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Jul 08, 2021 06:18AM

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Booklover wrote: "Anshika wrote: "And what's even worse is that a lot of WOMEN do everything they can to pull other women down"
YES
And internalized misogyny is the worst!
I've noticed (especially in books,lol) wom..."
And that's one of the reasons why I absolutely ADORE Leigh Bardugo.. It's just sooo uplifting and feminist to read without degrading men.
Perfectly balanced
YES
And internalized misogyny is the worst!
I've noticed (especially in books,lol) wom..."
And that's one of the reasons why I absolutely ADORE Leigh Bardugo.. It's just sooo uplifting and feminist to read without degrading men.
Perfectly balanced
Ishika wrote: "Yes my relatives scolds my mother because she hasn't taught me how to cook.They are like what kind of a woman she'll become if she can't cook.What about men?Most of them can't cook."
Same here, Ishika
Same here, Ishika

EXACTLY! Men too are supposed to cook! A woman's job isn't to look after the house! everyone has to be self sufficient! (unless they're really old or on a wheelchair etc, then yes go ahead help them, men women and our non binary pals :))

Do u agree?
I don't. Bcz at the end it's Abt women getting equal rights. While here in India, it might be basic educational rights...US might be equal job opportunities
Whatever it is...women get oppressed. That's what we should fight against

Do u agree?
I don't. Bcz at the end it's Abt women getting equal rights. While here in India, it might be basic educational rights...."
Exactly!

YES
And internalized misogyny is the worst!
I've noticed (especially..."
YEAH! It's hard to find novels like these. (esp in romance. in romance there's usually girl on girl hate *sigh*)
Especially one of my uncles (my mother's sister's husband- mausa ji) constantly taunts my mom for not raising me as the IDEAL LADY.
P.S. He doesn't allow his daughter to go on the terrace of their own house as people may see her
P.S. He doesn't allow his daughter to go on the terrace of their own house as people may see her

Do u agree?
I don't. Bcz at the end it's Abt women getting equal rights. While here in India, it might be basic educational rights...."
Absolutely disagree with whoever said that.
The definition of feminism is "the belief that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men" and that belief is the same, regardless in what form it's being acted upon

P.S. He doesn't allow his daughter to go on the terrace of their..."
What the heck
Nashita wrote: "Y'all someone told me that feminism is different in each country
Do u agree?
I don't. Bcz at the end it's Abt women getting equal rights. While here in India, it might be basic educational rights...."
DON'T AGREE. Feminism is equal rights for ALL.
It's at different stages in different countries but the essence is same everywhere.
EQUALITY.
Do u agree?
I don't. Bcz at the end it's Abt women getting equal rights. While here in India, it might be basic educational rights...."
DON'T AGREE. Feminism is equal rights for ALL.
It's at different stages in different countries but the essence is same everywhere.
EQUALITY.

P.S. He doesn't allow his daughter to go on the terrace of their..."
That's a very f**d up mentality.
Ishika wrote: "Anshika wrote: "Especially one of my uncles (my mother's sister's husband- mausa ji) constantly taunts my mom for not raising me as the IDEAL LADY.
P.S. He doesn't allow his daughter to go on the ..."
That's just extreme. It's actually sick.
My mom is too busy protecting me and other relatives don't care
P.S. He doesn't allow his daughter to go on the ..."
That's just extreme. It's actually sick.
My mom is too busy protecting me and other relatives don't care

I'm going to gender swap sexism
"How dare teen boys go out after 7pm! What if someone sees them? Oh no, they must be kept at home and protected like pearls. They must wear full sleeves and jeans so it's not distracting to wandering eyes! Also, they must be quiet and must only speak when spoken to. How dare they have the guts to talk to a woman! Their job is to stay at home and look after their children. They mustn't have steady jobs, what if their emotions cloud their judgement? No no, men are very precious and delicate! They must stay at home, learn how to cook so that they can serve their wife and children"
C'mon, how weird and awkward does that sound?

I'm going to gender swap sexism
"How dare teen boys go out after 7pm! What if someone sees them? Oh no, they must be kept at home and protected like pearls. They must wear..."
I freaking hate this

I'm going to gender swap sexism
"How dare teen boys go out after 7pm! What if someone sees them? Oh no, they must be kept at home and protected like pear..."
Same.
And people tell this to women... This should NEVER be said to anyone!
A woman can be in the army. A man can look after his wife. A non-binary person can be a politician. IF IT IS THEIR CHOICE.
When I was 11, a male family member told me to be a proper lady. The reason?
"What do you protect? Diamond or coal? Diamond, of course!
Girls are like diamonds that's you (me) should stay home and let the men protect you. Boys are coal.. too hard. Not precious, so we send them out to work in heat and difficult situations."
I was terribly confused until mommy dearest reminded me that I'm a fucking human, NOT a stone
"What do you protect? Diamond or coal? Diamond, of course!
Girls are like diamonds that's you (me) should stay home and let the men protect you. Boys are coal.. too hard. Not precious, so we send them out to work in heat and difficult situations."
I was terribly confused until mommy dearest reminded me that I'm a fucking human, NOT a stone

"What do you protect? Diamond or coal? Diamond, of course!
Girls are like diamonds that's you (me) should stay home and..."
Yes you're human, not diamond!
Also technically speaking, I'd value coal. Coal gives you heat when lit. Diamonds are nothing but pretty objects.
I'd say women are bombs and men are fire
Both destroy you.
C. Antigone wrote: "Nashita wrote: "I hate everything
The world is so unfair to us
Women are expected to be all dolled up but not show skin.bcz if they do, they're inviting rape
Girls cant wear full dress or just any..."
I'm sorry it's sooo stupid I laughed...
I shouldn't have, I know. But not too much nor too little... What the hell does the world even want?
The world is so unfair to us
Women are expected to be all dolled up but not show skin.bcz if they do, they're inviting rape
Girls cant wear full dress or just any..."
I'm sorry it's sooo stupid I laughed...
I shouldn't have, I know. But not too much nor too little... What the hell does the world even want?

The world is so unfair to us
Women are expected to be all dolled up but not show skin.bcz if they do, they're inviting rape
Girls cant wear fu..."
The world wants people to model to their expectations.
Especially Korean beauty standards.. the girls are literally underweight! And they want when to have curves but not too much.. they have to be pale, SUPER thin
Hwa Sa and Jessi have to go through so much hate
Hwa Sa and Jessi have to go through so much hate
I remember a FAN telling Rosé from BLACKPINK to button up her shirt on live (top two buttons were open, NOTHING was revealing). She did.

omg yes, i remember that



And (in my head) I'm like "wth! Have you read/heard the Mahabharat? Because Draupadi was in there and was..."
Preach girl preach

Loadss of Indian culture, and it'll get your feminist side kicking!
Also, you'll probably hate the first 30% but stick with it :)

I wanna read it this month😌"
Ahh idk Nashita, I'm pretty busy for *more* BR's! Um... How about 25th July?

Loadss of Indian culture, and it'll get your feminist side kicking!
Also, you'll probably hate the first 30%..."
Ooh okay, thanks for the rec!

And (in my head) I'm like "wth! Have you read/heard the Mahabharat? Because Draupadi wa..."
Haha thanks :))

Thank u<3

I wanna read it this month😌"
Ahh idk Nashita, I'm pretty busy for *more* BR's! Um... How about 25th July?"
Yes sounds good

Loadss of Indian culture, and it'll get your feminist side kicking!
Also, you'll probably hate the first 30%..."
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