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what are your toxic traits/red flags/beige flags??
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Red flag probably I'm horrible at communication not because I don't like communicating but because I physically cannot tell you why I'm bothered or what's up with me to your face. I've also recently realised that I may partially be a people pleaser thats fun hahahahahahahahhahaa (I'm being sarcastic if that wasnt clear)
damn I'm rambling I can talk online but never to people's faces *muscle emoji thing* I hate I can't use emojis AGH
I’m a terrible texter. Like we will have a text conversation and then I will not feel like talking and just stop texting right in the middle of the convo. 😭. I also take forever to text back. Like I will get back to your text a week later it’s soo bad and I will continue the convo like normal. Or sometimes you will just be left on delivered. I’m also bad at reaching out too and some of my friends feel like I’m mad at them or smth but it’s not like that.
Annabella (Rhysand's version) wrote: "I tell everyone else to talk about their feelings and get help but never take my own advice"i think we are all the same person
Tayjah wrote: "I’m a terrible texter. Like we will have a text conversation and then I will not feel like talking and just stop texting right in the middle of the convo. 😭. I also take forever to text back. Like ..."yeah i just dip mid convo but then hate when other people do it
ultvl wrote: "I don't talk to someone for a long time if they shout at me! I hate when that happens especially with teachers lol"same i either cry as hard as possible or like laugh and come up with rude ass things in my head
I get pissed off easily but forgive even easier which kinda let's people take advantage of me...and I give too much and get too little in return. and I'm always afraid/ am the second choice
I guess my red flag is that I am not that big on feelings and dependency.Like if you were to cheat on me or hurt me I would at the most get angry for like a day or so and then I would move on (from the person).
my red flag is me thinking I'm always right. not me thinking I'm the smartest, but I'm the wisest. It gets on other people's nerves as well as mine, but I'm yet to be proven wrong!!!
my red flag(s) is that I want to make friends but I'm so social butterfly so I sit in the corner and start brooding. I can also get annoyed at the smallest of things. examples: loud breathing, loud footsteps, loud chewing (if you have crunchy foods, you can't do anything, so that's fine-) etc. I also am a perfectionist so if I don't think someone did something perfect I'll get upset at them.








its annoying