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To be clear, we are reading THE VANISHING HALF in August, and HOMEGOING in September right ?

Hopefully I can manage to join the discussion.


When I listen to an audiobook, I find that I need to follow along with the print version, or I will miss a lot of what is going on. I do remember the audiobook being good.



Hey everyone!! I hope you are are having a good month so far! I'm going to start my reread tonight and I figured we can just split the book into two parts ( they are roughly 50% of the book each).
You can post any questions or comments that you have at any point, just remember to use the spoiler tag.
I'll post "official" discussion questions for part one on 9/13 and part two on 9/27.
Please let me know if you have any questions. Also if you have suggestions for our next group reads (Oct - Dec), please drop me a message!
You can post any questions or comments that you have at any point, just remember to use the spoiler tag.
I'll post "official" discussion questions for part one on 9/13 and part two on 9/27.
Please let me know if you have any questions. Also if you have suggestions for our next group reads (Oct - Dec), please drop me a message!


The woman whose story, stands out the most for me, is Ness. There are no boundaries to be placed, on a mothers love. She went through so much and still kept going. If my answer changes, I will let you know.

Part 1 Discussion starts here. **WARNING**, there may be spoilers.
We are introduced to a lot of characters, so let’s do a quick recap.
Effia - gets married to a white British officer thanks to the conniving machinations of her stepmother
Esi - half-sister to Effia; she is captured in a rival village revenge raid and is taken into slavery by white British men
Quey - son of Effia; he is a closeted homosexual who gets sent to London by his suspicious father and is then forced into a marriage of convenience by his Uncle
Ness - daughter of Esi; she is a slave on several cotton plantations in America but one master is truly terrible who she calls ‘the devil’. She and her husband and son try to escape in the Underground Railroad.
James – son of Quey; fakes his own death so he can be with the woman he wants and avoid all the unwanted responsibilities being shoved on to him due to his family/station
Kojo - son of Ness; his pregnant wife Anna (and mother of their 7 children) was born free but she was kidnapped
Abena - daughter of James; has an affair with her friend since childhood but he puts off marrying her for so long that when she gets pregnant she decides to leave him and her village to go to join a Christian missionary.
We are introduced to a lot of characters, so let’s do a quick recap.
Effia - gets married to a white British officer thanks to the conniving machinations of her stepmother
Esi - half-sister to Effia; she is captured in a rival village revenge raid and is taken into slavery by white British men
Quey - son of Effia; he is a closeted homosexual who gets sent to London by his suspicious father and is then forced into a marriage of convenience by his Uncle
Ness - daughter of Esi; she is a slave on several cotton plantations in America but one master is truly terrible who she calls ‘the devil’. She and her husband and son try to escape in the Underground Railroad.
James – son of Quey; fakes his own death so he can be with the woman he wants and avoid all the unwanted responsibilities being shoved on to him due to his family/station
Kojo - son of Ness; his pregnant wife Anna (and mother of their 7 children) was born free but she was kidnapped
Abena - daughter of James; has an affair with her friend since childhood but he puts off marrying her for so long that when she gets pregnant she decides to leave him and her village to go to join a Christian missionary.
Part One Questions
Effie
1. What are your thoughts on the relationship between Effia and Cobbe? Effia and Baaba? Effia and James? Why do you think it is what way?
Esi
1. What does Maame’s treatment of Abronoma tell you about her? What kind of person is Maame? How does this influence what kind of person Esi becomes?
2. What do you think happens to the black stone Maame gave Esi? What is the significance of the stone?
Quey
1. Why was Quey sent to England? After his return home, why does Quey say that it was safer in England? Why might he feel that what he faces at home is more difficult than the challenges he faced in leaving home and living abroad?
Ness
1. What is the significance of Ness’s name? Where does it come from and what does it say about where she’s from?
2. What is the relationship between Ness and Pinky? Why do you think Pinky decides to stay so close to Ness?
3. Ness has flashbacks to Hell and the Devil - what is Hell to her and who is the Devil as she remembers?
James
1. Why is it so important that James marries Amma Atta? How far back does this go?
2. How has the British presence in Africa affected the lives of the Africans (as reflected in the book so far)?
3. James questions the girl who refuses to shake his hand for being a slaver. But to James, their ancestors had gained power by capturing slaves (96). Does the girl’s ancestry matter in her ability to judge someone else for gaining wealth from the slave trade? How does James’s family history of selling slaves affect him?
Kojo
1. How has growing up away from his parents affected Kojo?
2. Why do you think Kojo decided to stay after hearing Mr. Mathison’s warning? What does it say about Kojo that he made that decision?
3. How does the passing of the Fugitive Slave Act affect the people of Baltimore?
4. What do you think actually happened to Anna?
Abena
1. Why do Abena’s parents forbid her to go to Kumasi? Are they right to do so?
2. Unlucky implies that they are all “responsible” for the slave trading. What does he mean by this? Is he right?
3. What is the relationship between Abena and her parents like? How does her father treat her and how does his treatment of her compare to other father-daughter relationships in the book?
4. What is the relationship between Abena and Ohene Nyarko like? What do you think about his hesitations around marrying her?
5. What do you think about the village’s response to Abena and Ohene Nyarko’s relationship?
6. Why does Unlucky consider himself lucky? Do you agree or disagree with him and why?
7. What do you think of the gift Abena’s father gives her before she leaves? What do you think this gift symbolizes?
Effie
1. What are your thoughts on the relationship between Effia and Cobbe? Effia and Baaba? Effia and James? Why do you think it is what way?
Esi
1. What does Maame’s treatment of Abronoma tell you about her? What kind of person is Maame? How does this influence what kind of person Esi becomes?
2. What do you think happens to the black stone Maame gave Esi? What is the significance of the stone?
Quey
1. Why was Quey sent to England? After his return home, why does Quey say that it was safer in England? Why might he feel that what he faces at home is more difficult than the challenges he faced in leaving home and living abroad?
Ness
1. What is the significance of Ness’s name? Where does it come from and what does it say about where she’s from?
2. What is the relationship between Ness and Pinky? Why do you think Pinky decides to stay so close to Ness?
3. Ness has flashbacks to Hell and the Devil - what is Hell to her and who is the Devil as she remembers?
James
1. Why is it so important that James marries Amma Atta? How far back does this go?
2. How has the British presence in Africa affected the lives of the Africans (as reflected in the book so far)?
3. James questions the girl who refuses to shake his hand for being a slaver. But to James, their ancestors had gained power by capturing slaves (96). Does the girl’s ancestry matter in her ability to judge someone else for gaining wealth from the slave trade? How does James’s family history of selling slaves affect him?
Kojo
1. How has growing up away from his parents affected Kojo?
2. Why do you think Kojo decided to stay after hearing Mr. Mathison’s warning? What does it say about Kojo that he made that decision?
3. How does the passing of the Fugitive Slave Act affect the people of Baltimore?
4. What do you think actually happened to Anna?
Abena
1. Why do Abena’s parents forbid her to go to Kumasi? Are they right to do so?
2. Unlucky implies that they are all “responsible” for the slave trading. What does he mean by this? Is he right?
3. What is the relationship between Abena and her parents like? How does her father treat her and how does his treatment of her compare to other father-daughter relationships in the book?
4. What is the relationship between Abena and Ohene Nyarko like? What do you think about his hesitations around marrying her?
5. What do you think about the village’s response to Abena and Ohene Nyarko’s relationship?
6. Why does Unlucky consider himself lucky? Do you agree or disagree with him and why?
7. What do you think of the gift Abena’s father gives her before she leaves? What do you think this gift symbolizes?

10%. Baaba is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for the rest of her life.
Cobbe, on the other hand, seems to adore her and regularly tries to protect her fro her mother. This probably makes Cobbe punish Effia even more.
20%. We know now why Baaba was so hateful.

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for the rest of her life.
Baaba, o..."
You have transposed the names. Baaba is the hateful one and Cobbe is the protective father. But I agree. Effia’s abuse at the hands of Baaba was very disturbing.

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for the rest of her l..."
Bernie, thank you so much. Once I realized it, I tried to edit before anyone read it. Didn’t make it. LOL! 😂


The house girl[spoilers removed]"
Although the incident, gave her the opportunity to escape, there is nothing that points her out, as the responsible party.

Although this was a reread for me, I was not familiar with anything In this book. It’s like I was reading this book for the first time. What a beautifully written, work of art. Each story was so interesting, and so many of them, were filled with heart wrenching drama.

10%. Baaba is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for the rest of he..."
It was such a relief for me, to find out the backstory, behind Baaba and Effia’s relationship. (view spoiler)

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for th..."
So many characters to keep to keep track of 😂😂😂😂

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish ..."
Bernie, yes, so many characters and connections. The kindle X-ray is helping me keep them straight.
Where are you in the book?

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determ..."
I finished it. I am attempting to discuss, what others bring up, so I won’t move too far ahead.

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for the rest of her l..."
Baaba is a hateful person. I wished for bad things to happen to her for being so mean to a child. Cobbe was not as protective as he should have been. For some reason, I think he knew how evil Baaba could be and didn't prevent enough of it.

Effie
1. What are your thoughts on the relationship between Effia and Cobbe? Effia and Baaba? Effia and James? Why do you think it is what way?
Esi
1. What does Maame’s treat..."
Ness
I really enjoyed reading about the way Ness got her name: Goodness. I thought of it as a soulful defense mechanism built into her existence and a precious gift from her mom. This would only work if she was told how she got her name, but it was a good try.

this is a re read for me also and I don't remember anywhere near as much as I thought I would. I'm listening to the audio this second time around - thank goodNess, :-). Had it not been for the traditional first reading, I would be lost. I relied heavily on the family trees in the beginning of the hard copy. I am in Willie's story now and she is amazing, as all of the other women are in their stories. There are some strong genes in these people.

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was determined to punish her for for th..."
I’m not saying Baaba was right, but how do you handle your husband, (view spoiler)

Cobbe is so hateful to Effia from the time of her birth. It’s like she blames the baby for the fire and was deter..."
Dosha, you are so right. Not justifying Baaba at all, but a reminder to once again remember everyone has a story.
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