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As a reader, what do you get from reading romance novels?
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2)The other aspects is that it helps us to relive the sweet nature of falling in love period. Once you get married or get into a relationship after sometime the initial craving just fades away and often we can't provide good time to our spouses or partners because of our other involvement in our daily life, So a good romance book helps us to forget the bitterness and mental tiredness we experience in our personal life.
3)Last but not the least we could imagine(as no risk is involved in imagination) ourselves in a situation(specially in romantic suspense)where we could get to play the smart,witty and daring female protagonist(irrespective of our personal nature and appearance) to have the roller coaster thrilling experience of the novel with a handsome and protective hero to protect us.


exactly, the same situation here :)




We don't get that in real life. Couples fall in love. Couples get married. Some fall out of love. There are infidelities, break ups. Divorce. And all of that is just what can happen in a relationship. There are the other issues in the wider world to deal with as well. In other words, the HEA is not guaranteed.
So I take it where I can get it.
I have to admit, I do get annoyed when the love is not realistic (the dialogue is chessy, the romance over the top) but still give me a love story over anything else any day.


I can't answer for everyone...but I can answer for myself.
I don't read a wide range of romance novels. In truth my knowledge of the romance genre is fairly limited to Nora Roberts/J.D. Robb and a few supernatural romance stories that I fall back on whenever I get the need for something with magic.
So why Nora? Why do I find myself reading her work more than many others? Because she doesn't just write about romance.
I could pick up any purply-prose Harlequin book with a half naked couple intimately embracing on the cover. I could escape for a 110 pages of heaving bosoms and getting rescued from disinterested husbands. So why Nora?
Because calling Nora Roberts work 'romance' is about as accurate as calling kobe a steak. Technically accurate but still vaguely undermining.
The average N.R. series revolves around a group of women bound be friendship or by blood who go through a situation together and often overcome. The women aren't pitted against each other nor do they undermine one another's differences. Which is a really wonderful change of pace from the average book out there. This shows sororital love.
Often these same women have careers and homes they are, or grow to be, proud of. They are happy and fulfilled people who go through a few obstacles to achieve their dreams. This shows the value of personal or self-love.
During the course of this, of course, the women find romantic love.
So I read Ms. Roberts for the comfort that her prose offers. Not just the message 'love matters' but that 'all kinds of love matter'.

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