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“…because not even his death could save her.” The Death of Ivan Ilyich

his wife's pregnancy, something new, unpleasant, depressing, and unseemly, and from which there was no way of escape, unexpectedly showed itself."Ivan's wife starts to become moody and jealous. Ivan rather distract himself at work then be around his family ,and that can be "horrifying". Not wanting to go home to your family is depressing. He becomes isolated from his personal life and focuses on his professional life.

"Ivan Ilych had begun to think that marriage would not impair the easy, agreeable, gay and always decorous character of his life, approved of by society and regarded by himself as natural, but would even improve it."



Ivan took the step to get married as a simple choice "Why not?", like it was a little test that he could pass or fail. Yet, this choice brought him misery to his life.

i agree with you hilda i agree with the responds you give based on Ivan's life and how it dramatically changes. life has a way of flowing in different directions and Ivans life unfortunately did not go the way we consider normal it was painful and solitary.

I believe Rosie makes a point when she states that “he has no value for his family.” He was so self-involved and so selfish that he had no regards for his own family.

I have to disagree with Pearl when she says, “he felt he had no escape.” I believe that’s why he never wanted to be home. His escape was his obsession with his work and his social life. His escape was setting himself apart from the family life.

I believe Marielena makes a point when she states Ivan's life was based on expectations. He thought that getting married it was the simple and most common thing to do but didn't do it out of love or because it was something he really desired.
Rather he did it because it looked upon as the correct thing for people of his higher standards.

I believe Luis makes a point when he states that Ivan was doing what was agreeable to himself. I believe that at the beginning he found getting married to be the simple and common thing to do but with time everything he "expected" was not as expected. Ivan ended up living such a horrifying life which he felt he had to keep busy so he could stay away from his home as much as he could. Little did he know that he ended up shutting himself out into his own little world..

I agree with Angel's comments for the most part, but I believe that it was seeking wealth in combination with social expectations and the dullness of family life that was the horrible part.

Very well said. I agree that he preferred the young single life. He had everything going for him but decided to follow what society decided was appropriate and got married. His life was horrible because he let everyone decide what was correct for him.


I can see your point but do you see him just doing these things because society says do it. I feel as though he is only doing those things because society says so this is what is expected of him. If he had a choice he would have done things differently.


I agree with you Luis when you say he rather be at work than with his own family..He was avoiding his responsibilities as a father and husband.Ivan ended up living a horrible life in which he bought upon himself for making a mistake of just fitting in society.

As you explain "He did not marry for love his response to getting married was "Why not" this leads to many unhappy moments with his wife.'' is an outcome of Ivan's decisione to getting married for pleasing others.

Ivan definately married to fit in to everybody's expecations, his was of saying "Why not?" is a way of taking that decision so slight than later paying the consequences.

This story is very similar to day to day life and is why it can be considered to be realistic. Ivan Ilych is a materialist, who loves and worships money. His primary goal in life was to make money and to have the very best things in life. As a result of his dedication to the pursuit of wealth, he neglects his family and the chance for good friendships. His friends’ first concern when they learned of his death is who will get promoted next.


I agree with your explanation, he lived a life many live nowadays. Many live the horrifying “simple and commonplace”, there’s always going to be someone who is unhappy with things at home which results in them wanting to bury themselves in their work and focus on their success.


I agree with you Monique. He is so entitled in fitting into this image that society has for him. He doest fall in love and marries, he instead sees it as a business approach and says "why not?"

I agree with you Shanda. I also think if he had not done things because it was expected of him by his family then on by society, some of the things he did, I feel would have gone different. He was the "agreeable" man.