Us Against You question

Hello, apologize if I am not doing this correctly or posting in the right area, I am new to goodreads. I am looking for a quote from us against you. It is about benji and how, due to his sexual orientation, he will always be expected to feel happy about being included instead of feeling as if it’s his right to be. Something along those lines. I am hoping someone will remember that line and can send it to me or point me in the direction of the chapter or something! Thanks everyone!