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Jan 31, 2019 07:09PM

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"But it isn't just an Asian story. It isn't just a mental health story. It's a story about trying to fit in. It's a story about not knowing what's going on. It's a story about really feeling like a loner and walking around in a sea of ghosts."
https://www.cbc.ca/books/why-joe-zee-...
https://www.cbc.ca/books/why-joe-zee-...

I know it's a popular book but the title alone immediately put me off - not just once but a number of times - demons? my crazy Chinese family? woo-woo? drug raids? surviving ice hockey? Sure packs a wallop and it doesn't sound like the author is taking an important topic seriously. The title screamed to me that it was a foreboder of a book of satire and humour about mental health issues and Chinese culture. Not my cup of tea.
If I'm fortunate enough to read it before Canada Reads starts, I will definitely read with an open mind as I may be pre-judging it a bit too harshly. I hope I'm proven wrong because it's going to have an awfully large reader stage.

An unexpected bonus for me ( yes really) was how it illuminated some of the murkier questions i had about my own family dynamic. For a book i began with many reservations, i ended up loving it and her . You might not find it as pertinent as i did, but I hope you do too

Thanks for joining in this particular discussion and for your comments regarding my reservations about The Woo-Woo. I appreciate your input as we quite often share a similar taste in books. I do have The Woo-Woo on hold at the library and will keep an open mind if I'm lucky enough to get a chance to read it before the Canada Reads debates begin. I too hope my initial ideas about the book are proven wrong.

Laughter is a tool for "experiencing relief from fear or tension"
" humour in general, whatever its content, is political by nature. Down to the smallest details of our lives, our relationships and encounters involve exercises and exchanges of power. In the face of these dynamics, laughter is an equalising gesture, a restoration of a rightful order in the face of an unjust hierarchy.
Similarly, when we find something funny, it’s often because of some incongruity between mind and body, the ideal and the real."
https://aeon.co/essays/does-laughter-...
If you're farther along in the book than I am, do you see Wong using laughter and sarcasm in this way?
Thanks Storyheart - I will have a read through... after I read the book!
This will be my last book as I read through the CR books. here is a bit more information about the author and the impact reading had on her: https://www.cbc.ca/books/why-books-we...
This will be my last book as I read through the CR books. here is a bit more information about the author and the impact reading had on her: https://www.cbc.ca/books/why-books-we...

I’m curious how the debate will go on this book - mental health is the core theme - yet also immigration, assimilation, family support/love, Asian Canadian experience, family / cultural traditions — it deals with a lot of deep subject manner — but possibly not in a serious enough tone to challenge the other CR books.
Overall, I enjoyed the read. Gave it 3.5/5
PS: If swearing bothers you - this book may not be for you — lots of cursing on almost every page.
Just starting this book and already pondering what her family must think of the story and how it would impact their relationships. here is another article posted by CBC: https://www.cbc.ca/books/canada-reads...

I feel like this is a book that i had to get through. It is very sad to think that this was the author's childhood so I hope that there was some creative license and embellishment in the description of her life. How could her mother burn her feet to get her out of bed? Swear at her like that? Neglect her?
This was my least favourite read and I am hoping it is voted off early but then we all know that there will be strategy in the game!
This was my least favourite read and I am hoping it is voted off early but then we all know that there will be strategy in the game!
I feel like this is a book that i had to get through. It is very sad to think that this was the author's childhood so I hope that there was some creative license and embellishment in the description of her life. How could her mother burn her feet to get her out of bed? Swear at her like that? Neglect her?
This was my least favourite read and I am hoping it is voted off early but then we all know that there will be strategy in the game!
This was my least favourite read and I am hoping it is voted off early but then we all know that there will be strategy in the game!

Susan, exactly how I felt. I quit reading after the burning incident (around pg90). I felt I was watching some sordid chat show where each subsequent reveal was worse than the previous one.( I also have a very tough time reading about child abuse - could not finish Break or Women Talking.) This book also had a lot of inconsistencies - they had money but lived like poor people, the kids were assessed for various learning disabilities and attended good schools but no one saw the abuse. Going into this book, I heard a lot about black humour, wit, satire etc., but I didn't see any of it at all. Overall, this book was not for me.
I also hope this is one of the early exits.

Srividya, that's an interesting point about the inconsistencies. I hadn't considered that. There were specific events in the book that just got more and more ridiculous with random details and, to me, that signalled that there was a lot of exaggeration (if not complete fabrication) going on in the storytelling.
I should have stopped reading after the second chapter about her neighbours. It was so incredibly nasty with the mean nicknames and making fun of others' appearance. I knew I'd get nothing out of the book then, but I'd promised myself I would read all five contenders.

I'm curious to hear the defender discuss it as in the CR kick off on the radio he inferred to a connection via Chinese. culture.

This is the 4th of the 5 books that I started. But then it was so painful that I set it aside and squeezed Homes in. I was sort of hoping that I wouldn't have time to finish The Woo-Woo, but alas, I do and I will.
But yeah, entirely painful for me as a reading experience. I get it -- it's about mental health and suppressing fear and pain. Satire, humour, etc, etc. But it's just so unenjoyable.
Ann-Marie, your comment is spot-on. It'll be so interesting to see the Chinese defender speak about this Chinese book/experience. Maybe he will enlighten me to its intrinsic value and help me to understand how any of it makes sense.
This was an interesting listen: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/thenextchapt...
I must have missed the humour as I really found myself frustrated with this book.
I too will be interested in hearing the Chinese perspective but regardless, feel that the CAS should have been involved when there are feet being burnt, emotional abuse and so much neglect. I am still hoping that this was embellished.
Interesting to hear that the author's family had not yet read the book and were waiting on a copy from the library. i can't imagine their reaction.
I must have missed the humour as I really found myself frustrated with this book.
I too will be interested in hearing the Chinese perspective but regardless, feel that the CAS should have been involved when there are feet being burnt, emotional abuse and so much neglect. I am still hoping that this was embellished.
Interesting to hear that the author's family had not yet read the book and were waiting on a copy from the library. i can't imagine their reaction.

Yeah, no kidding!!!!

Good points abt abuse yet I don’t think any of that was considered taboo by the family or friends at all. Everything was normalized and blamed on the spiritual “woo woo” so even if the family challenges the actions, the the person doing them would have been seen as embodying the woo woo.

It’s a bizarre family. Have you seen the movie Rich Crazy Asian’s? Some of the same stereotypes are depicted - not the mental health exactly - but the super tough love,
Negative commentary and unusual expectations.