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oh my gosh! that's...quite the predicament...idk what to tell you. all I can say is that maybe when two of those friends told you that Jeremy said he hated you, Jeremy just wanted them to cover for him because he secretly likes you...or or or-
or you know how when someone asks "do you like them" and you don't know how else to deny it, so you say, "no, I hate them, ew!", but you don't really mean it?
idk, maybe I'm taking nonsense...
No no no! You make sense. I'm hoping that they asked him and he got caught offguard or something but IDK. Maybe he does hate me. AUGH!!! this sucks. I can't even ask him about it.
if he hated you, I doubt he would talk to you at all. hey, maybe your brother has his number....although, it might be embarrassing to ask your brother for his number...lol.don't worry so much:) boys aren't EVEN, as complicated as girls. (and that knowledge is coming from someone who grew up with a bunch of boys...and whose first friends were boys)
My brother doesn't have a phone and neither does he. :(I can agree with that. Boys seem to be so simple that we overthink them...
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Here's your best bet: TELL HIM. The worst thing to happen is that he will say he doesn't feel the same way...but that's it. You said he doesn't even go to the same school as you so there's no chance of awkward convo. Tell him girl.
walk over to his house and ask if you can hang out? and then tell him? I know, easier said than done, but...
Idk where he lives!!! Plus his parents are super strict. i don't think that they like me at all... And i cant tell him because I don't know when I'm going to see him again.
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No. We're only 13. I can pretty much only go places with my parents. And his parents are 1000 times more strict...
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wow...then maybe this should just be a strictly far away relationship meaning just looking at him...
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! Did you see the pic I posted the link for? it's on the crushes topic
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I haven't seen my crush in two years, so...(long story)sometimes it sucks, but I guess if you have some way to contact...but you don't, right? I'm so sorry
lol. sure. maybe in a few years you'll have a better, closer relationship and maybe by then your relationship can go somewhere since you'll probably be old enough by then
I hope so. there is a chance that his little brother will be on my brother's team next year. Then I can hang-out with "Jeremy" during the games and not just for a couple minutes after.
Yeah but only if his bro is on my bro's team. That would make my life AMAZING! and AWESOME and FABULOUS! As supposed to my current Depressing Hateful life
Well.., It's horrible not being able to read minds... If everyone could A) I'd be hated probably because I think my mind (XD) B) You'd have a way of knowing if someone actually likes you.. Hmm......
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Um, you're only 13? If so, then don't stress so much about dating and stuff, you have lots of time to worry about all that drama later in life. Just enjoy being a kid for now. That's not to say that you won't 'like' people and want hang out with your crush, just...don't have your whole life revolve around it.
I ended up seeing him on Friday night. (Totally unexpected) And he barely talked to me. Then when I was bugging him about who he thought that I liked he still wouldn't tell. So I said if he gets it wrong I'll tell him who it actually is (and I was going to tell him) but he said no because he's "scared". What!?! Does that mean he's scared I like him? Then when I was talking to his brother his brother told me that there dad didn't like them hanging out with me. So I was all like "What's so bad about me?" and by then "Jeremy" was standing by us. So he jokes and says, "your ugly" and I knew he was kidding but it really stung. Sure he didn't mean it but I wanted to die right then and there. The thing is, there dad is the laid back one so I don't even want to know what there mom thinks about me. I actually started crying. Not then but a couple minutes later when I walked by their dad and he said hi to me as if it was nothing. i just mumbled back but in my mind I was saying, "aren't you supposed to be staying away from me?" So I just sat by myself and cried. It got worse when my brother's whole team ran up to me and asked if I liked the guy that my brother has been spreading rumors about. That's what started the whole damn thing. They literally went through a list of about 20 people that they thought I liked. One of which was "Jeremy"'s 10 year old brother.
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I just saw him on Sunday but he was with his parents and I was with my mom so we didn't get talk. I'm not even sure if he saw me or not but we left like two minutes after I noticed him.
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So...Lot's have been going on in my mind but it's all about the same thing/topic/person. My brother plays in a 11-12 year old baseball team. Well some of the kids are 13 and my brother is the youngest. Well one of the 13 year olds is super nice and the cutest person ever. Well I am head over heels.
But now the season is over and since he's older they will not be on the same team next year. I was going to make a move at the championship game but my mom said I had other plans so I didn't get to have any kind of closure. I'm about to die. I am obsessed and he doesn't even know I like him...I think.
My brother has spread like four rumors that I like four different guys who play at his league (including my crushes little brother). Well my crush, lets say his name is Jeremy, thought I liked one of his friends because of my brother. I denied it and he didn't believe me so I told him that I would tell him who I actually liked but I won't because they play there. So he started guessing. So far he hasn't guesses himself. But at the game second to last he told me that he figured out who I like. So I asked who he thought it was. In the cutest way ever he say's
"I shall not tell". I kept asking and he kept saying the same thing
At first I was pissed but then I realized that he's been thinking about me. If he wasn't then how would he of "figured it out?". Then I thought that it may have been his way of making me think about him. And then I never saw him again. Of course I had been so excited for Saturday until my mom told me that morning that I wasn't going.
Me and his younger brother, the older of his two younger brothers, are good friends. I was with, let's say Lucas, and four of his teammates. All of a sudden one of his teammates said that Lucas like me. I said, "no he doesn't" and they stopped. But then two of them said that Jeremy like me and the other two said that he hates me. I asked why they think that and all of them said that Jeremy said so himself. I was wondering if they were lying because I don't know why he would talk about me. i asked Lucas about it...multiple times...and he never really said anything. Well one time he said that nothing would ever happen between me and Jeremy. I asked why and he said:
"He's too good for you"
I could not believe that he actually said that to me. I am his third best friend! (I'm only after god and his neighbor) I ask him about Paul all the time but he's never connected the dots very well. I have also told him that he looks exactly like his brother (it's too freaky) and I told Lucas that he's cute (he's a fourth grader so he knows that I don't like him). I've even said the cute thing right after the look alike thing and he still never figured it out.
There family is home-schooled. Which sucks because he doesn't go to my school but it's also good because I know that I don't have any competition. Jeremy said that I was pretty much the only girl that he knows. They are so sweet and stuff because they haven't been exposed to the cruelty of children. But Jeremy is the easiest person to talk to. I've talked to him for like a whole day before and it was the best day of my life. The killer sunburn was totally worth it. He made me laugh and feel worthy. But then the day was over and I went back to normal life. The one that I don't love to pieces.
Sorry this is so long but I could just go on about Jeremy for ages. He means EVERYTHING to me. he is my escape from the real world and I don't know what I would do without him. But now I have to find out. It would've been so much better if I could've gone to that last game and make my move, get his number, and tell him that I like him.
So lets see what happens to me sense he's been stripped out of my life for at least a year.