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message 1051:
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NerdyJediGymnast
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Jan 24, 2017 11:28AM
I GTG SEE HIM....ttyl..BYE
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GOOD LUCK NERDY
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I hug him a lot and he hugs me back but I still need to tell him I love him and figure out how to get him alone and figure out what to say and how to say it confidentially
Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "Tura wrote: "NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNnnoooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..."just go with the flow. whatever seem natural. or u could just say the truth to him. whatever works.
Eric wrote: "if i start writing my book would you guys please shoot me questions to help me keep writing?"
Yes!
Yes!
Cyn wrote: "No one will role-play with me :("
That's why I left a lot of RP groups. Everyone ignored me. In other words, they don't like what I RP.
That's why I left a lot of RP groups. Everyone ignored me. In other words, they don't like what I RP.
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Thanks. I'll try
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message 1060:
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "I'm dealing with Candida on my skin and I can't have sugar, carbs, or flour until it clears up. It's also in my gut line and now I have to take supplement pills."Hey shine, my dad has candida, so I get it. Hope you'll be okay.
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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Ummmmmm... soooooooo...I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show), and I'm way to obsessed with the Outsiders, and I read too much, and I forget to eat a lot because I'm so busy doing random other stuff that I just forget eating even exists, and I'm best friends with this girl, but we've been best friends for four years, and I've changed and we don't really have anything in common anymore, plus she's little sister to this guy I'm really really in love with, and I think he thinks of me as a little kid because I hang out with his little sister all the time, and I dunno what on earth I'm supposed to do, because I really enjoy talking to her sometimes, but other times I really don't, because all she talks about is guys, and I like guys as much as the next girl, but I don't want to talk about them 24/7, and besides that it's messing things up with me and her brother, and I just... I dunno. Also, I get into so many arguments with my parents and my sister because they always misinterpret what I'm trying to say, and sometimes maybe it's just my fault anyway, and I'm a bitter, bitter cynic, and on one hand I hate it, and on the other I get frustrated that nobody realizes that because if they did they might be inclined to think of me as less of a child, and I hate that more than almost anything else. I'm not a child. I understand the way people think and work too much to be a child, and I've been exposed to too much lying and throwing the other guy under the bus to be a child. And my family ruined me in some ways because i grew up hearing about all these people who just did all these righteous things for show, and it was true, but now i can't even bring myself to read my bible if anyone else is there, because I feel like they'll think i'm doing it just for show. i know they wouldn't think that, but i just still can't bring myself to do it. And there's no privacy in this house. you cant go into any room besides the bathroom and be alone, and i hate that. it's gotten a little better since my sister's at college most of the time, but still. and they're nosy. When I just want to think, i go into the bathroom and shut the door, because if i'm just sitting and not doing anything, they think something's wrong, when nothing really is, i'm just thinking. And i daydream too much. i get so lost in thought that sometimes i have to ask people to repeat themselves twice, because i'm lost in my own little world. and i love to daydream. it's like reading my favorite scene in a book, but i get to write it, and i get to see it in my head, and i get to be a part of it, but i feel like it's a bad thing. and they get worried about me a lot more than is necessary. i have scoliosis, and they get all worked up about it, and they get nervous when i sit on the rail of the porch (the back porch isn't very sturdy, the post is about four inches wide and about eight feet off the ground, but i keep my balance well), and it's kind of obnoxious. and i've never opened myself up like this, and there are still things i haven't said and won't say because they're just that awful.
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "I'm dealing with Candida on my skin and I can't have sugar, carbs, or flour until it clears up. It's also in..."
I hope my doctor's appointment goes well tomorrow. It's cleared (but I have wait until the doctor says I can eat SOME) now. But I'm craving.
I hope my doctor's appointment goes well tomorrow. It's cleared (but I have wait until the doctor says I can eat SOME) now. But I'm craving.
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Ummmmmm... soooooooo...
I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show), and I'm way to obsessed with the Outsid..."
Whoa, thank you for opening up about yourself.
I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show), and I'm way to obsessed with the Outsid..."
Whoa, thank you for opening up about yourself.
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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Yeah, I guess most people have trouble with their parents. I wish you a merry doctor's appointment and in my personal, highly professional medical opinion, would prescribe two dozen chocolate chip cookies every day for the next 200 years. XD
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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Trelas wrote: "Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Ummmmmm... soooooooo...I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show),..."
yeah, i feel kinda weird now...
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Ummmmmm... soooooooo...
I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show), and I'm way to obsessed with the Outsid..."
First of all, your not crazy, I like the Outsiders, I love older music, you don't read too much, reading too much is perfect, as crazy as this might seem, have a post-it note simply with huge letters saying 'EAT', talk to the man, stand up and say you like him, and most likely he doesn't think of you as a little girl, tell your friend very kindly that you don't just like talking about boys as much as she does, apologize to your family (im sorry if you do this but simply tell them that you have been frustrated with yourself and that you don't feel like your being understood, next, be yourself, if you don't want to read the bible cause you feel fake, don't force yourself and don't worry about everybody else thinking you are fake, you aren't, TELL your parents you like to day dream alot in the bathroom and that they shouldn't worry about you if you daydream at random if other people are talking.
I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show), and I'm way to obsessed with the Outsid..."
First of all, your not crazy, I like the Outsiders, I love older music, you don't read too much, reading too much is perfect, as crazy as this might seem, have a post-it note simply with huge letters saying 'EAT', talk to the man, stand up and say you like him, and most likely he doesn't think of you as a little girl, tell your friend very kindly that you don't just like talking about boys as much as she does, apologize to your family (im sorry if you do this but simply tell them that you have been frustrated with yourself and that you don't feel like your being understood, next, be yourself, if you don't want to read the bible cause you feel fake, don't force yourself and don't worry about everybody else thinking you are fake, you aren't, TELL your parents you like to day dream alot in the bathroom and that they shouldn't worry about you if you daydream at random if other people are talking.
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Yeah, I guess most people have trouble with their parents. I wish you a merry doctor's appointment and in my personal, highly professional medical opinion, would prescribe two dozen chocolate chip ..."
I'm dying to have a little bit of chocolate, but I have wait. Why's everything's so torturous?!
I'm dying to have a little bit of chocolate, but I have wait. Why's everything's so torturous?!
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Trelas wrote: "Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Ummmmmm... soooooooo...
I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow ..."
These are all thoughts and my feelings or suggestions.
I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow ..."
These are all thoughts and my feelings or suggestions.
message 1069:
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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DANG that's actually really helpful, Trelas... thanks.
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Yeah, I guess most people have trouble with their parents. I wish you a merry doctor's appointment and in my personal, highly professional medical opinion, w..."Stay strong... chocolate will come.
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Yeah, I guess most people have trouble with their parents. I wish yo..."YAASSSS CHOCOLATE
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Must. Stay. Strong."Why must you wait?
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Must. Stay. Strong."
Why must you wait?"
It's cleared, but I have to take the pills until the doctor says that I'm cured. THIS IS TORTUROUS! *inserts screaming Loki*
Why must you wait?"
It's cleared, but I have to take the pills until the doctor says that I'm cured. THIS IS TORTUROUS! *inserts screaming Loki*
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Must. Stay. Strong."Why must you wait?"
It's cleared, but I have to take the pil..."
NOOOOO!!!! CHOCOLATE IS GOOD FOR YOU!! Dark chocolate at least...many health benefits!
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "DANG that's actually really helpful, Trelas... thanks."
No problem
No problem
Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "Ummmmmm... soooooooo...I'm really really messed up. I listen to nothing but Dwight Yoakam music (with the occasional Johnny Cash or Old Crow Medicine Show), and I'm way to obsessed with the Outsid..."
Hey! I totally get the reading too much and not being into talking about guys nonstop. I like the suggestion to stick post-its in your book for reminders. You should remind yourself to go for a quick walk or eat something or text a friend too. As for the boy-talk, I'd say try and find another topic to interest your friends. Introduce her to a show or book you like and then you could talk about that! Hope that helps a little, good luck and enjoy some chocolate :)
Trelas wrote: "Amanda-buckybarneswintersoldier wrote: "DANG that's actually really helpful, Trelas... thanks."No problem"
You have lots of great tips... even if they weren't meant for me. Thanks. :D
Today (tonight), I have youth group. Of course, Josh and Ben will be there... I don't have many problems with talking to Josh, I just struggle to talk to Ben. I used to say hi to him all the time (this was right after summer camp, when I wasn't shy for a while). Now I don't talk to him at all unless I need to. I'm too nervous to go up to him. *freaking out*
Also, Crystal needs tips on how to approach her guy. :3
ℋαωкєує wrote: "Today (tonight), I have youth group. Of course, Josh and Ben will be there... I don't have many problems with talking to Josh, I just struggle to talk to Ben. I used to say hi to him all the time (..."Ok girl, here's what you do: You walk up in there PROUD and CONFIDENT. Give 'erbody smiles and say "Hi!" to 'erbody...THEN you MUST say hi to Ben because you already did to everone else! :D
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I like that idea :D
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too many books on my tbr pile not enough time to get around to reading them all :(
I have so many fictional crushes but I married to one of them, a celebrity crush and someone I love irl.
I have fictional characters as best friends and family members and siblings.
The fictional worlds aren't real :(
Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "My problems:too many books on my tbr pile not enough time to get around to reading them all :(
I have so many fictional crushes but I married to one of them, a celebrity crush and someone I love..."
Aw Kavy *hugs*
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "My problems:too many books on my tbr pile not enough time to get around to reading them all :(
I have so many fictional crushes but I marri..."
That reminds me: Whats up with Gameslayer O_o No problems there right?
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message 1087:
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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And cookies... you should bring cookies.
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too many books on my tbr pile not enough time to get around to reading them all :(
I have so many fict..."
No I love Gameslayer, I didn't get to tell him I love him yesterday and he's gonna have a different lunch period today cause he has a different lunch period on wednesdays but I'll be seeing him during anime club, but I just love fictional characters XD Except for Umbridge and Octavian.
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YESSSSSS
Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset wrote: "And cookies... you should bring cookies."Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset wrote: "And cookies... you should bring cookies."
YESSSSSS"
THATS MEEE :D
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Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "My problems:too many books on my tbr pile not enough time to get around to reading them al..."
Ok so at Anime Club, sit next to him or whatever and just chat...you CAN be flirty but not TOO flirty
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "ℋαωкєує wrote: "Today (tonight), I have youth group. Of course, Josh and Ben will be there... I don't have many problems with talking to Josh, I just struggle to talk to Ben. I used to say hi to hi..."xD
I can try that. lol
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too many books on my tb..."
Okay, I don't even know how to flirt XD and I also think flirting is weird despite the fact that I think I was sorta flirting with my book last night XD I'm not sure, don't judge me....I talk to my books sometimes XD And I hug them tightly like they are my babies and whenever something happens to them like I either accidentally drop them or spill something on them. I'm like: *picks up books and hugs them tightly* I'm so sorry my love XD
ℋαωкєує wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "ℋαωкєує wrote: "Today (tonight), I have youth group. Of course, Josh and Ben will be there... I don't have many problems with talking to Josh, I just struggle to talk to Be..."YAASSSS
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Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset
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Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "My problems:..."lol I do that too
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Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "My problems:..."Ok...scratch flirting *scratches off board*
Walk in and be like "Wassup y'all?" You know, make HEADS turn. Sit NEXT TO GAMESLAYER!!! Thats crucial
Amanda-I dream of a gallant southern gentleman watching the sunset wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Kavy Jackson..."SAME
I might as well admit it im addicted to love. JK (anyone know that song...)
