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I do believe we learn a lot about Kim. Why she doesn't associate with the team outside work. Why she has a hard time with relationships. It all comes back to a mother who tried to kill her and did kill her brother then losing the only two people who loved her.



Wow, people hate her character. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I don't think they have thought about her back story. And her interactions with her team and even how kind she was to Lucy shows that all is not lost for Kim. I think she is really interesting. Her personality and learning more about her is just as important as the murder plots for me.
Her foster parents #4, Keith & Erica, taught Kim unconditional love and gave her hope. Their untimely death also taught her to not trust that it will last. But that little sliver of life was enough to make her resilient and develop coping skills. I think she’s remarkable.
Kim doesn’t form social relationships because she believes that eventually something will cause them to go away. She keeps people at a distance except for those that manage to worm their way in. The pain of her foster parents’ loss had to be almost unbearable. She does everything to make certain that doesn’t happen again.
Remember how she ditched her last relationship because he left his toothbrush at her house? That was telling because to her it signaled a developing attachment. She ran.
Kim doesn’t form social relationships because she believes that eventually something will cause them to go away. She keeps people at a distance except for those that manage to worm their way in. The pain of her foster parents’ loss had to be almost unbearable. She does everything to make certain that doesn’t happen again.
Remember how she ditched her last relationship because he left his toothbrush at her house? That was telling because to her it signaled a developing attachment. She ran.

I agree with you also, Lisa.

I wonder if somewhere through the series Kim will have a romantic relationship? We will see.

Lisa - (Aussie Girl) wrote: "Jonetta wrote: "I wonder if somewhere through the series Kim will have a romantic relationship? We will see. .."
Lisa, I have no idea but certainly think she should. It would make for fascinating reading.
Lisa, I have no idea but certainly think she should. It would make for fascinating reading.
Lauren wrote: "Kim is an amazing character. Her strength of will and determination is incredible considering what she has been through in life. I've never understood those reviews that harp on about her being unl..."
It’s easy to just stay on the surface and dislike what you see. There’s so much depth to this character it’s impossible for me not to admire her.
It’s easy to just stay on the surface and dislike what you see. There’s so much depth to this character it’s impossible for me not to admire her.
FYI, I worked with a woman who was a lot like Kim. Just about everyone disliked her but we became good working colleagues and friends. She was incredibly smart, didn’t suffer fools and was direct. I never had to guess her true meanings and it was refreshing in the corporate world. It was my job to manage the implementation of her directives (she was the regulatory attorney for my company) and develop workarounds when they were onerous.
I was her “Bryant” even though I didn’t work for her. It’s the best way to describe our relationship. When I resigned, the first thing my boss said was. “ Who’s going to manage dealing with her???” That woman kept our company out of trouble, created a healthy relationship with regulators and made me smarter. She improved our company’s reputation, too. Yes, I later learned her backstory and what made her so prickly. But, it never mattered.
I was her “Bryant” even though I didn’t work for her. It’s the best way to describe our relationship. When I resigned, the first thing my boss said was. “ Who’s going to manage dealing with her???” That woman kept our company out of trouble, created a healthy relationship with regulators and made me smarter. She improved our company’s reputation, too. Yes, I later learned her backstory and what made her so prickly. But, it never mattered.





I'm surprised by the same thing, Teresa. Kim is the series. Without her it would be a flat police procedural. Her character makes the series.
Sharon wrote: "Jonetta, Thanks for sharing. I worked with a "Kim" too. We were never close outside work, but she is one of the best mentors I ever had. She taught me how to be a better manager and how to manage a..."
Funny how that works out, right?
Funny how that works out, right?

I had a teacher in high school that was like Kim in many ways. When I had her, it was her first year teaching in a public school after leaving the convent. She was unemotional, direct, and very businesslike. I learned more from her than any other teacher I ever had.
Lynn wrote: "I had a teacher in high school that was like Kim in many ways. When I had her, it was her first year teaching in a public school after leaving the convent. She was unemotional, direct, and very businesslike. I learned more from her than any other teacher I ever had...."
I think we’re seeing a pattern here...
I think we’re seeing a pattern here...