Dating Problems

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Kavy, remember your only 18! Focus on yourself and your needs right now, especially if you are feeling confused and frustrated before you bring another person into your life. Also remember, that being in a relationship or being a parent should be a life time commitment , as the years go by decide if that is what you are willing to do that? Especially with kids who will be depended on as a parent. But you have a life time to make this choice, don't stress over them now, and know that whatever you decide it will be right for you!

[NerdyJediGymnast]

I also agree!! Kavy dont worry you have time! Its understandable to stress about it but you dont need to think too hard about it. If you want a relationship now, thats ok, but the long term stuff dont stress. Leave it up to God because He always has a plan and is the best planner.

Try to find yourself before finding someone else
(oohh bars)

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

thanks guys

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

geez, did you tell that guy how you feel?

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

❄️Ƙανу тнє Ƒαℓℓєη Aηgєℓ❄️ (Ɓνвαяму) wrote: "so I'm asexual, I just found that out 4 days ago, and I'm not interested in any sexual stuff, I'm fine with cuddling and kissing or anything that involves sex. And I'm kind of confused with what I ..."

Janessa wrote: "Kavy, remember your only 18! Focus on yourself and your needs right now, especially if you are feeling confused and frustrated before you bring another person into your life. Also remember, that be..."

GeekyFreakyScientist wrote: "I agree completely (I'm feeling like I'm saying this more often) and if you don't want to be in a relationship with Johnny, then if you feel like you need a break take it to get your mind straight."

NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "I also agree!! Kavy dont worry you have time! Its understandable to stress about it but you dont need to think too hard about it. If you want a relationship now, thats ok, but the long term stuff d..."

the thing is, society has made it so that sex is inevitable in life, and I don't want that because I hate sex, and I'm not into it.

and another thing, I'm afraid that if I get into a relationship it might lead to something more, or the guy might leave or something because I won't be able to give them what they want because I'm asexual.

I need a guy who will be able to accept me for who I am, and won't force me into doing something I'm uncomfortable with, or won't leave me just because I can't give him what he wants.

^guys like that are hard to find

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

I trust Jon, he is a good guy and he's really nice, and I've known him for two years now, but he doesn't know about my sexuality yet, since I just found out, but I will tell him sometime

[NerdyJediGymnast]

❧ ωαяƖσяɗєѕѕ ❦ ѕƖу αѕ α fσx ☙ wrote: "Hey wassup y'all! It's your favorite fencer who has become a boy magnet apparently since she became a high schooler and now she has issues that need some serious help.

SO there's this guy in my En..."

OK there are many tatics to use here. Some will require help from friends

[NerdyJediGymnast]

You could:
#1: Say how you feel NICELY
#2: Ask a friend to tell him to back off
#3: Have your friends distract him so you can escape
#4: Find out if he for sure likes you (kinda clear but just in case)
#5: Just tell him straight up like, "YO! Back up!"

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

GeekyFreakyScientist wrote: "❄️Ƙανу тнє Ƒαℓℓєη Aηgєℓ❄️ (Ɓνвαяму) wrote: "❄️Ƙανу тнє Ƒαℓℓєη Aηgєℓ❄️ (Ɓνвαяму) wrote: "so I'm asexual, I just found that out 4 days ago, and I'm not interested in any sexual stuff, I'm fine with c..."

that is true

I will tell him soon

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

well, I just came out as panromantic.

[Jenna]

Ok, I don't know if this counts, because I'm not ready to date, but I have a crush, and I know he likes me (like %97 sure) and it's driving me insane, and I can't tell my friends because we're like the "No crush tomboys". Please Help.

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

Jenna wrote: "Ok, I don't know if this counts, because I'm not ready to date, but I have a crush, and I know he likes me (like %97 sure) and it's driving me insane, and I can't tell my friends because we're like..."

You should tell him how you feel.

[kavi ~he-him~, Phenomenal Poll Mod #2]

So I have a problem

I'm still in love with my best friend, Jonathan and I love him, but it's been 6 almost 7 months and idk whether I should let him go but keep our friendship, or whether I should just keep waiting. And I miss him. And I want to be with him, but it's been 6 months and idk if I can hold on any longer. it hurts. I've thought about just letting him go for now and seeing what happens. but idk. I don't think I can let him go. I tried letting him go twice it didn't work. I tried going for other guys, it didn't work. my love for him is too strong and unbreakable.

[Emily]

Ok... Sorry in advance...

We had a bonfire at our school, and my ex-crush introduced me to this guy. Then the next night, I saw the Same guy, Brandon, at the Homecoming Dance. Eventually, he asked me to dance, and I said yes. He was the only person I danced with that whole night. The next couple of days, we were flirting, and in Study Hall, he kind of started to ignore me. The next day, my ex-crush, Morgan told me that Brandon didn't like me, because he thought I would cheat on him. But I WOULD NEVER!!! I have been to scared to talk to Brandon since, and it's been a month or so. Should I leave him alone? We always make awkward eye contact in the halls, but I can never pull up the courage to ask, "Hey, Can We Talk About What Happened?" Should I let him go on with his life, or talk to him. I mean, he told me he really liked me and wished we had more classes together... I just can never work up any courage... HELP!!

[Jenna]

Hey guys

So I have a crush on this guy he's a year older than me and I rarely get to see him. My friend has a crush on him too and she sees him everyday. And my other friend doesn't know that either of us have a crush on him (me and my second friend know him sorta well) and I don't know what she'd say. So what do I do?

HELP ME THE LOVE TRIANGLE HURTS!!!