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message 101: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Loretta wrote: "I've been struggling lately feeling different. One minute i'm sad and depressed and don't wanna talk to anyone then one second later i'm fine and feel..."

Get. Rid. Of. Them.

My best friend of 8 years emotionally manipulated me, lied to me, used my mental illness against me, and talked about me behind my back. The hardest thing to do was to tell her that I couldn't be her friend anymore, that i had enough, because a part of me always thought "things can get better" or "She's going through stuff right now, I should support her." I felt so guilty. But now, almost two years later, I realize that I made the right decision because I am such a happier person and I have much better friends now.

If they continue to get you in trouble, then tell an adult, because that is bullying. You might feel a lot of guilt, but your future self will thank you so so much.


message 102: by LJ (new)

LJ | 17 comments Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Loretta wrote: "I've been struggling lately feeling different. One minute i'm sad and depressed and don't wanna talk to anyone then one second later i..."

Thais the thing though, I've tried. My school won't do ANYTHING about bullying. I've gotten rid of two of my toxic friends though!


message 103: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Loretta wrote: "I've been struggling lately feeling different. One minute i'm sad and depressed and don't wanna talk to anyone then one..."

That's great! I'm really glad you did that!

I'm so sorry about your school, though. I hate it when adults are like "you can come to me for anything" and then do nothing about it. Idk what your stance is on religion, but I'll pray for you if you want.

And I'm always open to talking if you need to vent


message 104: by LJ (new)

LJ | 17 comments Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Loretta wrote: "I've been struggling lately feeling different. One minute i'm sad and depressed and don't wanna talk to..."

I'm Christian. But thank you!


message 105: by LJ (new)

LJ | 17 comments Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Loretta wrote: "I've been struggling lately feeling different. One minute i'm sad and depressed and don't wanna talk to..."

You can also vent to me anytime!


message 106: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Thank you!!


message 107: by Wysteria (new)

Wysteria (wysteriablack) ᗢ qibli !! wrote: "Will I still pass 7th grade if I have 3 Fs (Math: 27%, ELA: 27%, Science: 55%)? I have a few weeks before the end of the school year, and I don’t know what to do to raise my grade either. I have a ..."

This site has a ton of worksheets for Math, Science, and English. At least maybe it will help.

https://www.education.com/worksheets/...


message 108: by eve.lyn._.reads (new)

 eve.lyn._.reads Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Loretta wrote: "Loretta wrote: "I've been struggling lately feeling different. One minute i'm sad and depressed and don't wanna talk to anyone then one second later i..."

Loretta this is so relatable for me. I was in a friendship with my best friend for many years and it hurt me a lot when I realized she always treated me wrong. She never apologized and constantly made me uncomfortable for being myself. It was a long and complicated journey for me to feel happy again after all that drama, and several years later it still affects me. But I totally agree with you-getting that person out of your life is the best thing you can do for yourself👏


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers were cold, I had no strength and I was in severe pain. I have a bone deformity and I am currently wearing a brace


message 110: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me: But he called me ugly four years ago in middle school, why would you like him? You hold grudges for a reason, you know.
Brain: But he's changed now. Instead of the guy drunk at parties, he takes the drunk girls home to keep them safe.
Me: Okay, but all my friends hate him.
Brain: You'll change their minds
Me: But what about all these nice young men that my friends approves of *gestures around*. How about we pick one of them?
Brain: Nope. I want that one.

Trying to figure out how to make a counter argument to this nonsense


message 111: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers were cold, I had no strength and..."

That sounds terrifying ngl. I'm so sorry. Do you want me to pray for you?


message 112: by Sydney Smile (new)

Sydney Smile Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers were cold, I had no strength and..."

I'm so sorry! Sending you love and prayers


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Elisia wrote: "Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers we..."

Do what you want. I don't mind prayers or anything


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Sydney Smile wrote: "Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers we..."

thank you


message 115: by Sydney Smile (new)

Sydney Smile Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."


XD


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."


Oh thats my brain


message 117: by [deleted user] (new)

Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."


Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."


... why you be calling me out....


message 118: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."


Oh thank god I'm not the only one.


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Elisia wrote: "Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do..."


Its just with me its the trans,homophobes and hardcore christians while I am pagan


message 120: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Elisia wrote: "Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But..."


Felt that. Tbh idk if he's okay with queer people, which is pretty damn important bc I'm bi. Maybe I can use that against my brain.


message 121: by sadie (new)

sadie | 33 comments This chat is honestly helping restore my faith in humanity, I haven't seen positivity and empathy like this in forever! Especially online.
To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my best to help u however i can but im kinda late to the convo lol


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Sadie wrote: "This chat is honestly helping restore my faith in humanity, I haven't seen positivity and empathy like this in forever! Especially online.
To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my best to help u..."


Awww thank you Sadie


message 123: by sadie (new)

sadie | 33 comments Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Sadie wrote: "This chat is honestly helping restore my faith in humanity, I haven't seen positivity and empathy like this in forever! Especially online.
To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my ..."


Ofc <33


message 124: by Sydney Smile (new)

Sydney Smile Sadie wrote: "This chat is honestly helping restore my faith in humanity, I haven't seen positivity and empathy like this in forever! Especially online.
To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my best to help u..."


Awww, thanks so much, Sadie. And thanks for being part of this group!


message 125: by sadie (new)

sadie | 33 comments Sydney Smile wrote: "Sadie wrote: "This chat is honestly helping restore my faith in humanity, I haven't seen positivity and empathy like this in forever! Especially online.
To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my ..."


Thanks for having me here!! i think this my new fav group tbh


message 126: by Sydney Smile (new)

Sydney Smile Sadie wrote: "Sydney Smile wrote: "Sadie wrote: "This chat is honestly helping restore my faith in humanity, I haven't seen positivity and empathy like this in forever! Especially online.
To anyone struggling r..."


<3


message 127: by meryem (new)

meryem | 13 comments Wysteria wrote: "That's so cute! 😍 I bet all the guys want to date you."

OMG YEsssssss


message 128: by [deleted user] (new)

Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers were cold, I had no strength and..."

I'm so sorry! I wish you luck


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Sophia wrote: "Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers we..."

thank you


Sarai ~The Rook you underestimated~  (discord-books_are_better) | 37 comments Oh no, storm, another one? When is it scheduled hun?


Also, is I wrong for breaking up with 2 of my partners when we rarely talk....on both sides


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) °•ṣäŕäị•° mẹṅṭäłłÿ ḍöṅë (discord Sarai#4909) wrote: "Oh no, storm, another one? When is it scheduled hun?


Also, is I wrong for breaking up with 2 of my partners when we rarely talk....on both sides"


Nope not wrong

Don't know getting it checked out soon. I am currently in a brace


Sarai ~The Rook you underestimated~  (discord-books_are_better) | 37 comments Omg, did it flare up or sum again?


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) It dropped. My hand went numb I lost 99% of my strength for a little then my fingers went cold.


Sarai ~The Rook you underestimated~  (discord-books_are_better) | 37 comments Holy shit- that's not good


message 136: by elisia_spiering (new)

elisia_spiering | 24 comments Raven✨The Chaotic Gremlin✨{Stole Chan’s Laptop} wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."


So you probably have a healthy perspective on relationships because my toxic trait is "I can fix them"

Idk if what you're describing is normal or not, but it's pretty healthy I think


message 137: by Libby Ann (new)

Libby Ann | 128 comments @ Elisia I have crush convos with my brain like that too


message 138: by Wysteria (new)

Wysteria (wysteriablack) Raven✨The Chaotic Gremlin✨{Stole Chan’s Laptop} wrote: "Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."


No, I think that sounds healthy.


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) So I am not trying to have a panic attack. I am having severe anxiety and my rapist I had to snap at him


message 140: by Ellie (new)

Ellie | 16 comments Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."


oh sort of
Right now with this one guy it's more like:
Brain: so you like this person now
Me: WAIT WHY??? HE'S TWO YEARS OLDER THAN ME
Brain: Look at him of course he's cute, smart, goes to your church, talented, awesome, really nice anyone would like him
Me: LOOK AT ALL THOSE OTHER GIRLS THAT ARE ACTUALLY HIS AGE PLUS THE ONES THAT WILL BE IN HIS CLASS EVERY OTHER YEAR WHILE I'LL BE THERE ONE TIME!
Brain: C'mon, you got this! He's danced with you and talked to you and you had a great time with him! It's meant to be!
Me: HE. IS. UNATTAINABLE.
(friend steps in) Ellie. Listen to me. HE IS NOT UNATTAINABLE. YOU. HAVE. A. CHANCE!!!
(friend is in this group and knows exactly what I'm talking about)
Me: NO NO NO I HAVE NO CHANCE
Me: *sees guy*
Brain: Enchanted by Taylor Swift


message 141: by Libby Ann (new)

Libby Ann | 128 comments Brain: you like him
Me: what?! But that’s my bff’s ex!!!!
Brain: but he goes to church, he’s funny, kind, protective, and he knows your name!
Me: NO!! Besides, two of my friends like him, he has a girlfriend, and he doesn’t need me standing in the way. His girlfriend makes him happy, so I’ll be happy for him
Brain: aw, look! He’s laughing!! So cute
Me:
Me: did you just ignore my ranting–


Storm The Tiny Hooman ~hiatus~ (asherbookreviews) Guys I need advice


elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus) | 58 comments i'm good, and you??


elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus) | 58 comments i need an advice lol


Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine) @elisa everything okay?


elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus) | 58 comments yeah, everything is ok but how can i avoid who likes me?


elisa ੈ✩‧₊˚ &#x1fa85; (hiatus) | 58 comments like i don't like him


Hanna☾₊‧⁺˖⋆ (Free Palestine) Does he know that you don't like him?


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