SOLVED. story or book about older lady in nursing home, thinking that she had two lives: one with a man, one with a woman, different children, both lives had positive and negative aspects. [s]

[Carol]

And I believe it was written by a woman.

[Andy]

My Real Children by Jo Walton My Real Children

[Carol]

Thank you thank you thank you!!
(I didn't mark when I finished reading it so I couldn't find it in my 'read' shelf. I was driving myself crazy!)

[Andy]

You're very welcome