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NerdyJediGymnast
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Jan 20, 2017 06:54PM
So we went to the food stand, grabbed a blue Gatorade and after that he lead me towards a part of the school I didnt know
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Im homeschooled and I aint NEVER been to a school unless it was for games and my dad works at The Boys school, so I go to see them sometimes. So when Michael took me to some locker area or some place I kinda was like O.O WOOOOOOWWW
Michael: C'mere....*pats seat next to him*Me *sits and looks at his hair* Its all messed up again, I'll fix it.
I did his hair for the basketball game. I asked him will I fixed his braids, "Why are we here? I have to leave soon Michael."
Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "..."
I have in the past, but it keeps coming back on a certain: day, month, week, year. Plus the horror nightmares that makes things worse, because it feels real. Whenever the horror nightmares ended, I wake up crying in the middle of the night.
I have in the past, but it keeps coming back on a certain: day, month, week, year. Plus the horror nightmares that makes things worse, because it feels real. Whenever the horror nightmares ended, I wake up crying in the middle of the night.
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, Ave..."I wish I knew what would help, sister.
Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "..."
Prehaps prayer for now. And then, figure something out.
Prehaps prayer for now. And then, figure something out.
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Michael: C'mere....*pats seat next to him*Me *sits and looks at his hair* Its all messed up again, I'll fix it.
I did his hair for the basketball game. I asked him will I fixed his braids, "Why ..."
Okay, so you like him? Okay so think about these three things: One, Is he just flirty and likes to flirt with everyone or does he actually like you? You gotta observe to for that one, but you mentioned how your sister tries to get with Michael so if he doesn't flirt with her I think you're good. Two, prepare yourself for both reactions because you don't want to make it where you can't talk to him at the end of whatever response he gives. Third, ask the question. (Side comment: I think he likes you based on what you've told me, but I'm no good at human emotions so.... it only matters what him and you thinks. Also another side comment I love that you braid his hair. I love braids XD. Okay, sorry. Unhelpfulness 101.)
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Abigail H. wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, Ave..."I will pray, and mum says she will.
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Michael: C'mere....*pats seat next to him*Me *sits and looks at his hair* Its all messed up again, I'll fix it.
I did his hair for the basketball game. I asked him will ..."
OMG I KNOW HE DOES!! He said, "I had to show you something I dont want the boys to see." He held my arms and KISSED ME
Sorry Im just getting back..I had get downstairs and had chores to do or else "YOU AINT GOIN TO SEE TOMORROW" XD
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Michael: C'mere....*pats seat next to him*Me *sits and looks at his hair* Its all messed up again, I'll fix it.
I did his hair for the basketball game. I asked him will ..."
And I dont know...I like him A LOT. But Im still a little scared to fully show my feelings
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Michael: C'mere....*pats seat next to him*Me *sits and looks at his hair* Its all messed up again, I'll fix it.
I did his hair for the basketball game. I as..."
OMG WOW. OMG OMG. AHHHHHHHHHHH. I FANGIRLING OVER HUMANS. WAIT WAIT WAIT, SO WHAT'S THE PROBLEM THEN??? YOU LIKE HIM, HE LIKES YOU. YOU KISSED. AM I MISSING SOMETHING???
I mean thats Michael...he's like FAMILY. I tell him just about everything
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Michael: C'mere....*pats seat next to him*Me *sits and looks at his hair* Its all messed up again, I'll fix it.
I did his hair for the basketball game. I as..."
OHHHHHHH YOU'RE SCARED TO SHOW YOUR FEELINGS. NOW THAT I UNDERSTAND. YOU SHOULD TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. BE HONEST AND SAY SOMETHING LIKE, "YO I LIKE YOU BUT I'M NOT COMPLETELY READY TO SHOW MY FEELINGS."
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Sorry Im just getting back..I had get downstairs and had chores to do or else "YOU AINT GOIN TO SEE TOMORROW" XD"IT'S ALRIGHT. :D
So when he kissed me, I was so shocked I fell out my seat! "Michael!" NEVER IN MY LIFE has ANYONE ever kissed me. He's my first kiss. He said, "Im sorry, I just HAD to....You're really nice to me and make me feel better when stuff pisses me off. I like it when you hang out with us and when you listen to me and whatever..."
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "I mean that's Michael...he's like FAMILY. I tell him just about everything"Do you only feel a family relationship with him?
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Sorry Im just getting back..I had get downstairs and had chores to do or else "YOU AINT GOIN TO SEE TOMORROW" XD"IT'S ALRIGHT. :D"
NOOOOO! THAT'S THE PROBLEM!!! My parents wont let me date yet! And if they find out about the kiss, I wouldnt talk to the boys anymore
My dad is their COACH! He''d make the practice for them a legit living NIGHTMARE if he finds out!
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Sorry Im just getting back..I had get downstairs and had chores to do or else "YOU AINT GOIN TO SEE TOMORROW" XD"IT'S ALRIGHT. :D"
NOOOOO! THAT'S THE PROBLE..."
OHHHHHH. DAMN IT. Does he know you're not allowed to date? If not, tell him. Tell him how you feel and tell him that you hope you guys could date in the future (if that's true) but for not that you'd just like to be friends.
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "I mean that's Michael...he's like FAMILY. I tell him just about everything"Do you only feel a family relationship with him?"
Not really... its weird. I dont WANT to just be family but I kinda do
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Sorry Im just getting back..I had get downstairs and had chores to do or else "YOU AINT GOIN TO SEE TOMORROW" XD"IT'S ALRIGHT. :D"
..."
YES HE KNOWS!!!!! HE KNOWS EVERYTHING!! He KNOWS my dad would KILL him if he knows.
And I really have ZERO clue what to do...I like him but its complicated
He likes me, no regrets
I cant date
He dates me he dies
We kissed
AAAAHHHHHHHHHHH
And I dont like keeping things from my parents, cause now everytime I see them and Im with my fam, it'll get weird
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "And I really have ZERO clue what to do...I like him but its complicated
He likes me, no regrets
I cant date
He dates me he dies
We kissed
AAAAHHHHHHHHHHH"
Hmm, ask him if he'd wait for you to decide how you feel and if he'd wait to date until you're allowed to date. But then again, this goes back to the preparation thing, know that he might not. Though, I guess there is no way to actually prepare feelings so perhaps that's not the best advice.
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "And I really have ZERO clue what to do...I like him but its complicated
He likes me, no regrets
I cant date
He dates me he dies
We kissed
AAAAHHHHHHHHHHH"
Hmm, ask him..."
Im so stressed!
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "And I dont like keeping things from my parents, cause now everytime I see them and Im with my fam, it'll get weird"Hmm, maybe try to be honest? Don't tell them about the kiss first though, Just say something like you sorta have feelings for Michael.
When we went back to the basketball court, surprisingly most people was still there I think cause another game was going on. My dad was still talking to random folks since EVERYONE knows him
Then again I don't know how strict your parents are...
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "And I dont like keeping things from my parents, cause now everytime I see them and Im with my fam, it'll get weird"Hmm, maybe try to be honest? Don't tell them about the ..."
Ok......
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "When we went back to the basketball court, surprisingly most people was still there I think cause another game was going on. My dad was still talking to random folks since EVERYONE knows him"I was KINDA holding Michael's hand and my older sis came over and was like, "Where did you go?" *glances at Michael*
Michael: Just hangin out.....Sister: Oh really? Where did-
Michael: Hey is that Chance the Rapper you listenin to? He's great..
Sister: Oh yeah, well I think its pretty good *slightly pushes me aside to talk*
Erin wrote: "Then again I don't know how strict your parents are..."They're not strict but when it comes to dating....NO EXCEPTIONS
@Nerdy: I'm almost 20 and I'm still not allowed to date yet.
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "@Nerdy: I'm almost 20 and I'm still not allowed to date yet."THE STRUGGLE IS WAY TOO REAL
But Michael is honestly a sweetheart. And I just cant get around this dating rule :(
NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "@Nerdy: I'm almost 20 and I'm still not allowed to date yet."
THE STRUGGLE IS WAY TOO REAL"
One of my best friends already has a boyfriend. And she's two years younger than me. It's not fair! Pretty soon all my best friends (all girls and they're 1 to 2 years younger than me) would have their boyfriends! Except me! *goes into despair*
THE STRUGGLE IS WAY TOO REAL"
One of my best friends already has a boyfriend. And she's two years younger than me. It's not fair! Pretty soon all my best friends (all girls and they're 1 to 2 years younger than me) would have their boyfriends! Except me! *goes into despair*
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NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "But Michael is honestly a sweetheart. And I just cant get around this dating rule :("Hmm, I keep saying this but just be honest and tell him that you really like him but that you don't want to break your parents rule.
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THE STRUGGLE IS WAY ..."
I dated someone despite not being allowed to date until I'm 18 or 21 and my parents knew about it O_O
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "@Nerdy: I'm almost 20 and I'm still not allowed to date yet."THE STRUGGLE IS WAY ..."
UGH! UNFAIR
Kavy Jackson Fullbuster ~So everybody come on~ wrote: "O_O WOAHHHHHHHHH NERDY TELL THAT GUY IF HE HURTS YOU I'LL HURT HIM"O_O I WILL XD
Erin wrote: "NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "But Michael is honestly a sweetheart. And I just cant get around this dating rule :("Hmm, I keep saying this but just be honest and tell him that you really like him but ..."
*sigh* I might have to do that...
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I almost wish I could just go "Bad Girl" and date him, but that'd be wrong.....
GAAAHH WHAT ARE THESE FEELINGS?!!?!?!?!?
He's amazing! He sends me all kinds of sweet stuff through email since he know I aint gotta phone.
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I'm not allowed to date either... I'm only 14 (almost 15). I don't need to be thinking about guys right now.
PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Erin wrote: "PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "I'm starting to be afraid of sleeping."So am I."
I've had sleep paralyzing many times to whe..."
Night terrors? Or worse... I know night terrors is something that only younger kids usually get, but you never know. I'd recommend talking to your parents or your pastor about this. <3 I'm praying for you, Shine!
