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[iimpulsvbtch]

I'm pretty messy and the only time she really says anything about that now is if I create a mess outside of my room

[iimpulsvbtch]

I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house

[Unknown]

At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll turn into a lecture, joke, or a taunt ??

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?

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impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "my mother tried taunting me into being more organised when I was younger but stopped when she realised it wasn't going to work. she's pretty quiet though, whenever ..."

My mom would never. It's either I delete myself or she deletes me with her clothing hanger

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Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?"

I drink with my ✨ hydroflask ✨ but water bottles? Oh no save the turtles

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll turn into a lecture, joke, or a taunt ??"

I only share things that I know she'll agree with. I don't share what I know she won't agree with because she's not very accepting of opinions and beliefs that contradict hers. she's got a fixed mindset that the only right way is her way and as I said before, I'm not stupid enough to challenge someone who has authority over me. she'll think she has to "fix" my views to match hers lmao

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?"

yeah, why?

[iimpulsvbtch]

Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "my mother tried taunting me into being more organised when I was younger but stopped when she realised it wasn't going to work. she's pretty qui..."

lmfaooo

[iimpulsvbtch]

Eden wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?"

I drink with m..."

oh fuck, uhhh I meant to say.. my very metal hydroflask

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impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll turn into a lecture, joke, or a tau..."

The fact that you had to adjust for your mother even though it should be the other way around :(( that's why children never get that close with their parents

[Unknown]

Eden wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?"

I drink with m..."

Umm… glasses ? Like, drinking glasses ?

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll turn into a lecture, joke, or a tau..."

Hmm..yes.
I can get that.

[stu]

Hai, and Now Bai

imma go finish my wonderful book

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Unknown wrote: "Eden wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?"

I..."

I drink from my flask cuz one glass of water is not enough for a thirsty ass bitch like me and I am lazy to go to the kitchen to refill my glass so 🏃

[iimpulsvbtch]

Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll turn into a lec..."

precisely. her and I are cool, we talk sometimes but our relationship feels very superficial and it's a little draining having to constantly change the subject whenever she starts prying into my life or when a topic I know we'll disagree on comes up

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ᗷᒪOᗷᗷIEEE wrote: "Hai, and Now Bai

imma go finish my wonderful book"

Hello blobbieee

[Unknown]

ᗷᒪOᗷᗷIEEE wrote: "Hai, and Now Bai

imma go finish my wonderful book"

Hello and bye Blobbiee !

[Unknown]

Eden wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Eden wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from wat..."

I do that too but at night because I drink a lot at night…and I can’t keep getting up.

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "Eden wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a bad habit of leaving half empty water bottles lying around the house"

Water bottles ? Umm..so you regularly drink from water bottles ?"

I..."

we have a cooler but it's downstairs so I forget about water. I tend to drink a lot more from bottles idk why and having bottles in front of me reminds me to drink em

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impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll tu..."

Hmm…me and my mother don’t talk much. Like we talk but we don’t have any deep conversations ? Or any long conversations actually.

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impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because you’re scared it’ll tu..."

I get how she wants to get to know your thoughts or something idk being a mother is also hard too since you took care of this child and when they get older they just drift away.. but the sad thing about it is that the mother's also the reason why their children are being like that :((

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My mom used to force her beliefs on me and I openly amd straightforwardly told her that I am atheist, she was against it but she got tired anyways so

[:D o y i n :D (CURRENTLY OBSESSED WITH AOT iykyk)]

hi yall

[iimpulsvbtch]

Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and also because yo..."

she was actually a whole continent away when I was younger, studying. it was only for a few years but it caused a strain in our relationship because I was old enough to realise she was choosing to leave and I was frustrated at being the only one with no parents amongst my friends (my grandparents looked after me till she finished but they were old so I got introduced to independence at a young age and now I have a really bad dismissive avoidant attachment style towards everyone and cannot stand vulnerability)

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:D o y i n :D (CURRENTLY OBSESSED WITH AOT iykyk) wrote: "hi yall"

Hello Oyin !

[iimpulsvbtch]

Eden wrote: "My mom used to force her beliefs on me and I openly amd straightforwardly told her that I am atheist, she was against it but she got tired anyways so"

mine wouldn't even argue she would just take my privileges away and she would genuinely believe I'm just confused and lost my way

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not close enough and al..."

Hmm…if it’s not too personal, where are you from ?

[iimpulsvbtch]

also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad because you’re not..."

I'd rather not say

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impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "My mom used to force her beliefs on me and I openly amd straightforwardly told her that I am atheist, she was against it but she got tired anyways so"

mine wouldn't even argue she wou..."

Hahah..
I know, like I’ll take tablet away if you don’t listen to me.
And since my tablet is my lifeline, I do end up listening to her.

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "At last, are you really really reluctant to share anything with your mom/dad be..."

Ok

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Eden wrote: "My mom used to force her beliefs on me and I openly amd straightforwardly told her that I am atheist, she was against it but she got tired anyways so"

mine wouldn'..."

exactly

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?"

I’m really surprised at how some people are best friends with their parents.
Like …best friends with your parents ? How is that like ?

[iimpulsvbtch]

right

[iimpulsvbtch]

but it makes me happy tbh

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "but it makes me happy tbh"

Ohh…like you’re happy that some people are best friends with their parents ..?

I guess the stories are heartwarming

[iimpulsvbtch]

it makes me happy to know that there are parents that can think past all the ideologies of traditional parenting and who focus on having their children grow up in an environment where they feel safe enough to develop their thoughts and beliefs, and really just grow into themselves

[Maya]

Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?"

I’m really surprised at how some people are..."

I wonder the same thing... I think that I could't do it, because they still tell you what to do and all that, like there's no equality, and I think that's important in a friendship.

plus I couldn't tell my parents about all the bad things I do... And that's something I tell my friends...

[Maya]

impulsvbtch wrote: "it makes me happy to know that there are parents that can think past all the ideologies of traditional parenting and who focus on having their children grow up in an environment where they feel saf..."

If i ever have children...I want to be that mom!

[iimpulsvbtch]

I'm also so against teaching children what to believe and have no idea why so many adults continue to do it. My five year old cousin was telling me how she doesn't think people should take the vaccine when they don't know what's in it, girl do you know what's inside your lunchbox????

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "it makes me happy to know that there are parents that can think past all the ideologies of traditional parenting and who focus on having their children grow up in an environment where they feel saf..."

That’s heartwarming ❤️

Hmmm….
What do you think of indulgent parenting style ?

[iimpulsvbtch]

Maya [semi-hiatus] wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?"

I’m really surprised at how..."

yes! the power imbalance makes me uneasy as well

[Maya]

impulsvbtch wrote: "I'm also so against teaching children what to believe and have no idea why so many adults continue to do it. My five year old cousin was telling me how she doesn't think people should take the vacc..."

same! they should be able to create their own opinions!

[Unknown]

Maya [semi-hiatus] wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?"

I’m really surprised at how..."

I just can’t see my parents as best friends, or any one parents for that matter.

I think even if you’re close with your parents, there are still boundaries and authority ? Both which are important

That’s not something you have with your best friend.

[Maya]

Unknown wrote: "Maya [semi-hiatus] wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?"

..."

yes. Exactly!

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "it makes me happy to know that there are parents that can think past all the ideologies of traditional parenting and who focus on having their children grow up in an environment..."

I honestly don't know much about it to have an opinion, wbu?

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impulsvbtch wrote: "I'm also so against teaching children what to believe and have no idea why so many adults continue to do it. My five year old cousin was telling me how she doesn't think people should take the vacc..."

Hehe…5 year old ??? Girl….

Why is this 5 year old acting like an adult ??

[iimpulsvbtch]

Unknown wrote: "Maya [semi-hiatus] wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "also, I'm not like bitter about any of that^ I'm over it, kinda comes with having a dismissive avoidant attachment style.. I guess?"

..."

yess

[Unknown]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "it makes me happy to know that there are parents that can think past all the ideologies of traditional parenting and who focus on having their children grow up i..."

Hmm….

“ Permissive or Indulgent parents mostly let their children do what they want, and offer limited guidance or direction. They are more like friends than parents.”

Now ? What’s your opinion ?