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Do you always finish a book you start reading?

A murderer doesn't think "Karma's a bitch!" when someone is about to murder them.
Karma is karma - aggregated over a lifetime and is best perceived by third parties.

A murderer doesn't think "Karma's a bitch!" when someone is about to murder them.
Karma is karma - aggregated over a lifetime and is be..."
Karma is nonsense. To believe every bad thing that happens to someone is karmic justice for something bad they've done in the past means that when bad things happen to ourselves or the ones we love we have to admit it's also karmic justice and we/they deserve it. But no one ever thinks that way.
I digress. What you did was passive aggressive revenge no matter how much you try to spin it as something else.


I've never been tempted to do it, either. Wouldn't expect to necess..."
My mother ALWAYS read the last chapter first. I never understood it and have never done it. I remember once my father tore the last chapter out of her paperback and hid it so she couldn't read it first!

Linda wrote: "Has everybody added a DNF (did not finish) shelf to their Goodreads shelves? I very rarely give up on a book, but lately there have been several. I even went back to that shelf to see if I wanted t..."
I have a DNF shelf. I just added to it this morning. I just wish I didn't have to keep a book on either my read or want to read shelf to have it marked as DNF.
I have a DNF shelf. I just added to it this morning. I just wish I didn't have to keep a book on either my read or want to read shelf to have it marked as DNF.

OOOOOH! I can help with that. From My Books, click on 'edit' next to 'bookshelves' on the left. This brings up a list of all your shelves. Make DNF an exclusive shelf. That means the book can only be on one shelf: want to read, read, currently reading, or DNF.
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Linda wrote: "Gretchen wrote: "Linda wrote: "Has everybody added a DNF (did not finish) shelf to their Goodreads shelves? I very rarely give up on a book, but lately there have been several. I even went back to ..."
I had it set like that at one point. At some point the shelf was removed from my exclusive shelves and I'm not really sure why. I probably offended someone in the GRs universe. I had to rename the shelf and keep it as a non-exclusive shelf.
I had it set like that at one point. At some point the shelf was removed from my exclusive shelves and I'm not really sure why. I probably offended someone in the GRs universe. I had to rename the shelf and keep it as a non-exclusive shelf.

huh. Hasn't happened to me yet. I'll keep watching. Interesting.




I also have a "DNF-but might later" shelf for books that I'm still interested in but the timing wasn't right. Often these are books that were too heavy for me at the time - although long (800+ pages) family sagas can end up there because, for me, those require a break from work to be able to devote the time attention. Maybe I'll create a shelf "Try again when I retire".



So far, I've finished every physical copy I ever bought apart from a single one (which is still going on my nerves. Have to re-read it soon!). If they're terrible, I start skimming at some point, but I always finish it so that I can give them the rant they deserve. With e-books, I read the first twenty pages - if I don't connect with it, I read some reviews to find out if it gets better. If it doesn't, that's it for me.

And I'm giving up on a book today, which I very seldom do!

I hope that makes sense :)

THANK YOU! That was so easy (and even noticed the instructions that I've ignored for years...).
PS: Having done this I see that I have read far enough to record that I DNF 31 times in the last couple of years (8 of those I gave bad reviews and said NO, and the other 23 I noted this might not be the right time but might try again someday).



Have you ever been wrong? As far as you know?
There's quite an art to making the reader think they know where the book is going and then totally disrupt their expectation in the final scene.


Have you ever been wrong? As far as you..."
This is so true!




Too many books to waste time on one that doesn't "sit right".


My problem is mainly choosing which book to read rather than having a large DNF pile as my stubbornness and perfectionist side will tell myself to finish the book. I think a part of me wonders, 'what if the book gets better and I just take myself out of it too soon before that happens?
I have ADD issues therefore I recognize its very likely for me to get distracted in the middle of reading any book therefore I do attempt to bring my focus back as much as I can.
If a book does not work for me in one format I shall change formats generally from kindle books to audio or vise verse as I notice a different experience with changing formats and how I shall comprehend the information I am given. If that does not work; I will take a break and return to the book; reread it to see if I need to be in a different mood to do so.
DNFing is really a last resort for me but generally the break helps with me if needed. Generally when I do set a book aside its a permanent DNF and means its a book I will never read again. The Break may take months or even years but at some point I know I would return to it as I believe each book deserves that much.
I have ADD issues therefore I recognize its very likely for me to get distracted in the middle of reading any book therefore I do attempt to bring my focus back as much as I can.
If a book does not work for me in one format I shall change formats generally from kindle books to audio or vise verse as I notice a different experience with changing formats and how I shall comprehend the information I am given. If that does not work; I will take a break and return to the book; reread it to see if I need to be in a different mood to do so.
DNFing is really a last resort for me but generally the break helps with me if needed. Generally when I do set a book aside its a permanent DNF and means its a book I will never read again. The Break may take months or even years but at some point I know I would return to it as I believe each book deserves that much.



I wish I could dnf books easily, though. Because I've read so much garbage lately, I feel I could've read some amazing stuff instead. I don't like myself very much for this trait.

Hmm, yeah, that may be true. Perhaps I should start forcing myself to dnf books that I'm really not enjoying. I mean, if I get to the 30-40% mark, I can still say something about it, right?


I do not finish books I don't like ... there are too many that I do like to spend time on the ones I don't ... and I have noticed that I sometimes get more "likes" when I review a book I didn't like, such as Wolf Hall or Less.


Calvin wrote: "I have a nasty habit of starting several books at once, and the one I find most interesting I finish first. Usually the one that I am least interesting in gets traded for something else."

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I did call him out, and naturally he denied it. But he couldn't deny karma."
But if he doesn't know it was you or why you did it, he has no idea that it IS "karma". You haven't shown or taught him any karmic justice if he remains clueless about it. It's still just getting revenge on the sly, which is passive aggressive.