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Chapters 10-15
Hard to believe this poor couple went through 3 miscarriages, and all alone with no one to talk to. Stedman doesn't let us get very close to her characters, but she manages to convey Izzy's feelings of guilt, as if she is defective, and that she feels it is her fault. She also captures Tom's feelings of helplessness, knowing there is nothing he can do or say to comfort his wife.
We have been led to like Izzy so far, thinking her entirely normal, but what she does is very abnormal. Would she have done this if she weren't in the throes of a deep depression? We don't really get to know her enough to know her true character, but I would guess we all would like to think this isn't something she would normally do.
I hate when you can see characters head down the slippery slope, and I always want to reach out to warn them. But she forces Tom to go against his good judgment and puts him in a terrible position. And because he loves her, he gives in to her and, inch by inch, they slowly go over the cliff. Tom is a man who lives by the book, and she has asked him to go against everything he stands for, and this will change their relationship. We can see this happen right away when he starts lingering in the lantern room before going home. Ugh. It is now that I begin to read with dread, every step they take closer to disaster.
What is wrong with Isabel, I ask myself as she glibly claims ownership over this baby? How can she do this? Something about her now seems very bizarre, very selfish. Of course Tom is not blameless either, but doesn't like it, wants to change it, and isn't perpetuating the myth that she is theirs, except by inaction. I know that still makes him guilty, but he would change it in a heartbeat, given half a chance.
Being alone on that island must change a person. I guess you don't live in the real world - only in the world of your mind, where you can make your own rules. It is only when they get back to civilization that Isabel even gets close to being remorseful and frightened - even before they find out about the baby's identity.

Irene wrote: "What's eating Tom Sherbourne?"
I think that Tom doesn't like what they are doing. He doesn't understand Izzy's thinking. He loves her, but he knows they are hurting someone, and he has known too much hurt in his life. He wants to do the right thing.
I think that Tom doesn't like what they are doing. He doesn't understand Izzy's thinking. He loves her, but he knows they are hurting someone, and he has known too much hurt in his life. He wants to do the right thing.




“It’s brought out a different side of her, all right.”
What do you think he is thinking?

What is Tom's story?

She is now going through her changes? That is sad.

I know that Tom watched Izzy in her miscarriage. I think as a man he was there and felt helpless, also being a man he probably wasn't the best emotional support provider and maybe that is due to his past?

Good possible connections

Chapters 10-15
Hard to believe this poor couple went through 3 miscarriages, and all alone with no one to talk to. Stedman doesn't let us get very cl..."
Great questions and wonderings. I wonder if between the mercury exposure and miscarriages caused chemical imbalances.
Irene wrote: "How can one fix this mess?"
I don't think there is any perfect solution to this mess. Someone is going to get hurt in the end. I do not see any completely "happily ever after" to this book. But I am very engrossed now, so I am plowing ahead into part 3.
I don't think there is any perfect solution to this mess. Someone is going to get hurt in the end. I do not see any completely "happily ever after" to this book. But I am very engrossed now, so I am plowing ahead into part 3.



I did not feel until Part 3 that we really knew why Tom went along with Izabel's claim/pretence with Lucy.

I feel that Tom and Izabel should have gone down an adoption route with children at the orphange especially as Izabel had knowledge of the orphanage.

I agree that this mess cannot be fixed it is so far down a path that it has be to allowed to reach its own conclusion

Chapters 10-15
Hard to believe this poor couple went through 3 miscarriages, and all alone with no one to talk to. Stedman doesn't let us get very cl..."
Whilst I did not dread Part 2, I was curious to know how the story would play out. For me Part 3 was most distressing.


On a side note, I love the role the lighthouse plays in the story. It's part of Lucy's drawings, a source of comfort, a beacon of hope and safety, and a sign of respectability for Tom.



I wonder if there is anybody who thinks Tom and Izabel keeping the baby and pretending it their own biological child was a good way to go?
Sue wrote: "I wonder if there is anybody who thinks Tom and Izabel keeping the baby and pretending it their own biological child was a good way to go? "
Nope. It only led to years of heartache all around for many people.
Nope. It only led to years of heartache all around for many people.

I think of the island as the pivotal third character. Janus impacts most every action, emotion, and moment of the day for these two. Their lives would be different in every way if they lived and worked elsewhere.
I believe that neither of them would have kept the baby if they had lived on land. And further, if the baby had come to the island alone, in the boat, that might have made some difference to the situation. But with the father in the boat it lost something for me, certainly my sympathy, but also a sense of believability. He would jump into a boat and row away? That must have been some strange crowd chasing him... There is no excuse for their keeping the baby and not looking for the mother.


I think these are good points about the reader having limited information, orphanages and making assumptions and this is certainly the case until we get the back story about Lucy.

I wonde..."
I was conflicted because it was understandable why Izzy wanted to keep Lucy. However, giving finding Lucy's mother would have been the right thing to do.



It's heartrending, but they should have at least inquired for the mother. A mother has to think of her children first, and for that baby, her mother was out there but left unasked.







Believable, complex characters :) I will slog through horrible plots if I can believe in/empathize with the characters.
