Maryse's Book Blog WolfPack/Bridesmaids Meeting Place discussion
Miscellaneous Chatter
>
General - Anything and Everything
message 401:
by
Melinda
(new)
Jul 22, 2017 07:59PM

reply
|
flag
we use matrix stuff when we straighten our hair. my daughter and I both have naturally curly hair.
Yes, I have 2 products that I do not really like right now. One I've had for over a year, lol. It is almost done and think I am finally going to toss the last little bit.
I do not straighten. I just do not have the patience.
I do not straighten. I just do not have the patience.

ARE YOU HIGH MAINTENANCE
shower everyday 3 points
Shower for 30 min 5 points
Do your hair everyday 3 points
Do your hair 20 min plus 5 points
Put lipstick on everyday 7 points
Put makeup on everyday 3 points
Put makeup on 15 min plus 5 points
Nails always done 5 points
Nails done professionally 7 points
Pedicure done regularly 7 points
Wax 5 points
Wax done professionally 5 points
Massage regularly 7 points
HAir done by a professionally once a month 10 points
Eyelash extensions 10 points
Tanning 10 points
More than one outfit a day 10 points
High heels everyday 10 points
How,any points are you? Loved it. I was 64 with no 30 min showers😳


8-11,lol.
Sometimes 30 min but def everyday.
I scrunch gel into wet hair and let it airdry. Not sure how much of a do that is.
Sometimes 30 min but def everyday.
I scrunch gel into wet hair and let it airdry. Not sure how much of a do that is.

I have a crazy weird thing with smells. It started when I was pregnant with my son and it never went away. (He just turned 17) I cannot tolerate perfume (on me or anyone sitting close to me), scented deodorant or any new hair products now that my hair is long again. I only use Joico k-pak products because that is the smell I am used to.
So funny, this group of 20-something women sat down behind us at a restaurant yesterday and I was gagging on perfume smell and my son & husband couldnt even smell it.






No make up for me either. And never high heels.
I love scent but from body lotions and oils.
I love scent but from body lotions and oils.

My hair is sometimes like Bev's. I occasionally put Mousse in it. No gray so no point in dying it. I'd have to bleach it to get it a fun color and then maintain it, but maybe
My idea of doing nails is keep them trimmed and rounded so I don't accidentally stab someone. *looks at nails**could totally slash someone currently*
That said, I love collecting nail polish for when the mood hits. Seriously I want go nuts if I see a color I like, even if I have a shade near it. No idea why; just do.
Oh hair. I'm simple. Pantene Pro-V for curly hair.

Melinda, your three daughters. Wow. I have three sons, What a different experience of motherhood we have LOL. I have been the lone female in a male household for years. It took some getting used to as I have 2 sisters and shared a bedroom with one of them growing up, so I was used to lots of girly things around me. Now, not so much.......
3 sons and 3 daughters.
Anyone else see the start of a romance series?
Anyone else see the start of a romance series?



No tan for me.
my poor husband says he doesn't have one good week because of the menstral cycles in the house. Omg the moods. And the cost buying all that stuff Jan. One thing you wouldn't have to worry about. The formals and the Debs. It costs a fortune having 3 girls.

I can't imagine dealing with three girls. Emotions!!

You would have been very spoilt. The youngest of both the families.
You are the living Brady Brunch twice over.
On Facebook it said share if you have a special daughter so I shared it and the arguments started with one daughter saying she was the special daughter then another commented saying why couldn't we all be.then another one saying no it's me. So I had to interject saying you all are. Omg kills me.
Melinda, you should of told them no and then followed up with a "Surprise! It's a girl" notice.
And we are naming her Orlando.
And we are naming her Orlando.

Tessa your blended family sounds amazing. LOL to Melinda's *almost* Brady bunch. I'm from a family of three girls and two boys as well.
And yeah, Melinda, 3 girls. OMG I didn't think about all the menstrual cycles. Your husband must be a saint.

You would have been very spoilt. The youngest of both the familie..."
lol They want to be the favorite.
And for the most part, nope. We did when I was just born, but most left. Then we moved to Southern CA when I was four, and that's when all left except for those of us who were underage, (four of us).
Most of my siblings are much older than me. Some are even old enough to be my parents. lol The older ones are like, 22,21,20, etc older than me while the last three are 12, 8, and 5 years older than me. Though, yep! Spoiled. I was the baby and the love child. :D
Must be why we get along so well, Tessa. I'm the baby too... Of 4 brothers... That was really more like 5 because my parents practically raised another one boy who grew up with my brothers. But they are all much older than me too - I was really pretty much an only, at times lol!
Birth orders, I wonder how much of an effect they have.



A day or two after they found my mom's benign brain tumor last week, my sister had to call an ambulance (she was staying with my sister because of her headache and not being able to sleep). She was having trouble urinating on top of everything else and was just miserable.
I think I mentioned last week that my mom is a very young, active, and independent 72. She's lived alone for 30 years, and up until 4 months ago, she was going to a cardiac exercise class 3 times a week, and she's never smoked, taken drugs, or had an alcoholic drink. She's also a 17-year breast cancer survivor.
So they FINALLY admitted her (after 4 ER trips in 10 days). After doing many tests, they've found:
1) The brain tumor may not be a meningioma, may not be benign
2) She has a cyst on her adrenal gland
3) She has a nodule on her right parotid gland (salivary)
4) She has a cyst the size of a grapefruit on her right ovary
5) She had stroke the afternoon the ambulance came to get her (last Wednesday).
So...they did a PET scan yesterday to show them any cancer in her body. We are waiting for the results, which one of her doctors will give sometime today.
The stroke didn't leave any problems with her speech or any paralysis, which is a blessing. They are still doing tests to try to figure out what caused it.
The only reason I'm home right now and taking an extra moment to get on my laptop is because I had my monthly biopsy yesterday. I was told to go home afterward and get some rest, which I did last night, and I'll be going back to the hospital in a few hours.
I know this is a given, but I would like to ask for extra special prayers for my mom and my sister (she's spending the most time at the hospital because I'm just not physically able to be there all the time and my brother, who tries, is a man and just doesn't know what to do).
My mom is not herself AT ALL (which is understandable). We haven't seen even a glimpse of the real her since she was admitted, and she's in constant head pain and has a lot of nausea that they can't seem to get rid of. She's depressed and not eating or moving around, and we're trying to find that fine line between tough love and being too hard on her (because we're not sure how much of anything is being caused by any of these growths in her body or the stroke, but hopefully, the PET scan results will give us some valuable information.)

My eldest daughter is studying nuclear medicine. Which is related very closely to pet scans and undoubtedly you will get a result either way and then they can commence the correct method of treatment.
But you have to remember to look after yourself. Just one day at a time.
Medicine is so fantastic now and progressing rapidly. The stroke is probably causing your mums behaviour problems. I'm sure she's very unwell. Just go with it.
My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight. Lots of hugs and kisses.

I hope everything goes well with your mon and as always you are in my thoughts.
*sending hugs, prayers and positive energy you way*

(hugs) oh my sweet. I am so sorry to hear of all of the troubles your mom has been facing. However... I must echo all of everyone's sentiments here, and you know your mom would agree...you have to take care of you first before you can take care of anyone else. It sucks... but it has to be done. I will pray and send all of my positive thoughts to you and your family. Please keep us as updated as you can. (hugs)


We just got the results of the PET scan and it's not good. They are still calling the brain tumor a benign meningioma, but the mass in her pelvis is cancer. And in addition to that, she has a cancerous spot on her lungs, and she has bone cancer in her femur, rib, spine, and bony pelvis.
My sister is at the hospital with her right now and gave her the news, and Mom said she knew (and we knew she knew). And as would be expected, she's not handling the news well at all. So the oncologist will come by today to give us a game plan.
My dear, wonderful husband is coming home from work early to take me down there to be with her for a bit, and then I'll come back home and rest (the best I can) for the rest of the night. I'm taking your advice, and I WON'T let myself get run down. I'm not going to risk my new heart, believe me!
I will pop in as much as I can, but I just don't know how it's going to be the next few weeks. Really, we won't know anything until we speak with the oncologist today.
So please keep praying, and I'll check in as soon as I can with any news. And thank you all again in advance for EVERYTHING!! I love you all!!
(hugs) Oh Nay... I am so so sorry. I am praying for peace and no pain for your mom...and sending my wishes of strength and hope and love to you and your family. Please know that I am never further than a text message away. (hugs)
Oh, Nay. My heart breaks for you.
First, yes take care of your health.
It is horribly hard to see a parent not act like themselves.
I lost my mom almost 5 years ago now. All I can say is just love on her.
First, yes take care of your health.
It is horribly hard to see a parent not act like themselves.
I lost my mom almost 5 years ago now. All I can say is just love on her.

Stay positive and take care. Lots and lots of hugs and prayers.
Books mentioned in this topic
For Lucy (other topics)Ruthless Creatures (other topics)
Carnal Urges (other topics)
Malice (other topics)
Ruthless Creatures (other topics)
More...
Authors mentioned in this topic
Peggy Claude-Pierre (other topics)C.J. Martín (other topics)
C.J. Martín (other topics)
C.J. Martín (other topics)
C.J. Martín (other topics)
More...