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Thais the thing though, I've tried. My school won't do ANYTHING about bullying. I've gotten rid of two of my toxic friends though!

That's great! I'm really glad you did that!
I'm so sorry about your school, though. I hate it when adults are like "you can come to me for anything" and then do nothing about it. Idk what your stance is on religion, but I'll pray for you if you want.
And I'm always open to talking if you need to vent

I'm Christian. But thank you!

You can also vent to me anytime!

This site has a ton of worksheets for Math, Science, and English. At least maybe it will help.
https://www.education.com/worksheets/...

Loretta this is so relatable for me. I was in a friendship with my best friend for many years and it hurt me a lot when I realized she always treated me wrong. She never apologized and constantly made me uncomfortable for being myself. It was a long and complicated journey for me to feel happy again after all that drama, and several years later it still affects me. But I totally agree with you-getting that person out of your life is the best thing you can do for yourself👏


Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me: But he called me ugly four years ago in middle school, why would you like him? You hold grudges for a reason, you know.
Brain: But he's changed now. Instead of the guy drunk at parties, he takes the drunk girls home to keep them safe.
Me: Okay, but all my friends hate him.
Brain: You'll change their minds
Me: But what about all these nice young men that my friends approves of *gestures around*. How about we pick one of them?
Brain: Nope. I want that one.
Trying to figure out how to make a counter argument to this nonsense

That sounds terrifying ngl. I'm so sorry. Do you want me to pray for you?

I'm so sorry! Sending you love and prayers

Do what you want. I don't mind prayers or anything

thank you

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
XD

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
Oh thats my brain
Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?
Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?
Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
... why you be calling me out....
Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
Elisia wrote: "So when you get a crush on someone, does anyone ever have this conversation with their brain?
Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
... why you be calling me out....

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."
Oh thank god I'm not the only one.

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do..."
Its just with me its the trans,homophobes and hardcore christians while I am pagan

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But..."
Felt that. Tbh idk if he's okay with queer people, which is pretty damn important bc I'm bi. Maybe I can use that against my brain.

To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my best to help u however i can but im kinda late to the convo lol

To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my best to help u..."
Awww thank you Sadie

To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my ..."
Ofc <33

To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my best to help u..."
Awww, thanks so much, Sadie. And thanks for being part of this group!

To anyone struggling right now, I'll do my ..."
Thanks for having me here!! i think this my new fav group tbh

To anyone struggling r..."
<3
Storm The Tiny Hooman wrote: "Hey guys so I wanna let you know something. I am 99% sure I will be needing another surgery on my wrists. I had an episode today where my hand went numb, my fingers were cold, I had no strength and..."
I'm so sorry! I wish you luck
I'm so sorry! I wish you luck

thank you

Also, is I wrong for breaking up with 2 of my partners when we rarely talk....on both sides

Also, is I wrong for breaking up with 2 of my partners when we rarely talk....on both sides"
Nope not wrong
Don't know getting it checked out soon. I am currently in a brace

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."
So you probably have a healthy perspective on relationships because my toxic trait is "I can fix them"
Idk if what you're describing is normal or not, but it's pretty healthy I think

Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smar..."
No, I think that sounds healthy.


Brain: So you like this person now
Me: But why? We can do better
Brain: He's cute, smart, Christian
Me..."
oh sort of
Right now with this one guy it's more like:
Brain: so you like this person now
Me: WAIT WHY??? HE'S TWO YEARS OLDER THAN ME
Brain: Look at him of course he's cute, smart, goes to your church, talented, awesome, really nice anyone would like him
Me: LOOK AT ALL THOSE OTHER GIRLS THAT ARE ACTUALLY HIS AGE PLUS THE ONES THAT WILL BE IN HIS CLASS EVERY OTHER YEAR WHILE I'LL BE THERE ONE TIME!
Brain: C'mon, you got this! He's danced with you and talked to you and you had a great time with him! It's meant to be!
Me: HE. IS. UNATTAINABLE.
(friend steps in) Ellie. Listen to me. HE IS NOT UNATTAINABLE. YOU. HAVE. A. CHANCE!!!
(friend is in this group and knows exactly what I'm talking about)
Me: NO NO NO I HAVE NO CHANCE
Me: *sees guy*
Brain: Enchanted by Taylor Swift

Me: what?! But that’s my bff’s ex!!!!
Brain: but he goes to church, he’s funny, kind, protective, and he knows your name!
Me: NO!! Besides, two of my friends like him, he has a girlfriend, and he doesn’t need me standing in the way. His girlfriend makes him happy, so I’ll be happy for him
Brain: aw, look! He’s laughing!! So cute
Me:
Me: did you just ignore my ranting–
Get. Rid. Of. Them.
My best friend of 8 years emotionally manipulated me, lied to me, used my mental illness against me, and talked about me behind my back. The hardest thing to do was to tell her that I couldn't be her friend anymore, that i had enough, because a part of me always thought "things can get better" or "She's going through stuff right now, I should support her." I felt so guilty. But now, almost two years later, I realize that I made the right decision because I am such a happier person and I have much better friends now.
If they continue to get you in trouble, then tell an adult, because that is bullying. You might feel a lot of guilt, but your future self will thank you so so much.