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Desley (Cat fosterer)
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Sep 06, 2024 01:15PM

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I've been spending a lot of time every night texting with daughter in California - the first antibiotic for her pneumonia didn't work, and the second resulted almost immediately in an explosion of hives (this happened to her with Ceftin, a different AB, ten years ago, too), so dealing with that, her continued coughing, inability to sleep, and now both hives and the transition to a THIRD antibiotic, has needed some handholding.
I've been happy to be able to do anything - and her doctors seem to be managing the process - but she's been in a lot of pain and much discomfort, and it has strained anything I knew of the medical part from rearing children long ago.
She's still hoping the hives are from the previous AB, and the third won't do the same thing, and might actually work against the pneumonia, but it has been an odyssey now lasting over a week, and I'm not really able to do this, so am crashing in the intermediate times.
We'll know more in a few more hours - hoping for the best. Thought this would have been completely over by now, and it's barely beginning. Hospital IV drip is the next stage, so it's going to be a tense weekend.
I have been so proud of her functioning in spite of almost no sleep and itching and coughing - with few breaks. But almost hoping she'd be in hospital and being taken care of by others. Almost, because there is so little control once you end up there. And, in my experience, VERY limited comfort measures. Plus her relatively newly adopted cat, Peach, is obviously stressed.
I'm going to do the best I can until she's better, but it is so hard doing it long-distance. Seems better than nothing - barely.

They certainly are Jim, especially the two I go to where they remember you and what you like/dislike and seem to genuinely enjoy seeing you, not just another face to them.

Doctors may deal with this all the time, but it's hard on the moms.

Glad things seem to be improving Alicia.

Hopefully Daughter is on the mend Alicia



You should write nice cozy mysteries set around your craft fairs and bazaars - there is a whole culture there!
Daughter seems better - but apparently it can take longer than 6 weeks to stop coughing - and she's exhausted. She had a vacation rental for this week - we're hoping she's well enough to go, for a break, which she could really use.

If I was any good at writing, I might Alicia! It's a nice little community though. Glad daughter seems better, hopefully she can get some rest. Has she gone back to work yet?

I’ve been busy decluttering both at home and for my old boss. Our old office is being emptied ready to be sold. My old work colleague and I were there a few days last week. I have asked for one of the metal cabinets which I will put in the garage. We also have some paper and pens that I will share with my sister in law.
At home I have one room partly emptied, the next job will be sorting the furniture that I want to bring down to mum’s house (soon to be my new home)
There was someone taking all the office furniture whilst I was there last week so I have asked if they want the wall units and dining table and chairs from mum’s. Then there is room to start bringing my furniture down.
Tomorrow morning we are putting mum’s ashes with dad’s under his tree in the cemetery. I collected the memorial stone from the masons last week.
The cats have claimed the little bedroom now the bunk beds have gone- the intention is that I will use it as a craft room/office. Barney is spending a lot of time on the windowsill in that room now.
On Friday when the weather was good I was office clearing and then a gym class. It’s been dull and wet since then.
It’s quite windy just now and next door’s tree is waving quite close to my window.
I have been doing a bit of walking- hopefully I will be able to do more. There is a walking event starting next week- Beat the Streets. I might have a try at that. I’ve also been using my bus pass.


Got some heifers moved onto fields where we'd made silage so they were happy eating the fresh regrowth

I hope your daughter is mending nicely Alicia. You never stop worrying about your children, even when they are possibly more capable than yourself!

The house has a pool - which is not heated - or she would just stay in that all evening.
I hate to have to keep nagging, and she's taking it well, but she got a skin-reddening reaction when, WITH sunscreen, she spent an hour in the pool AFTER 4pm yesterday. She's normally sun-sensitive, and now doubly, triply so, and a burn would absolutely RUIN the rest of her trip, so I nag.
Being mother of a capable adult is the dichotomy between meddling - and not saying something you should have because for whatever reason, you're thinking a bit more clearly right now than they are.
I officially released my three children from parental supervision and nagging when they each reached 25, so this is a big deal for us.

Nice to see you R, being hit by a flying stick does sound painful! Can't believe there is snow on the mountains already! Glad daughter is feeling much better and hope she can enjoy her holiday and doesn't get too affected by the sun.

I don't envy contractors their parking problems BUT they shouldn't be inconveniencing a whole lot of people near their work sites. Doesn't make for good community relationships.
Thanks - she IS enjoying the beach. We never managed to do it as a family, but I always wanted to try a vacation there AFTER the labor Day weekend (sort of like a bank holiday that marks the end of summer and the beginning of school many places) - because the kids are often gone because school starts, but the water is as warm as it's going to be for the year, and the days are almost as long as summer ones.
She's having a nice time - finally!

I have asked for one of the metal cabinets which I will put in the garage. ..."
Second hand metal filing cabinets are remarkably useful, it's amazing how they can hold their value when you see offices being cleared :-)

It's been strange here, last two mornings have been rotten wet, Tuesday got out fine, but yesterday we kept getting very heavy showers running through. But it was always windy. I've shifted two tree branches off our lanes that have been torn off trees. When I describe them as branches, they were so big I dragged them behind a quad bike rather than just pull them by hand.


Now that's a nice thought

It has been a mixed week weatherwise.
Quite a bit of rain, on Wednesday morning the rain was very heavy, but at 11 when we were at the cemetery with mum's ashes there was blue sky, sunshine and a bit of a breeze. Then when I was back home the heavy rain returned. Today I was sat in the sun because I arrived too early for my gym class. Last week the traffic was so bad that I was almost dashing in at the last minute.
My gym membership allows me to use three gyms - I just go to two as the third is further away. The yoga class is in the town I live in and the Zumba class in the next town where I used to work. This week the Zumba was moved into the newly refurbished Muni because the sports hall roof is leaking. Next week the class is to be in the Town Hall, because the Yoga is moved to the Muni whilst the gym is being updated.
Your craft fairs sound fun Desley, if one was near to me I would go.
I know what you mean about the branches Jim - I met my old work colleagues for coffee and cakes at the park cafe and had to detour because the path was blocked with a fallen tree and there were lots of very large branches down all through the park.
Hope everyone is well - I'm keeping myself busy still sorting at home. I need to get a new fire for the dining room - I had them serviced this week. The living room fire has been checked regularly but the one in the dining room hasn't. I thought that we had been told years ago not to use it but when it was checked this week the fire was ok but the chimney isn't. So I have decided to get an electric fire for there instead.
One of the cats is cuddled next to me, she has been sitting on my knee a lot. The other is sat in the doorway yowling at me. There is either not enough biscuits in his dish or he wants milk. I will have to obey his summons.

Thanks Jim, it's been quite fun really. I can't remember fully where you live Janet, but not sure we go that far. Glad the weather held up for scattering your mum's ashes. Good luck getting the house sorted.


Thanks Alicia


It can be unsettling when work shifts about like that



Pneumonia - the gift that keeps on giving.
At least she's back at work, and her doctors are learning what takes care of what and what she's allergic to. On my part, still being supportive in the middle of the night (there's a 3 hour time zone difference between California and New York).
It's been... interesting. Still better than it was.
Not doing much writing yet - can't do much with these things hanging over me. Don't dwell on them, but they affect my already erratic sleep.

Jim, Alexa gave me a notification this morning that an author I follow called 'Jim Webster' has released a new book, told her to put it on my wish list, will have a look at it, the title sounded interesting though.
Alicia, sorry that daughter is still suffering from pneumonia and now has another side effect to the meds, at least she is well enough to be able to work and hasn't had to be hospitalised.

So glad you get to see so much wildlife - it sounds quite lovely. You have a lot of dog friends happy to see you. Must make the walk even better.


Glad that daughter hasn't messaged today Alicia. Yes, I was hoping to get a fuss off a dog yesterday, always cheers me up, wasn't expecting such enthusiasm for one that has only met me once though!



Ironically the thing I missed most Jim was hearing my phone and actually having to look at it, rather than just glance at my tracker and see if it was of interest or not!

The Leisure Services in the area have organised an activity called Beat the Street. Lots of schools are taking part. The idea is to get more people active by walking or cycling collecting points.
It started last Wednesday and runs to the end of October.
I have been doing this and have walked every day so far. I have a Fitbit which I hadn’t used for a while so charged it and have been using it. But for some reason it has stopped working a couple of times- not when the battery is low so I am wondering whether it is worth keep trying or whether to chuck it out and get a new tracker.
I’m still slowly sorting and decluttering at home.
My old workplace is now empty- it was strange seeing it like that, and even more when walking around after Zumba class (to collect points!) I passed the auction rooms and saw my old desk on display.
Today I have yoga - the second week in a temporary place because of the gym being updated. Last week was a bit of a shambles because the space wasn’t really suitable. We will see how today’s class goes.

Alicia, glad your daughter is on the mend, hope the noisy workmen have gone Desley and helloo there Jim. Janet, you are clearly doing the sorting the way I wanted to but didn’t. I actually forgot to look in one trunk of stuff and left a whole load of stuff of my great grandfather’s in a strong box. And I thought I’d brought back some of my Mum’s paintings but I left the entire bloody lot.
On the upside, the house is sold and I do, kind of, have my life back.

Good luck with the walking challenge Janet, maybe get a new fitness tracker. So glad to see you back MT, enjoyed the blog post. Hope things do get easier for you now.

I'm sure you did more than you think. :-) look after the voice, although glad to hear your throat wasn't sore with it.

That will take a major stressor off your list - just try not to waste any of your energy second-guessing the sale. It's over! Good job!
I've sort of been MIA - not getting enough sleep to function does that - it comes and goes erratically.
Desley, sorry your throat is acting up!
Good to hear from you, Jay-me.
Our daughter hasn't texted in a day or so - after sending a picture with new hives. Hope she's okay. At least they held off until after one of her best friend's wedding! Hope her doctors learn to guide her through these.
Hope you get some of the paintings back, MT.


🤣🤣 very true. I will try and hang onto it for a while.
Alicia wrote: "M.T. wrote: "...the house is sold..."
That will take a major stressor off your list - just try not to waste any of your energy second-guessing the sale. It's over! Good job!
I've sort of been MIA..."
I suspect they went to the tip. I have a card we made of a lovely one she did and a book of sketches which aren't her best. I just ran out of spoons to keep going to Sussex really. And yes I'll manage to chill eventually. I kept lots of photos. And I kept most of the stuff I wanted time to sort or cared about. Sorry you've been struggling to sleep. I've been doing that and it's unhelpful in the extreme.

Re new tracker Desley - I am struggling to find one that doesn’t have a silicone strap so for the moment will use the Fitbit. The walking challenge uses either a card or phone app so the tracker isn’t essential.
Hope the news from your daughter continues to improve Alicia.
My cats are keeping me company- in their own way. Looking back Barney was the cuddly one and Bradley more shy and nervous. Now Barney ignores me unless he wants food or milk (and lets me know very loudly) where Bradley is the one who sits on my lap nearly every time I sit down. I once gave them likelix at bedtime and now they sit waiting for it. Bradley scratches the scratching post as a message that treats are wanted.

I'm really glad the blogs helped. They were cathartic to write,although I didn't write as much about Mum as Dad because I'd said it all before.
I might ask them if they still have any of the art. We'll done on keeping your Mum's. At least I do have a couple of things. I have some really lovely little cartoon figures she did as a kid so there is something...

Alicia, hope no news is good news regarding daughter and hope that she gets over this latest side effect.
Janet, hoping I read your post write, my new tracker came with a plastic type strap, I bought this as I prefer this style, does come in other colours https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CHMRFKP...
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