamal) | 195 comments damn I'm rambling I can talk online but never to people's faces *muscle emoji thing* I hate I can't use emojis AGH


message 4: by daphne (new)

daphne | 126 comments saaaaame im such a people pleaser


message 5: by Tayjah (new)

Tayjah I’m a terrible texter. Like we will have a text conversation and then I will not feel like talking and just stop texting right in the middle of the convo. 😭. I also take forever to text back. Like I will get back to your text a week later it’s soo bad and I will continue the convo like normal. Or sometimes you will just be left on delivered. I’m also bad at reaching out too and some of my friends feel like I’m mad at them or smth but it’s not like that.


message 6: by Noorj (new)

Noorj  (noorywrnr) | 86 comments I hate it when I'm lonely but I don't like talking to anyone lol


message 7: by Annabella (new)

Annabella | 284 comments I tell everyone else to talk about their feelings and get help but never take my own advice


message 8: by daphne (new)

daphne | 126 comments Noorj wrote: "I hate it when I'm lonely but I don't like talking to anyone lol"

LITERALLY ME


message 9: by daphne (new)

daphne | 126 comments Annabella (Rhysand's version) wrote: "I tell everyone else to talk about their feelings and get help but never take my own advice"

i think we are all the same person


message 10: by daphne (new)

daphne | 126 comments Tayjah wrote: "I’m a terrible texter. Like we will have a text conversation and then I will not feel like talking and just stop texting right in the middle of the convo. 😭. I also take forever to text back. Like ..."

yeah i just dip mid convo but then hate when other people do it


message 11: by daphne (last edited Dec 01, 2023 12:25PM) (new)

daphne | 126 comments ultvl wrote: "I don't talk to someone for a long time if they shout at me! I hate when that happens especially with teachers lol"

same i either cry as hard as possible or like laugh and come up with rude ass things in my head


message 12: by Eesha (new)

Eesha ❤️ romance | 114 comments I get pissed off easily but forgive even easier which kinda let's people take advantage of me...and I give too much and get too little in return. and I'm always afraid/ am the second choice


message 13: by Hestia (new)

Hestia Lumiere  | 118 comments I guess my red flag is that I am not that big on feelings and dependency.
Like if you were to cheat on me or hurt me I would at the most get angry for like a day or so and then I would move on (from the person).


message 14: by valek (new)

valek (animexfoodie) | 8 comments I zone out on conversations or couldn’t relate to what others are saying


message 15: by ❃A.J❃ (new)

❃A.J❃  (bibliophagist) | 16 comments My red flag is that I'm very lazy. Possibly one of laziest people ever!


message 16: by Sheridan (new)

Sheridan Read my red flag is me thinking I'm always right. not me thinking I'm the smartest, but I'm the wisest. It gets on other people's nerves as well as mine, but I'm yet to be proven wrong!!!


message 17: by faye (new)

faye | 262 comments mine is i say i want a relationship but do absolutely nothing to put myself out there 🫢


˚₊‧⁀➷Chadlotte˚₊‧⁀➷ BANANA LECLERC my red flag(s) is that I want to make friends but I'm so social butterfly so I sit in the corner and start brooding. I can also get annoyed at the smallest of things. examples: loud breathing, loud footsteps, loud chewing (if you have crunchy foods, you can't do anything, so that's fine-) etc. I also am a perfectionist so if I don't think someone did something perfect I'll get upset at them.


message 20: by Austin (Weird) (new)

Austin (Weird) (weirdwashere1) | 67 comments my red flag is that I'm a jealous sonofabitch-


also I say some unhinge shit


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