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I have never related so much to a paragraph in my life I FEEL U
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♥️ I miss the 1800s when being pale was a beauty standard ♥️😆
So I'm a freshman, and I took English 9 this year. Next year I can either take English 10 or Honors English 10( by teacher recommendation, and it's a bigger work load). So my teacher is recommending me to take Honors, because my level is way above our class. I told my friend group that I am. And everyone laughed, saying that I'd be the only one. I told them it would be good for my transcripts. They said "not if you fail it" they just kept belittling me and thought that's I'd fail over it. They know that I work well in classes with hard work. Like, seriously? Can't yall be supportive for once?
I do find some pale girls pretty...
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...plug the hole somehow? I'm not sure I get the question?
You broke my brain and it not braining anymore.
JØ₳₦ (F͓̽a͓̽i͓̽r͓̽y͓̽ B͓̽o͓̽y͓̽) wrote: "You broke my brain and it not braining anymore."
my brain was never braining to begin with but i agree
my brain was never braining to begin with but i agree
✨Mollie wrote: "Guys I need to vent. I’m feeling awful about myself. I feel like I look horrible in everything, I’m mad cause I have ugly hair, I can’t tan, cause I just turn red, and I have no hips or anything. N..."
awww same!! I don't look good in swimsuits and I go to a girls only school so :/
awww same!! I don't look good in swimsuits and I go to a girls only school so :/
Beauty standards are dumb, I tan but I look the same cos I have naturally tanned skin
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Hey girl, listen up: you are beautiful just the way you are. You hear that? JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. You don’t have to be tan or have hips to be pretty, alr? You can get those later in life. But at the moment, remember you are beautifully and wonderfully made!!
Trust me, not all girls are popular. And being popular isn’t always a good thing; it can increase stress and make you set expectations and make you do things to please other people. Besides, who determines who gets to be “popular”? You have a heart that’s golden, and if trade that for any popularity
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Oof, I’m sorry, Sarai. I’m sure you’re amazing at English. Maybe tour friends are jealous because they can’t deal with harder, more advanced classes. Just ignore them, because in the long run, it’ll look amazing on transcripts and colleges will def notice :)
@Taz thx so much. I keep telling myself that and it’s hard to keep those thoughts in my head when all around me I see what I want but don’t have. I keep trying though. ♥️
Major stress from deadlines this week do not bother me as much as my lactose intolerance blocking me from all the good food with dairy here in Germany (︶︹︺).I've always loved dairy, I didn't even give it up when my doctor recommended a vegetarian diet for a while. Unfortunately, my body started disliking dairy.
(つ﹏<。) Here I am suffering from a lactose intolerant attack because I wanted to try this matcha cream cheese latte xD
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I've always loved dairy, I didn't even..."
Aww, I'm sorry. :/ I love cheese too, but whenever I eat dairy I break out. But there are some good substitutes I've found that I really like. If you want I can pm you a recipe? Lol fr tho, like this dairy free cheese sauce has literally saved my life XD
Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭
Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"
NOOOOOOO im so sorry for your loss
NOOOOOOO im so sorry for your loss
Psychii wrote: "Cee wrote: "Major stress from deadlines this week do not bother me as much as my lactose intolerance blocking me from all the good food with dairy here in Germany (︶︹︺).I've always loved dairy, I..."
I always take Lactaid but I miss the life when I didn't have to take lactose intolerant tablets HAHA
Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"Sorry for the loss. I would be upset as well if I lost my streak but it's going to be okay :)
Cee wrote: "Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"Sorry for the loss. I would be upset as well if I lost my streak but i..."
Thanks ❤️
Michelle wrote: "Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"NOOOOOOO im so sorry for your loss"
Thanks. My Mom thinks it’s silly but it was my academic pride lol
Sadie wrote: "Michelle wrote: "Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"
NOOOOOOO im so sorry for your loss"
Thanks. My Mom t..."
One day when your mom gets a 381 duolingo streak and loses it she'll understand
NOOOOOOO im so sorry for your loss"
Thanks. My Mom t..."
One day when your mom gets a 381 duolingo streak and loses it she'll understand
Michelle wrote: "Sadie wrote: "Michelle wrote: "Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"NOOOOOOO im so sorry for your loss"
Th..."
Lol I can’t see her using Duolingo 😂
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Oh no! I'm sorry :'(
shay ~ wrote: "Sadie wrote: "Just found out I lost my 381 day Duolingo streak, which I know sounds really lame to be upset over but I am 😭😭"Oh no! I'm sorry :'("
Thank you ❤️
✨Mollie wrote: "Guys I need to vent. I’m feeling awful about myself. I feel like I look horrible in everything, I’m mad cause I have ugly hair, I can’t tan, cause I just turn red, and I have no hips or anything. N..."I am in public school and I get it. It's annoying...lots of pressure, honestly just forget about it.
we were made the way we are for a reason, we just don't understand it yet. I am sure you are beautiful.
Thx @Lindsay. All of your guys words mean so much to me you don’t believe. ♥️ love y’all
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Ofc!
Ik; it IS hard
But remember your heart. bc that's what matters most :)
"man looketh at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart"
@Taz *Hugs* again, thank you. Every time I look in the mirror, I really do try to tell myself that I am beautiful and god does love me.
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*hugs*
You ARE beautiful, Mollie!! and he sure does!
💖
✨ Tazannah *Taz* Gresheld ~ On Hiatus ✨ wrote: "✨Mollie wrote: "@Taz thx so much. I keep telling myself that and it’s hard to keep those thoughts in my head when all around me I see what I want but don’t have. I keep trying though. ♥️"Ofc!
Ik;..."
As you are ❤️❤️
ok so you totally don't have to read this:I wanna go to college. Specifically, college in the US (I live in the US) but college in the US is really expensive and i really don't wanna do the whole loan thing. my parent and i were talking about it and she was like "it's really expensive but i want you to go for the same experience that I had" cs she went to college here too. and i want to go and she wants me to go but i just feel bad about the cost, subconsciously. like no matter how many times I tell myself it's okay i just can't shake it. I'm not the type of person who likes to seem like an inconvenience or burden or problem to anyone.. especially people i care about. I'm just carrying the guilt of course i can get a work-study job or a job job but will it even be enough? my mom is a single mom of two, she already put her life on hold for us too much.. i have a sibling, what if they wanna go to college too? now she's gotta put two kids through college on her own.. great! I can try to get scholarships and possibly a loan but at the way inflation is now??? if it doesn't calm down or something like? and financial aid isn't an option bc we don't need it like this is more of a personal, internal, overthinker problem than an ACTUAL issue, in reality it's not an issue at all. like people do this every year its normal but like idkkk it's just idk. my mom is like so amazing and she's already done and doing so much (and she's gotta do it again bc my sibling is much much younger) i tired of adding on to the pile like its time for me to give back. she never says any of this, it's just the way I think so yeah it's a lot I'm halfway through highschool so there's time... but is there cause two years is only two years away fr
i'm deleting this soon cs i'm not yalls problem but thx for the rant ;)
I need a random vent session so here we go
Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure they win. Like its literally making me wanna scream. Like if u have make up on, theres will be better. If u have nails on they'll be like omg theyre so nice.....mines better tho. If u have say anything, theyll be like, oh mines cheaper and better quaity. Or if ur thing is expensive and u saved for it theyll be like, my mam got me mine and its double the price, AND it works better. Like stfu i dont care. Because if i said that it was cheap , theyd be like mines cheaper. Or for example you've been wanting smt for a long while, theyre parents will buy them it 1 day after u mention it, because they r a spoiled brat AND THEN brag about how much better theyre parents are. LIKE I DONT CARE. And if i do smt that makes me proud of myself, like studying, winning smt, stuff like that theyll ruin it by being like oh i already did that won that i won so much, and i studying loads. And if i get a good grade, theyll be like oh nice but i did better. Like its actually so irritating. Like good for u and im happy for u but be happy for me ya know? Especially since theyll do it about stuff im insecure about which is worse. Like im rlly bad at sports for example and if i get not last in a race, or my team wins ill be so proud of myself cos i know im so bad at it. Like its a big accomplishment for me. Yet theyll just be like oh I always win my races and i always win games, i have so many medals im so athletic, and we all know ur not. GRRRRRRRRRR I SWEAR I COULD RANT ABOUT THIS PERSON FOR HOURS.
Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure they win. Like its literally making me wanna scream. Like if u have make up on, theres will be better. If u have nails on they'll be like omg theyre so nice.....mines better tho. If u have say anything, theyll be like, oh mines cheaper and better quaity. Or if ur thing is expensive and u saved for it theyll be like, my mam got me mine and its double the price, AND it works better. Like stfu i dont care. Because if i said that it was cheap , theyd be like mines cheaper. Or for example you've been wanting smt for a long while, theyre parents will buy them it 1 day after u mention it, because they r a spoiled brat AND THEN brag about how much better theyre parents are. LIKE I DONT CARE. And if i do smt that makes me proud of myself, like studying, winning smt, stuff like that theyll ruin it by being like oh i already did that won that i won so much, and i studying loads. And if i get a good grade, theyll be like oh nice but i did better. Like its actually so irritating. Like good for u and im happy for u but be happy for me ya know? Especially since theyll do it about stuff im insecure about which is worse. Like im rlly bad at sports for example and if i get not last in a race, or my team wins ill be so proud of myself cos i know im so bad at it. Like its a big accomplishment for me. Yet theyll just be like oh I always win my races and i always win games, i have so many medals im so athletic, and we all know ur not. GRRRRRRRRRR I SWEAR I COULD RANT ABOUT THIS PERSON FOR HOURS.
Raven✨The Chaotic Gremlin✨{Stole Chan’s Laptop} wrote: "Michelle wrote: "I need a random vent session so here we go
Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure th..."
Omg yes lmaoo i hope she did step in horse poop. Its the same with my friend. And whenever i get or do something 'better' than her she'll be like oh i dont care its no big deal its not even that good or important, yet if it was her shed be bragging the day away. And also she has this thing where she'll be like oh i know more people than u im more popular i have more friends whatever whatever. Its like I DONT CARE that u have whatever stuff u have or that ur a spoilt 2 year old because literally that doesnt matter. SIGH
Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure th..."
Omg yes lmaoo i hope she did step in horse poop. Its the same with my friend. And whenever i get or do something 'better' than her she'll be like oh i dont care its no big deal its not even that good or important, yet if it was her shed be bragging the day away. And also she has this thing where she'll be like oh i know more people than u im more popular i have more friends whatever whatever. Its like I DONT CARE that u have whatever stuff u have or that ur a spoilt 2 year old because literally that doesnt matter. SIGH
Michelle wrote: "I need a random vent session so here we goDo u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure they win. Like its ..."
I had a friend like this growing up. As a kid, it frustrated me to tears. I felt like I couldn't have even one thing that was singularly mine. Thinking back, I realize how much that friend just wanted to be like me and that I should have encouraged her more.
Now, with the people in my life, it's a competition of traumas and mental disorders. I'll tell my group about how difficult things have been from depression, and there is that one person who won't just let me have a moment of being depressed with people who love me. They have to say something to bring the attention back to them. I just sit there and let it happen, knowing people are done with me. It sounds like I want pity or sympathy. Maybe I do. Mostly, I'm just tired of being invisible or invalidated.
And that makes me think of that friend who copied everything I did but copied it better and I wonder if I just wanted to be seen by anybody. You're seen here Michelle. I get not caring but being unallowed to not care because it's shoved in your face. Thank you for sharing your truth with us. I'd say it will get better but it sounds like a boundary issue. Until the boundary is placed, you will always be pushed to that place. You seem like an unjealous person who is being forced into jealousy. That's how I was and I hate feeling jealous. I feel unhinged when I'm jealous and I probably hate that most of all. If you do too, I feel you. If you're in high school, cling to the knowledge that after high school, interacting with that person becomes more of a choice. That's what I did in my unhealthy coping mechanism of dissociating. Everything was temporary.
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I wanna go to college. Specifically, college in the US (I live in the US) but college in the US is really expensive and i really don't wanna do the who..."
My cousin was going through the same thing. She wanted to go to a rly good college, but her parents guilt tripped her into saying it was wayy too much money. They said she could go if she really wanted, but they were kinda reluctant to say that. In the end, though, she chose that college, even though it was twice the price of another college of her choice.
What I'm saying is, it's ok to feel terrible and guilty about spending sm money on college; it's normal. And heck yeah, college in the U.S. is superrrr expensive, but then again, college in general is pretty expensive. But it's gonna be 4 years of your life, maybe more, and it's a determining factor of your career. I think you should go for it. I don't mean to sound inconsiderate of your mom. I KNOW she's so caring and loving and tries so hard to give you and your sib the best. But at the same time, KNOWING she wants the best, she'll be happy you decided to go to where YOU want. Prices can be dealt with later, yk? Just focus on the NOW.
Yeaaahhh, sorry that got long, but I hope that helped :) <3
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Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure they win. Like its ..."
Ohmygosh yess, ik people like that. Sometimes they get so self-conceited and think they can best you in everything, just because they can't deal with the fact that someone may have smth better/be better than them.
Ik it's hard to keep your temper at bay; trust me, I have to deal with a girl like that every. stinking. day, but just remember that yelling at them will do them no good. Instead, maybe RATIONALLY tell them, "hey, you don't need to come back at me with a comment about 'your ___ is better'" or wtv.
Ugh, I'm so sorry that happens to you, though. I can totally empathize.
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Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure th..."
Oh gosh, that's so jerky of her, ugh.
I'm sorry that happened to you :/
But I'm sure you're very beautiful; both inside AND out :)
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Do u ever have that one friend, who makes sure theyre better than u? Like they make eveyrthing into a competition that they make sure th..."
Mm, I totally understand that; sometimes, we want to be seen for once and get people to actually care. But other times, when people start to notice the sadness and tiny cracks within us, we hide away and wave them off, for fear of being noticed.
It's a bit of a paradox, isn't it? But don't worry about sound "pitiful" or sad, because yk what, Jessica? YOU matter too, not just that person who wants to draw the attention back to herself all the time. You sitting back shows that you don't crave attention greedily, though you DO want some-- some love and care, at least. Which is COMPLETELY warranted/well deserved on your part. Just remember: YOU MATTER! AND SO DOES YOUR MENTAL HEALTH <33333333333333
Thanks u guys! I actually feel better about it now thats ive heard all of your opinions!
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Ofc! :) <3 Feel free to chat here abt anything else stressful, too!!
