Chaos With A Cup Of Coffee discussion
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1 I'm the mom, the one who makes sure people behave and have everything they need.2 stubborn, smart, a total bookworm and dork
3 ambivert, I'm not a true introvert but I do enjoy being alone from time to time
4 I love books, movies and cuddley animals. I also like writing, but hardly show anyone my writing
5 I've been trying to improve my confidence recently, and it's felt amazing
6 someone who doesn't mind ranting, someone who doesn't tell me to change my mood or put a smile on my face. someone who accepts me for who I am and will have my back.
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1. The bookworm who is so absorbed in her fantastical world, she doesn’t care what you say to her. (I’ve been called horrid names before!) I pretend to be an idiot and completely ignorant, but I am the only one who notices that your head is slightly bent and you’re slumping more than usual. I also have a random amount of facts tucked away in my brain. I am a straight- A student and a solid presence amongst us.
2. The smut-reading, ignorant bookworm who doesn’t know that much because she’s lived an extremely sheltered life.
3. Introvert
4. Fantasy romance books, pasta, wolves, sketching faces.
5. My memory and pain tolerance.
6. Someone who understands that I can be insensitive at times and will argue with me, but won’t abandon me just because we disagreed. An ambivert or introvert who won’t mind sitting inside and reading with me. I need someone to anchor me while I stray from the path. And, of course, there’s the cliché, they should understand my sense of humor.
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Usually they don’t mind hanging out, but they don’t make the best of friends. Normally, if you have a personality sibling, you two might have a third friend who acts as the “glue.”
1. (My new friend group (after I moved)) Then boring one. The organized one who almost never jokes around. I probably make everyone feel like they’re terrible in classes.1. (My old friend group) The bookworm that’s now distant, the mom. I myself feel like I don’t really know most of them anymore. Although it WAS me that came up with BPUAOSFF instead of BPUPAIOWYGPVHSKFHOWHPWYCOWHOFIAPFILSHCJEHIDHRISYDODUSICIOEJSOFYSKBCIELXHFISBFIBDIDJAOSPFOAOHXFF (we used to have 26 letters and kept adding each time we got another interest XD)
2. Umm idk they’d probably describe in the way I feel forced to be. I decided I was a straight A school nerd bookworm, not going to vent on how stressful it is bc I know others here have a tougher time. Also, I wrote question 1 in my friends perspective.
3. Introvert
4. Books, Q, gr, family, friends
5. I wish I could be more honest
6. Someone who understands me, but won’t act like they have the worst life. Someone that listens to me and won’t force me to make decisions. Someone decisive to go with my indecisiveness, but they will still listen to my opinions. Someone that can debate with me, and admit it if they lose.
Is that good?
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2. I'm going to be honest here. Some describe me as rude, bossy, boring, ranty, a bookworm, introverted, that sort of stuff.
Others who are closer to me describe me as witty, passionate,
(about fandoms, books, theories, nerdy stuff lol) sarcastic, (the language I speak) strategic, bookish, serious but I'm basically the Leo Valdez in some serious moments to lighten up the mood, and a hybrid of Hermione and Annabeth.
3. Introvert (I actually took an online test and got 104% introverted, is that even possible?!)
4. Books, (my life ;-;) writing books and poems, playing wordle, basketball, art. (mostly digital art, however, I like sketching on paper and drawing random designs as well)
5. Nothing, I am awesome! *cheesy grin*
*coughs* Sorry, that was Apollo... MOVING ON -
I probably need to lower my expectations, because, as much as I want to, people and things won't always go my way and I need to be better at accepting that.
I need to be more confident and need to take risks OUTSIDE my comfort zone.
I need to socialize more *shudders* and learn how to talk to people better (in real life lol)
6. Someone who accepts me as who I am (it's ok if they give me their opinion on what I should improve and all that. But, when someone tries to control me and tell me what to do, *in a Simon Cowell voice* it's gonna be a no from me) someone who is in a few fandoms I am in. Like Harry Potter or the Riordanverse. Someone who is kinda random and bookish and just likes to theorize in general. The rest, I don't really mind because I don't want a clone of me; I want a unique person who shares some interests with me!
So yeah, good luck to everyone out there looking for a friend! Wish y'all the best :)))
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2. Dramatic, smart, witty, funny, (idk I haven't had friends in a while but they called me this before so idk anymore)
3. Extrovert
4. Reading, walking around anywhere with friends, phone time, the city, flowers, dolphins, pools, shops, cafes, music (every single day)
5. I want to improve this bad habit of phone time, i need to focus on my school more, and I need to learn not to say everything I think (it gets me in trouble a lot)
6. Someone Sarcastic like me, Funny, will always make an effort to be my friend instead of me being the only one to make attempts.
Lynn wrote: "1. I am the one who everyone wants to have around. They enjoy my company but still consider me weird when I read books instead of dance with them or say I don't have TikTok. I can be their mom and ..."MEEEEEEEEEEE
Annabeth wrote: "1. That one useless friend everyone ignores and would be better off. (This is why friend groups don't work with me; there's so much drama!)2. I'm going to be honest here. Some describe me as rude,..."
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Daysi wrote: "1. (My new friend group (after I moved)) Then boring one. The organized one who almost never jokes around. I probably make everyone feel like they’re terrible in classes.1. (My old friend group) T..."
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Ella wrote: "1 I'm the mom, the one who makes sure people behave and have everything they need.2 stubborn, smart, a total bookworm and dork
3 ambivert, I'm not a true introvert but I do enjoy being alone from ..."
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Danny, Lynn, Ella
(Danny and Lynn are 100% friends. Ella is there as a counterbalance who might not be an ideal friend, so sorry if it doesn’t work out completely!)
If you’re not in it, please be patient. I haven’t found your ideal friends.
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Sophia (~*-*)~ wrote: "Even though you say you are, I see no effort on your part to make friends."i havent started trying yet
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bah friend group i will be friends with as many people as possible
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Sophia I just read ur number 6 and realized it’s a bit like my answer to 6! Er… I think that’s what I wrote? XX
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Ok maybe I didn’t write it but now that I think about it that’s part of what I meant 😅
1. Im like the prankster in a group lol2. Normal - sometimes the funny one and the only one who reads books
3. Extrovert
4. Books, movies, chocolate, Instagram, shoes ;)
5. I’d like to improve my temper and be more patient
6. I look for a funny, smart kind of personality in a friend. I don’t really mind.
GAHHH I JUST WAANAA BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE
No one’s stopping you! River is just giving friend group recommendations for those who want it and then the people they suggested should be friends can talk more together and get to know eachother.
danny wrote: "GAHHH I JUST WAANAA BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE"AH SAME
No one's stopping you guys! River is just giving friend group recommendations for those who want it and then the people they suggested should be friends can talk more together and get to know each other
1. The know-it-all friend who could get away with murder who will always defend you whatsoever. That also just so happens to be a bookworm and quotes books that literally no one understands.2. Loyal, smart, argumentative, and passionate.
3. Ambivert
4. Reading (always and forever!), proving people wrong, zip lining, and soccer.
5. I wish I was more calm and confident. Or honestly just more like Azriel (from ACOTAR). I also want to be more grateful and enjoy beauty that’s not only in books.
6. I would like to be friends with someone who is capable of admitting defeat and can realize when they go to far. They’re able to enjoy similar things as me but without making their thing.
“I would like someone who is capable of admitting defeat” me too! :DAlthough we’d probably be really stubborn together and our arguments could probably last an hour just bc we’d both have such good arguments XD
That’s the dream! 🥹🤣 Arguing for almost a hour
1. I'd be the quiet one until you get to know me, and I will literally talk all day once I know you better2. Loyal, smart, bookworm, indecisive
3. ambivert
4. Books, quotes, reading, drawings, fanart, memes, writing
5. A lot: I can tend to be impatient and insensitive sometimes and I always overthink things that I say to a point where I can't sleep at night
6. Someone willing to be friends despite my flaws, they enjoy the same things I do, understand when I don't want to talk or if I'm in a bad mood.
Wow your answer to 1 is the same with me!! I didn’t write it im just saying that that is true about me too :)
1. the loud one you know not unpleasant just rather loud making people laugh 2. depends group 1: loud, exiting, happy group 2: quiet sensible fun
3. r ambivert
4. making my friends laugh and being around the people i love
5. i think i need to be more considerate for my friends
6. i want someone who is happy to chat with me and will be online fairly actively i also would like someone who doesn't get offended by my opinions but thats just a minor think
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Pluto, Danny, Lynn, and Ella.
Good luck!
IDK i haven't been doing the friend groups lmao
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My friends always say that I always know who will make the best friends, who will negatively influence a chaotic person, and which people would be enemies. Now I’ve decided to help people make friends within this group!
I just need you to answer a few questions.
1. Who do you think you are in your real life friend group?
2. How do your friends describe you?
3. Introvert, extrovert, or ambivert?
4. Favorite things?
5. What do you want to improve about yourself?
6. What do you look for in a friend? (Don’t just say loyal, kind, funny, and all of that clichéd stuff. Give me a personality!)
Hope you find a true friend!
Your GR friend,
Sophia (~*-*)~