so…. this is not so book-related but I need important advice! and who would be better to help me with it better than my fellow swifties <3

[Dani]

so, there’s this thing at my school where they divide the classes in the ones who are, so to say, better o worse academically- mostly in german. But the thing is, I’ve been in one of not-so-good-classes and I just received the chance to get into the other class, because of my grades. But the things is, I feel like I made some friends in the past 4 months and I finally felt like I fit in, event tho I’m a mirrorball (like, people talk to me to give them answers, homework, etc) but I just DONT KNOW if I want to change my class in the middle of the year, what if it’s a mistake to leave those friends in the “past” and move on? If I’m not comfortable to be with new people, I’m the most introverted and antisocial person ever, so- it’s hard for me to make friends. What should I do?

[sylvie]

i think if you think changing into the other class will have a really positive effect on ur future, you should go for it! if u don’t think it will effect that much i think u should just stay in the class.

[lilsthescorpio]

in the long run i think going to the new class will be super beneficial for you!! i would definitely keep in touch with your friends though and talk/hangout outside of school :))

[mari..:)]

i believe u shouldn’t miss an opportunity like this.try to think positively,maybe in this other class you'll find better friends with who u won't need to act as a mirrorball and who will actually apreciate you!!

[Sofia]

I think you can see this as a challenge. You challenge urself into expanding your friend circle and get to know new people. I understand it can be difficult to get out of your comfort zone, but you’ll find exciting and interesting people. Plus, if you keep in touch with your friends (even if it’s by message or in person) you won’t lose communication.

There’s also the fact that maybe you’re not ready. So if it really makes u feel like you’ll have a hard time and causes u a lot of anxiety thinking abt it, then don’t do it. And keep up to YOUR pace :). Just try to not feel so overwhelmed about taking such a small and insignificant decision comparing to other major decisions that could change your life <3.

Srry for the long text hahahah

[Dani]

thanks everyone!! update: i said yes and I’m changing my class the next semester ((: