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[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

someone else told me

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

like i am friendly, i don't wanna be rude

[Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~]

°•ṣäŕäị•° mẹṅṭäłłÿ ḍöṅë (discord Sarai#4909) wrote: "What's up?"

Lemme pm it to you

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

The thing is that if you don't say something to him then they're going to think that you might like them back if they ask you out. Maybe it would be a good idea to say something to avoid any problems down the road. You don't have to be rude about it but make sure it's clear that you're not interested.

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

If you know what I mean :)

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

but if I say to him that I don't like him, he could say "what? i don't like you!" for fear

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

Yeah sorry I was doing something but I was going to say that since he hasn't told you himself you can't just say I know you like me lol

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

it's complicade, I try to avoid him

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

but my mum and his mum are friends...

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

complicated**

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

Oh that's difficult, so you must see him a lot

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

Do you and him talk? Like are you friends?

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

not that much, I make a joke sometimes but I don't really talk bc I don't want that he thinks that i like him

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

bc I speak a lot and I make a lot of jokes with ANYONE, literally

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

Yeahh I see, it's just that if you did maybe you could make a remark saying you're not ready to date right now, not to him but just so he can hear or something. Because he hasn't even said anything yet it's a little difficult to know what to do.

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

but that doesn't stop his interest for me

[Libby Ann]

@ Elisa Hey I know exactly what you’re going through. It’s uncomfortable. And your right; telling him how you feel doesn’t stop them from liking you, but telling them makes it so much easier. I made the mistake of waiting, and it didn’t work out well. So when you see him, please tell him. I promise you will feel better after that

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🪅 (hiatus)]

tysm for the advice <33

[Libby Ann]

Ofc! <3

[Ellie]

so I had something I wanted to say on here and there are ppl getting mad at me abt it rn.
I made an LDS topic in this group bc I wanted to meet some ppl that are also LDS, but a few people have started telling me that it's going to make them or other people uncomfortable, and that in turn makes ME uncomfortable. I honestly don't know what to do about it bc I want to keep that topic, but they're telling me I should delete it because it's weird and makes people uncomfortable and there are other groups for that. But in the other groups I'm in, no one is LDS! I seriously have no idea what to do so if you could help me...?

[Sarai ~The Rook you underestimated~]

Honestly if people feel uncomfortable they can ignore it. By no means is it a rule that you can't make a LDS group. If they feel the need they can make a group for their beliefs

[✨ tazannah - not accepting friend requests ✨, It's your gurll]

Yeah, I think it's totally fine. There's a buttle they can toggle to turn notifs off for that thread. Like-- no, do what you want. It's fine to me

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

guys, mmm
yesterday i was with the guy who likes me (as far as i know) bc my mother and his are friends
sooo he just texted me saying that I was 'weird' yesterday and he asks me if something happens to me...
you think that it's a good opportunity for telling him the truth?

[[deleted user]]

elisa ❦ wrote: "guys, mmm
yesterday i was with the guy who likes me (as far as i know) bc my mother and his are friends
sooo he just texted me saying that I was 'weird' yesterday and he asks me if something happe..."

yesss go for it

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

THANK YOU SO MUCH GIRLS
I'm definitely telling him the truth! i pray that he won't be hurt much by my truth :((

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

I agree with Spirit, hope everything goes okay <333

[[deleted user]]

elisa ❦ wrote: "THANK YOU SO MUCH GIRLS
I'm definitely telling him the truth! i pray that he won't be hurt much by my truth :(("

good luckkk<33

[[deleted user]]

I would just say that your really good friends but not romantically and just be honest + open with him.

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

guys i just send the message...

[Libby Ann]

I’m praying for you

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

I'm relieved and I feel guilty because of it

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

elisa ❦ wrote: "I'm relieved and I feel guilty because of it"

You're doing the right thing, I know it's not easy but it's better then him thinking you might like him back <3

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

@Hanna Q thank you so much <33

[[deleted user]]

omg, good luck

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

elisa ❦ wrote: "@Hanna Q thank you so much <33"

Not at all, praying it goes well <3

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

guys he answered me with "tranquil"
at least he took it well

[Libby Ann]

That’s good

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

elisa ❦ wrote: "guys he answered me with "tranquil"
at least he took it well"

I'm so glad it went okay <3

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

@Hanna Q tysm <33

[elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus)]

@L!bby <33

[Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine)]

elisa ❦ wrote: "@Hanna Q tysm <33"

Yw <333

[elisia_spiering]

Ellie wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."

I might be a terrible influence for saying this....but if other people are telling you that you have a chance, then you might actually have a chance. Flirt with him a bit. See how he responds. If it goes over well, then ask him out. If he really is an amazing guy, then go for it. With the age gap, I personally think two years is okay, but if you're not comfortable with it, then disregard everything I just said.

[elisia_spiering]

L!bby wrote: "Brain: you like him
Me: what?! But that’s my bff’s ex!!!!
Brain: but he goes to church, he’s funny, kind, protective, and he knows your name!
Me: NO!! Besides, two of my friends like him, he has a ..."

I wouldn't go for him. There are too many red flags here. I've been in situations where I and a lot of my friends liked one person, and that led to my other friends sabotaging me to get with him. Idk, I think dating around a friend group leads to too much drama and you might be better off without him.

Now, that said, it isn't that easy to stop liking someone (and sometimes the unattainability makes a person oh so much more attractive...) but my #1 piece of advice is to find a hobby to do that you really like that is in no way connected to this person. Find all your own things that you enjoy, and that can distract you from him until the crush wears off.

Of course, I'm not you, and I don't know what your friend dynamics are, so if this advice doesn't work for the dynamics of your friend group, then feel free to ignore this.

[Libby Ann]

@ Elisia thank you so much for the advise!! Yeah, I’m not gonna date him, because he does have a girlfriend and it would cause a lot of problems. Also, I’m not allowed to date yet, so that’s something

But thank you I really appreciate it <3

[elisia_spiering]

L!bby wrote: "@ Elisia thank you so much for the advise!! Yeah, I’m not gonna date him, because he does have a girlfriend and it would cause a lot of problems. Also, I’m not allowed to date yet, so that’s someth..."

Anytime! I'm a lot better at dealing with other people's love life than my own lol

[Ellie]

Elisia wrote: "Ellie wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: H..."

Thank you!

[Shay #FreePalestine, Love you guysss <3]

Psychii wrote: "ive had to many sensory overloads (im autistic and adhd) and im having a depressive episode"

Hey, how are you doing now? I hope you're okay. <3

[[deleted user]]

oh no!

[Shay #FreePalestine, Love you guysss <3]

Psychii wrote: "shay ♥ wrote: "Psychii wrote: "ive had to many sensory overloads (im autistic and adhd) and im having a depressive episode"

Hey, how are you doing now? I hope you're okay.

im ok but the episode ..."

Hey, we're here for you ♥

[Shay #FreePalestine, Love you guysss <3]

Psychii wrote: "shay ♥ wrote: "Psychii wrote: "shay ♥ wrote: "Psychii wrote: "ive had to many sensory overloads (im autistic and adhd) and im having a depressive episode"

Hey, how are you doing now? I hope you're..."

Ofc ♥