i nEED hELP aND aDVICE pLEASE hELP mE sOMEONE-

[marzzzzz]

damn i just joined this group 2 days ago and I'm already oversharing-

looks like i got a new personal record of how quickly i can overshare in groups of ppl online :D

[marzzzzz]

Blade wrote: "marzzzzz wrote: "okay so uh basically, quick recap:

we kinda mini-trauma bonded a few months ago. we chatted obsessively online, sat together at lunch, talked constantly, shared very deep stuff, e..."

sorry, i didn't see this till just now
yeahhhhhh, see that's what I'm trying to figure out? idk if I'm still hyperfixating on her, or if i actually have a crush, or maybe its both, they're both pretty likely.
I think whats so confusing about it is cause when i hyperfixate on someone we either become good friends, or the hyperfixation fades and i never talk to them again. but with her, her hyperfixation on me faded, and maybe mine has too? but now we're just casual friends? but i don't really HAVE casual friends. I either talk to ppl obsessively, or not rly talk to them at all, and rn shes right in between that. so I've never rly interacted with someone like this before..........
idk I'm confused, and too scared to actually do anything about it, and she's so contradictory with how she interacts with me. i rly wanna hate her, but obviously cause of my stupid "crush" or whatever, i don't.

[marzzzzz]

idk, sorry, there's nothing rly that i could do to help this situation, ig i just wanted to vent about it to ppl who don't know her irl