Question H

[Jonetta]

Sean now has custody of Jesse, the grandfather having backed down and relented. Jesse seems okay but Sean is clearly not. What’s going on with him?

[Anita]

Having sole custody and responsibility for Jesse is a big thing for Sean. Having it thrust on him and not being able to grow into it is really hitting him hard.

[Robin]

It's going to take a big adjustment in Sean's life to get used to having Jesse full time. He has to be a father to Jesse, not a buddy who he visits occasionally.

[Anita]

I also think Sean is still beating himself up for not being able to save Jesse's mother. I agree with Robin too, being Jesse's father is going to be different than being Jesse's buddy. I think Sean remembers what a handful he was as a teen and knows that some rough times may be ahead for them.

[Charlene]

All of the above; also, Sean is trying to figure out how to love two people desperately: both Lucy and Jesse. He's growing into it.

[Sharon]

I agree with all of you. Most people have a preparation period before they step into the role of full-time parent. In a snap, Sean went from childless to the father of a 12-year-old son. He is doing a good job, everything considered.

Also, I think that Lucy is on his mind. He doesn't want her to feel cheated.

[Jonetta]

Ditto to everything you all said. To layer in the guilt Sean is experiencing for Maddie’s death is just a little much for him. He doesn’t feel in control, like he’s got all the answers and is on sure footing.