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Lavi
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May 09, 2017 06:56AM

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Can we report him?

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https://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/...


I didnt know How to report him. But I flagged the comment. So proud of myself😂😂😂😂😂 Hahaah. But that Cameron T is SHAMEEEEE
so I'm going off to college soon and most of my friends are going to different colleges, except for the guy I love, he's going to the same Uni as me, but I'm going to community college for a year, he's taking a gap year for 6 months and then he's coming to the same community college as me, for the spring semester but there are different campuses on different locations and I don't know which locations he is going to, and I have difficulties making new friends and I'm really shy, and I have trust issues, and it takes a while to open up to other ppl, and my parents want me to make new friends and I don't want any friends I want real friends, and I also want to join a band as a lead singer, and I need a guitarist, bassist, and a drummer, and because I have trust issues and I'm shy, it might be a problem because being in a band, it's like a second family, and stuff, but this is what I really want to do. Also, my shyness is gonna be a problem for being in a band because I'm still shy with my singing I can't really sing in front of other ppl. is there any tips on making new friends and any tips on overcoming my shyness in singing?

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NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "My whole life is a problem. Cant be fixed if you wanna try please do :)"
*Hugs both of you*
*To Shine* Reality sucks, I get that but, stay strong for you're friends and those you care about and who cares about you. Don't let negativity ruin positivity.
*To Nerdy* Ive heard all thats been happening to your life. I may not be able to fix it but I can make you feel better. You're loved by many people, including me, you may not think so or may feel like a mistake on this Earth but you're not. Nerdy, stay strong for us and your boyfriend, even if what your mother says hurts, you've always have us. I love you Nerdy.
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glad to hear it! I bet he's getting bored after a while of being mean."
I hope so
I'm not sure where to put this, but I'm pretty upset at the moment. I had a panic attack. I'm totally drained.
I can't stand it (my life) anymore!


If you feel sad, and cry. Well cry then, tears actually help. Sometimes people have to many emotions, crying doesn't make you weak!
Something is bothering me, and I don't know what it is, or who to talk to about how I am feeling at the moment. I feel depress or stress, and I shouldn't feel that way at the moment, because there shouldn't be anything to make me depress or to stress me out. I'm not sure who to talk to about it, because I don't know what to talk about it, or how to talk about it.

Feeling little depressed or just moody is normal. Maybe you could write about it? Well one thing that may help, is thinking positive. I know easier said than done, but think about what you are able to, what you like.
But talking is really good, maybe the weight is not on your shoulders anymore?

You could always talk to me. Stress and depressing feelings basically sum up my life for the past few months
Lavi wrote: "And you are used! Everybody is, remember that😊😊
If you feel sad, and cry. Well cry then, tears actually help. Sometimes people have to many emotions, crying doesn't make you weak!"
I don't like crying when there's adults in the room. That's why I cry in my bedroom or alone.
If you feel sad, and cry. Well cry then, tears actually help. Sometimes people have to many emotions, crying doesn't make you weak!"
I don't like crying when there's adults in the room. That's why I cry in my bedroom or alone.




The mechanic who looked at them informed me that the front brakes and both the rotors would have to be replaced, and I was told that, with labor, the cost would be over a $170.
I went to another place to see if I could get it done cheaper, but the other place actually gave me a higher estimate, so I went back to the first place to get it done.
I now have new brakes and new rotors, which I would be happy about—if it wasn't for the fact that I had to spend $173.17 to have them put in.
According to some calculations I did while they were changing the brakes, I won't have enough money to pay all my bills this month, and since all my bills are set up via auto-pay with my checking account, I'm going to end up in the negative—which means an overdraft fee.


The only bills that I haven't yet paid are my car insurance, my car payment, and DirecTV. I can't be late on insurance (and risk my policy being cancelled); if I'm late on my car payment my credit score will be affected (and possibly my interest rate on the loan I took to buy the car); and DirecTV now makes you pay extra if you are late on your bill (so I'd essentially be paying an overdraft fee either way).
I'm hoping I can sell enough stuff to pay all my bills. Yesterday, I got two prospective buyers in the ad for a stack of Harlequin books I put on the local classifieds. If that sell goes through, I'll keep putting more books up for sale...at least until I've depleted my expendable supply. I doubt I'll make a lot from this, but it's better than nothing.

Yes, it does. Though what really sucks is that I'm responsible with money and still end up in financial trouble—all thanks to something that I had no control over.
What makes it worse is that there are people who are the opposite of me—completely irresponsible when it comes to finances—but never get in debt, all thanks to them having friends and/or family willing to assist them. I used to be casual acquaintances with such a guy (he called me his friend, though that was mostly when he needed money).
In other news, my two kittens have terrible fleas. My mom and I gave them both a flea bath, though we could still see fleas on them, afterwards. Even though they are too young, we ended up putting a flea collar on both of them, because neither of us could stand to see them in such agony.