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Love the logic Jim. I know a lot of people who talk about pudding stomach, seems I wasn't born with one, when I went out for family meals, I had to have a smaller main so I could have dessert as my granddad was only allowed if someone else was - he preferred meals with my sister in law who has a pudding stomach. Glad your mother is improving, hopefully hubby's op isn't too long a wait and goes well R.

Been very busy lately! Mother has much improved after her stroke so that is a lot less stress and not so many vi..."
Nice to see she's improving, it's better for everybody. Hope your husband's op comes round soon


Must be op season. Mine is waiting for a second attempt by the roto-rooter cardiac team - the first one failed (a couple of months ago), but they perforated something and wanted to wait until it would be completely healed before trying again.
Aug. 30 - It's scary. The artery they're cleaning out has been bypassed for 26 years. Apparently, they keep inventing cardiac procedures - they didn't even have stents well developed when he had a quadruple bypass all those years ago - but I worry what might have been happening inside something blocked that long - and of course he can't wait to have it cleared, and is hoping for better oxygen delivery.
This getting older thing is taxing.
And I'm not doing all the things I need until he's finished with his - mine have long healing times. ONE of us has to be functional!

Fingers crossed for hubby's op Alicia, hope the recovery is speedy then you can get some of the things you need done.

Hope your foot gets the PERMANENT attention it needs - seems like you've been dealing with it for a long time, which IS a shame because you like to walk and make a point of getting the exercise.

Thanks Alicia, it has been going on since March/April! It is better than it was though, but think some of the exercises are making it worse, not better.

Hope the biomechanics help - it's nice they could find you something sooner rather than later.
I could probably benefit from some things, but they are not designed for people with very little energy, and just the thought of getting there and back and recovering is too daunting.
I've promised myself that IF and WHEN the long covid researchers find something we other post-viral patients can benefit from, one of my first priorities will be getting back to fit. I miss the walking, hiking and yoga. I used to be able to stand on my head quite comfortably.

Yes, that is very true Alicia. I do hope they find something that can help people like you.

Had a frappe on Wednesday at Costa. Sort of like a really cold mocha as it had both chocolate, coffee and salted caramel. Rather good actually :-)


Can't stand coffee or tea, but I know all you other, more normal, people like it. Mother always said I'd learn to - never did.

I never liked tea or coffee till I was in my 30's Alicia, and even been able to reduce how much sugar I have in them. Never been a fan of Coke (full fat or diet) unless it has amaretto in it, but that is a drink that affects my sleep, so rarely have it.

I've given up most of the salt in my diet - food tastes like cardboard. But the salt was giving me swollen ankles which wouldn't go away and did not respond to diuretics. Meals last a total of a couple of hours a day - the ankles bothered me all the time. Choices!
Oh, and the doctor had nothing to do with it - she prescribed two different diuretics, and then wanted me to drink no more than ONE liter of water a day, an impossibility. I figured out on my own how to manage - and drink as much water as I need. Not thrilled about it - but it works.

Glad you found your own solution Alicia.


Oh, absolutely Jim, especially with chronic health conditions where it's often useless seeing a doctor as they just put things down to your condition and you come out just being told to take more of the medication you already have. And then you get told off for ignoring things to see if they'll just resolve by working things out/waiting.


Yes, and sensible enough to accept I stopped doing things when it hurt too much and waited for it to settle down again, and has suggested doing things a different way rather than just pushing what she suggested.

We tell new people DO NOT PUSH yourself past limits - medical personnel who do not know the disease and well-meaning friends all suggest you do more exercise and then increase, and have no idea they're condemning their patients to getting WORSE unless it is done with extreme care, and NEVER pushing.
Our energy-producing mechanism in our cells doesn't work. Staying within your 'energy envelope' is the only solution. And, boy is that slow! Can't wait until the Long Covid researchers figure out how this happens and how to treat/fix it - and hope it applies to me - now that they have a huge cohort of people sick from a SINGLE virus to study. There's a Nobel Prize in it, researchers! Get a move on!
Meanwhile, we ALL have to get through 24 hours every day. Making things worse first may work for certain things (weighlifting comes to mind) where part of the process is breaking down muscles to build them up stronger. These are PROVEN methods. But it's also PROVEN that it doesn't work for ME or LC. I won't bore you with the details - just be aware.

That is interesting Alicia, I do hope that they can find something that will help


And then I try to ignore it, after I've done everything I can, because if I focus on it, I get NOTHING done.
If I hadn't already published two-thirds of my mainstream trilogy, I'd probably just give up, and find less stressful things to do. But I've put too much into it already - so I keep trying. I don't know whether my efforts will succeed, but I won't make it easy not to.
Keep working on your foot problems - you get so much out of those walks. I love reading about them and the wildlife, and even the rain.
I don't believe you're lazy! I just know it isn't easy. I'm not lazy, either. Maybe reframe it from 'when I can be bothered to tidy this, I might find it' to 'when I can tolerate cleaning up, I always do, and I'll find it.' After all, 'it' doesn't have feet. Being too hard on yourself isn't a good strategy for improving. And look how much you're getting done at work.

Yes, it's certainly a balance between managing symptoms and not creating new ones caused by medication! I feel like having something to focus on does help though. I do need to be kinder to myself, and I do think I need to find a new cleaner.

I've seen quite a few Jim, and at different levels, don't think I've had an issue with any of them


Still working my way through sorting.
The garage is partly done - the stuff that is left in there to be sorted is neatly stacked now.
The little bedroom is empty apart from a chest of drawers which is going in the garage to store tools etc
Next job for that room is to paint and put tiles down instead of the carpet and then shelves for storing craft stuff.
The stairlift was taken out this week.
I have two large bags of books ready to be donated.
Two bags of part used shampoos and lotions etc to dispose of.(nobody wants unsealed items)
Two bags of paper to be shredded
Two walking aids to donate.
My cousin from Australia is visiting and we had a meal out - chicken and chorizo pie very tasty!! We had found some old photo albums while sorting and so have copies of photos of her parents to give my cousin. I also offered her a couple of my mum's watercolour paintings- but can I find where I have put them?
That is something else that I have to find a home for - mum's art supplies. There is a bag of various size cardboard frames(?mounts?) and also some frames including the glass.
Mum's older sister died a couple of weeks ago and her funeral is this week.
I'm also busy stocking the freezer with home made ready meals, pies and soups.
And going to the gym. The zumba instructor is on holiday so we had a replacement class. Very enjoyable but my arm is still aching from waving weights around. I'm hoping it feels better tomorrow for yoga - I already have to skip some of the poses because of my shoulder.
I am still managing to get some reading and listen to audio books to fall asleep to.
And the kittens are keeping me company.

Good to see you Janet, glad you are getting there with sorting - it's such a shame people won't take unsealed toiletries, so many people go without while we have to throw things away. Hope your arm is up to yoga tomorrow.

Still working my way through sorting.
The garage is partly done - the stuff that is left in there to be sorted is neatly stacked now.
The little bedroom is empty apart from a chest of drawe..."
We modern humans accumulate so many individual items! Keep at it - it's still a finite list. Good job making progress.

I LOVE clean bedding. Enjoy!



Well, he thought that physio would help it. But am also hoping the orthotics will too. Just find it ironic that the main cause of tendinopathy appears to be over use, when this started 4 months after I stopped doing as much walking! Though as it was linked to a bout of sciatica, maybe I was just inadvertently walking awkwardly.

Interesting idea about the walking awkwardly, it is surprising how pain in one place can cause problems elsewhere as you try and limit that pain

I hope the orthotics help - that would be great.


I still have the plastic, don't need it in wellies or new trainers, only once they've been worn a while, and if I get decent gel insoles that does instead of the plastic



But it was a very pleasant evening

When I got to my counselor's this morning, it turned out he was home with covid, and the front desk, which had my name on a list he supplied, didn't let me know. Getting up in time, eating, dressing, riding Maggie to the other side of the complex - all that takes a fair amount of my energy - so I came home almost as tired as if I'd had a visit.
My assistant was out sick Mon. and Wed., and may come Friday. But we're in her last weeks, and she hasn't found a replacement yet that I know of.
So I never got much thinking done. Sometimes that's just how it is - marking time.
Crabcakes for dinner made it somewhat better, to make up for it. Try again tomorrow. It's all you can do.
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Been very busy lately! Mother has much improved after her stroke so that is a lot less stress and not so many visits, although husband is now waiting for a date to go into hospital for an op.