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Shaved or unshaved? (ponders for a long moment, sips coffee, hmmmmm?!)
It's a personal choice, best discussed with your intimate partner(s) before making a firm decision.




women should also do their part to combat global warming.

Random tidbit - the Scots have a wonderful dialect word for arm pit - ockster.

was video chatting with a male friend yesterday and he raised his arm to have a drink. what I saw made me think razor bla..."
You probably love watching gymnastic or swimming competitions I guess -:)
And why exactly men have nipples? Tail could be way more useful -:)

male boobs . . . hmmm nil comment [definitely nsfw]

Haha, that's great!

What else? Should they lisp, carry a purse, wear a bra, hide behind you in times of danger?
My wife preferred being married to a MAN. Most women we knew are the same way and they are indeed married to real men.
(Smell of testosterone emanates from the cave) :-D

What else? Should they lisp, carry a purse, wear a bra, hide behind you in times of danger?
My wife preferred bein..."
(i'm not making fun of your name, Al, but in the context of the discussion, your moniker, "Tank", reminded me that I should read this graphic novel, Tank Girl.)
i don't think that Tank Girl has armpit hair, does she?


but i think that the important thing to note is that it is culturally mediated as Jen pointed out. in addition, we can see that reflected in many forms of media. however, appearance, including armpit hair, is less important in mainly textual--as opposed to graphic novels and manga--books than in visual arts.
furthermore, it's intimately tied to the Dress Codes and Gender: Body Policing or Human Nature thread.
Jen wrote: "Arm pit shaving has only become a cultural necessity in the West in the past 40 years or so, I don't see why anyone should feel obliged to do so. It's news to me too about men shaving their armpits..."
do you have a source? i'd be interested in reading about this topic.
Al "Tank" wrote: "Zee wrote: "One of my non-negotiable conditions for 'my' men is shaved armpits!"
What else? Should they lisp, carry a purse, wear a bra, hide behind you in times of danger?
My wife preferred bein..."
Uh, I'm sorry, Al 'Tank', but I have seen big, hulking men break down to pieces in combat situations in war zones, while tiny women kept their cool and did their job. Size and physical strength has nothing to do with courage or ability, while modern wars more and more need bright, quick-thinking people.
What else? Should they lisp, carry a purse, wear a bra, hide behind you in times of danger?
My wife preferred bein..."
Uh, I'm sorry, Al 'Tank', but I have seen big, hulking men break down to pieces in combat situations in war zones, while tiny women kept their cool and did their job. Size and physical strength has nothing to do with courage or ability, while modern wars more and more need bright, quick-thinking people.

do tell.
so, i suppose that puts to rest the argument against allowing women in combat units and even in mixed gender as long as they meet the requirements.
The Canadian Forces have had women in combat units, including infantry, for years now, with many serving (and dying) in Afghanistan before Canada retired from the mission. If they meet the requirements, then women can take the job. I am sorry to say that American forces have been years behind many other NATO countries in this regard. For those who may say that this makes the Canadian Forces, or any other military using women in combat trades, somehow inferior, then I would tell them to look at the combat record of the Canadian Forces. Enough with the machismo bragging!

do you have a source? i'd be interested in reading about this topic. "
Just empirical observation, Alex. In my youth only women shaved their armpits, men didn't; I remember reading an article about the new phenomenon of men shaving/waxing their body (other than facial hair) in the late 1990s. I also remember watching an Olympic opening ceremony, late 70s/early 80s and seeing all the Eastern Bloc female athletes doing the Olympic salute, underarm hair in abundance and that seemed really bizarre to me. I guess they all shave/wax now.
(Edit - you can find a research paper on pretty much anything now, I'm sure that there's The Social History of Armpit Shaving somewhere.)

What else? Should they lisp, carry a purse, wear a bra, hide behind you in times of danger?
My wife preferred bein..."
Is it armpit hair that makes a man a man? Sheesh, can't we account for personal preference here?
Books mentioned in this topic
Tank Girl (other topics)Crops and Carbon: Paying Farmers to Combat Climate Change (other topics)
was video chatting with a male friend yesterday and he raised his arm to have a drink. what I saw made me think razor blades were never invented for guys.
what I want to know is, why do guys feel the need to NOT shave their underarm? birds could live in there. my friend was proud to share that he only shaves his underarm twice a year. what gives?