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A Brief History of Me
WHen the only abuse you ever hear about is physical, you think that's all it is *Shrugs*Still, there's nothing i can do about it.
And I'm sorry if it makes you uncomfortable to hear about this. if you want, I can stop. ANd that's not me being snarky and rude, i'm serious.
It's not. It's really not. Thinking like that is why people keep making fun of my trigger, or that my ex-boyfriend's abuse was no big deal because he never actually hit me.
I don't follow
I think people should be taught about abuse better and that just because a person wasn't physically abused, doesn't mean they haven't been abused. People keep making fun of how I'm triggered by abuse saying stuff like: "Oh but you just have a problem with physical abuse, you don't care if I make the characters insult each other" and saying: "You weren't with an abusive boyfriend. He never laid a hand on you, so you were not abused,"
Saying that stuff about my ex-boyfriend hurts me the most. He is the reason why I even have this trigger in the first place. Why does it even matter if he never laid a hand on me? He always said he respected women, but I could tell from how he treated me he didn't. He just never wanted to hit one.
That makes sense. ANd i agree.Still, are you fine with me talking about this? because I *can* stop
I'll let you know how my dad handles this tomorrow
Assuming I don't get grounded :p
Lol :P
I'd laugh, but it's not really funny :p
Hibachi is playing Christmas music. Why??
Because it's almost Christmas?
But it's a Japanese steakhouse. You'd think they'd have..Japanese music.
Crap it's Kabuki. My bad >.<
They celebrate Christmas in Japan, you know.
I know. Just surprised me they have American Christmas music in a Japanese restaurant
They don't really have Japanese Christmas music though. They usually just listen to ours.
I meant just Japanese music. Not a specific holiday. You can hear Christmas music anywhere. Most other restaurants and stores already have itBut thats just me
I've eaten at Japanese restaurants before and they usually don't play Japanese music.
MmMaybe Im just thinking of Chinese restaurants
I haven't heard Chinese music at Chinese restaurants either but whatever.
Odd. Im sure Ive heard Guqin. Maybe yours just dont play any.
Maybe I shouldnt have come..I hardly ate anything and Im still really hungry.
Why'd you even go in the first place?
I wanted toIt's a free dinner for employees and their spouse/significant other. I'm an employee and seeing as my parents were going...
Yeah, but you knew you wouldn't like the food.
I like what I ordered...I just didnt eat much. Because what I do likr was a small portion.
I feel really bored. I feel like there's something I should be doing right now, but I don't know what.
Blech I hate that feeling
There's nothing for me to really do on GoodReads right now either.
When I get home we can RP. I don't wanna be on my phone in thr dark too much.
I wasn't talking about you in particular, I just meant in general. Nobody really seems to be on in any of my groups.
Same here
I keep telling myself it'll all pay off when everyone is on their winter breaks.
I don't have a winter break :\
I'm mad at Origin. They're STILL processing my purchase.
I'm sorry but I laughed at that.
My dad doesn't want me buying it on Steam now and frankly neither do I but It's been OVER 24 HOURS SINCE I BOUGHT THE GAME!!
Our Origin never has problems like that though....
Mine hasn't either. I bought Battlefront II, The Sims 3 and the Sims 4 and started to download them immediately after I bought them.I guess I'm going to waste time waiting for customer support again :\
I'm impressed with their speed this time. I had to wait just a few minutes, whereas in the past I've had to wait close to 30 minutes.
Elizabeth this made me think of you :p
Why? You're the one who respects women :P
You're the one who kept posting memes about it and mentioning me by name :p
Because they remind me of you :P
You've said that before.
Oh...I have a sucky memory, remember?
Looks like I might be getting a refund after all. And if I do, I'm taking that $30 and giving it to Valve with an ((not actual)) apology and say I learned my lesson :p
My money was refunded. Tomorrow I'm going to Steam and buying Brotherhood there.
Not all abuse has to be physical, you know.